Question for men, are you willing to take the risk

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As someone who has had sex with two married women (with their husband's explicit permission) I will say no. In one case she had had hysterectomy after child birth issues, and we still used condoms for STDs as she was a swinger and I was active with other women. The other woman was on the shot style of birth control, and we still used condoms, both for back up birth control and stds.
 

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There is no honest and comprehensive answer to this question without considering the 'child responsibility issues'.

I totally agree here. Discounting that aspect makes this a wildly theoretical issue far removed from real world possibilities. If I'm reading between the lines correctly, the OP may be insinuating that the purpose was to help the married woman conceive a child--something her husband is unable or unwilling to do. But even then, if you fathered a child, you fathered a child, and there are still ethical, legal, and emotional elements which can't be discounted.
 

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ummm Fire's question is related to a cuckolding fetish. impregnation or being impregnated by the bull is a common fantasy.

were i man? hell no.

eta: since this commercial started running, i've started relying on post history more than verifications
 
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My question was very clear. Many of us have all kinds of sexual fantasies and some carry out those fantasies in real life. If you are engaged in sexual lifestyle involving a married couple, are you willing to take the risk in having sex with that woman knowing she might get pregnant.

Leaving the responsibility issues out of it, means you don't have to worry about the child's well being or future.

Guys please spare me the bad dirty sexual fantasies. I hate it when some of you just jump to conclusions.

Of course you have to know the woman and her husband, you not going to do it through a glory hole, Its not about sperm donation or infertility, sperm can be ordered online these days without even going to a clinic.

OK what if you know the couple well and know for sure if a conception happens as a result the child will be brought up in a normal family life with a good secured future.

Don't throw the legal stuff around here. There will be a mutual agreement between you and the couple about what would be best for the child.

AND NO NO NO ..
THIS IS NOT ABOUT A SEXUAL FANTASY OF GETTING PREGNANT FOR THE SAKE OF IT ...

I hope I made it more clear now
 

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kness. :smile:

considering you asked on an open forum, ya put all types of restrictions on responses. ya are gonna get a very limited pool of opinion.

although you didn't intend ya question to cross over into a discussion of fetish/lifestyle play... ya whole post reads like fantasy play from a cuckolding scene. for true. expect more than few of the people saying "yes, i would" are likey to have cuckolding kink.
 

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So I doubt that I would do it if all I knew was that you're a married woman wanting a baby. I'd want to know at least a little about your intelligence and personality before I knowingly impregnated you.

The other factor comes from your qualifier, "Leave out the child responsibility issues.". In one sense, that would be a fundamental requirement. I would require some kind of assurance that I don't incur legal or financial responsibility for little Theophrastus. But at the same time, simply because young Farquhar is a person - not just MY kid - I want to know that he will be raised with respect, consideration, and affection. Whether or not your husband knows the circumstances of Murgatroyd's conception, I'd want to know that both you and your husband were willing to have and support a child.

Having satisfied those two conditions I'd consider satisfying your desire for a child.

The only answer I can give to all your questions is YES YES YES YES YES
and YES the HUSBAND knows about it and big part of it. With one NO answer (this is not Murgatroyd's conception)

At last we have someone on the same frequency. Thank you
 

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kness. :smile:

considering you asked on an open forum, ya put all types of restrictions on responses. ya are gonna get a very limited pool of opinion.

although you didn't intend ya question to cross over into a discussion of fetish/lifestyle play... ya whole post reads like fantasy play from a cuckolding scene. for true. expect more than few of the people saying "yes, i would" are likey to have cuckolding kink.

Of course that kind of misunderstanding always happens, you ask one thing and you get all kinds of answers and criticisms.
 

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If she is willing to have unprotected sex with me then she is willing to do it with others and thus that leads down the road to whoredom/stds

So id pass.
 

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If she is willing to have unprotected sex with me then she is willing to do it with others...

You beat me to it.

Even if I could wave a magic wand and not have to worry about pregnancy, there's still HIV, syphilis, Hep C, gonorrhea, herpes, and any other kind of crazy cooties that cooter could be packing. I would never bang a stranger - let alone a married stranger - without strapping my dick up. wtf.
 

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Even if I could wave a magic wand and not have to worry about pregnancy, there's still HIV, syphilis, Hep C, gonorrhea, herpes, and any other kind of crazy cooties that cooter could be packing. I would never bang a stranger - let alone a married stranger - without strapping my dick up. wtf.

What if there is no STD issue ( if all involved tested and clear)

For your second question about a "banging a stranger". What if you get to know her well enough and she wont be a complete stranger to you.
 
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If she is willing to have unprotected sex with me then she is willing to do it with others and thus that leads down the road to whoredom/stds

So id pass.

So if you meet a girl and you like each other enough knowing you both STD free and she like to have sex with you, would that make her a whore.
 

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At last we have someone on the same frequency. Thank you
You are welcome. Whether the original question was primarily speculative (with no specific intention to carry through), or based on an active plan in progress, it seemed like a genuine question and deserved an honest, respectful answer.

(Didn't I mention something about comparable mental and intellectual abilities between partners?)

There's one thing that's not entirely clear to me. In the situation you describe, is pregnancy a possibility - in the sense that a healthy woman of child-bearing age who has natural intercourse on a random day, has about 20% - 25% chance of conceiving a child? Or is pregnancy the objective - as in, "I just checked the thermometer and it's time to have your cock-head nestled against my cervix while your body twitches and your seed makes the journey down your penis."?
 

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Part of the objective is pregnancy, as for intellectual abilities that's a must requirement

If you like to put it so bluntly about checking the thermometer, the answer is I don't know.

It is no secret I am involved in and enjoy the poly lifestyle, I was just wondering if it was one of you guys I am involved with would you take the risk in having unprotected sex with me knowing I might get pregnant. (I think I should have made myself more clear)

Thanks for your honest and clear answers.
 

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Okay, I think I understand the question a little bit better now.

My answer is no. I don't care if the child will have a great life and be provided for, it's my kid. I don't want my kid to be raised by other people.
 

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I take it as a compliment and an indicator of my sexiness that a girl even wants me inside her, which makes it extra special when someone wants me to cum inside them.

Of course, I don't have kids running around everywhere because for one I'm not cumming in every girl I see and for two, I only cum inside girlfriends who are on the pill.

But all of my [failed] inseminations have been with monogamous women (as far as I know). I dunno how I would feel about impregnating a woman with a husband or who has multiple partners. Since I don't think that's good for a baby or that a woman like that would be a good mother for the baby.

Also for what it's worth, every girl who has asked me not to wear a condom has said they only had unprotected sex with me and made everyone else wear a condom. Now this could just be a line, every one of them did use virtually the exact same words. But I like to think I was special to them :)

Of course, what I think and reality are often two very different things.
 

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Okay, I think I understand the question a little bit better now.

My answer is no. I don't care if the child will have a great life and be provided for, it's my kid. I don't want my kid to be raised by other people.

How would you feel if you are asked to be a donor, would you feel the same way, as you know there are millions of guys donating sperm all the time, not knowing who the mother is and or how the child will be raised. And if you were asked by lets say a friend/s to help her/them have a child would you do it.?
 
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I did take the risk--sort of. She said she couldn't have children, so I convinced myself that it was o.k. Always in the back of my mind were the questions: is she sure? can I trust her?

We had several months of unprotected sex and thank God no pregnancy and no STDs. I'd never take that risk again. And yes, she was married at the time, and I think her husband knew.
 

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I did take the risk--sort of. She said she couldn't have children, so I convinced myself that it was o.k. Always in the back of my mind were the questions: is she sure? can I trust her?

We had several months of unprotected sex and thank God no pregnancy and no STDs. I'd never take that risk again. And yes, she was married at the time, and I think her husband knew.

Very interesting..

Why did you take that risk to start with then kind of regret it after or at least you are relieved because nothing happened. It couldn't have been bad for either of you, if you kept doing it for several months.

If things were slightly different do you think you'll be more inclined to do it or not. Things like if you can be sure there is no risk of STD and having to meet both husband and wife, talk about all aspects of it before doing it.

Thank you for sharing your experience.