We've seen
the question put to women; I'm curious to hear from you guys who enjoy feeling a stiff cock inside you.
If you like bottoming, how do you like being fucked? Deep vs. shallow thrusts; fast vs. slow; cock sliding in a little bit at a time or taking it all pretty quick; positions; or anything else you'd like to share.
I like it many ways, but best of all I like it back to front. I start off kneeling, with my arms and head on the pillow, bottom raised in the air and knees apart. My lover kneels between my legs, applies a generous portion of lube to my anus, positions the head of his cock against it and very gradually pushes into me in a number of slow thrusts, going a little deeper each time (I love the sensation of my anus being stretched, and like to prolong the act of penetration as much as possible). Once inside, he slowly thrusts his cock right up my rectum as far as it can reach. At this point I raise myself up and in effect sit in his lap, with his cock up my arse. He then spreads my buttocks wide apart, to get the last inch or so inside me. I reach my arms behind me to clasp his sides, and he caresses my chest and tweaks my nipples. We always spend a little while just savouring this glorious position. We then start a slow thrusting movement together, he partially withdrawing then thrusting into me as deep as possible. I endeavour to relax my anus to receive the inward thrust, then grip on his cock as he withdraws. The frequency and amplitude of thrusting gradually increase as our mutual excitement grows, until finally he reaches his climax and I grip his cock in my anus as tightly as I can. We then wind down gradually with much mutual caressing and words of endearment.
This is of course a personal opinion, but I make a distinction between the act of penetration, and the subsequent session of fucking. Both are utterly delightful, but subtly different in their appeal. It is important to start slowly and gradually build to a climax; a rough or clumsy penetration can be really painful and easily result in injury. Over-vigorous fucking, before the rhythm has been established, could injure the lining of the rectum. The really important factor is that each partner should feel genuine affection, even love, for the other, and strive as the primary aim to give the other as much pleasure as possible.
The only disadvantage of the position described above is that mouth to mouth kissing is not possible, but no single position is perfect in all respects.
