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Very interesting..
Why did you take that risk to start with then kind of regret it after or at least you are relieved because nothing happened. It couldn't have been bad for either of you, if you kept doing it for several months.
In the beginning I used condoms. Then she came to me with the "I told you I can't get pregnant, and if you use a condom you're assuming I have STDs...." etc. I was so crazy with hormones that I let her have it her way. I didn't want to give up the sex, so I caved in. It wasn't a clear-headed decision on my part.
If things were slightly different do you think you'll be more inclined to do it or not. Things like if you can be sure there is no risk of STD and having to meet both husband and wife, talk about all aspects of it before doing it.
If I were sure there was no risk of STD...but that still leaves risk of pregnancy, though. So, no. I don't think I'd like to take the pregnancy risk again.
As for meeting with the husband beforehand, that seems kind of like a cuckold relationship, which I don't have experience with. Yes, she was married. Yes, I met her husband on a couple occasions. Yes, I think he must have known. But she was cheating on him. As far as I know, none of this was done with his approval. I don't know if I could perform in a situation where the husband is part of it. Seems too "set-up." I don't know. Maybe I could. Sorry if I'm rambling. [/QUOTE]
Anytime, Fire77! :smile:Thank you for sharing your experience.