Question For Poly/open Relationship & Size

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I'm very curious as to hot it would effect it?

I'm poly and very active and never heard anyone say it effects them. I know a lady who can't take anything over 6 inches, her primary is 6 and she prefers to fuck him.
 

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So I'm fairly new to the poly world but my wife has been sleeping with another woman for awhile now and while its been fun in some ways... the other woman's husband wants to do my wife but he isn't on board with me doing his wife.
 
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So I'm fairly new to the poly world but my wife has been sleeping with another woman for awhile now and while its been fun in some ways... the other woman's husband wants to do my wife but he isn't on board with me doing his wife.

Go ahead and let him do your wife, why not?
 

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So I'm fairly new to the poly world but my wife has been sleeping with another woman for awhile now and while its been fun in some ways... the other woman's husband wants to do my wife but he isn't on board with me doing his wife.
That's not really fair....how can you have one without the other? Is their a reason other than selfishness?
 
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Dick size was in zero way any part o the poly relationships I have had.
 
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Being in the lifestyle for a while now I'm still surprised that people who are new to it or just curious think it's all about size. News flash...it isnt. Only a small minority of the women I know in the lifestyle are what might be termed "size queens" and seek out bigger cocks. Most of it is being around like minded people many of whom are out friends and having a good time with sex. My wife isn't a size queen. I've seen her take on guys from six inches up to nine inches and no complaints from her. She says it's more about attitude than size anyway.
 

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That's not really fair....how can you have one without the other? Is their a reason other than selfishness?
Its mainly a size thing we've all be part of a group were unbeknownst to me my dick pics made some rounds... so the few guys that have seen it definitely acted odd around me for a bit. Oh the other hand I have got some hugs from the ladies with frontal gruping lol
 
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Its mainly a size thing we've all be part of a group were unbeknownst to me my dick pics made some rounds... so the few guys that have seen it definitely acted odd around me for a bit. Oh the other hand I have got some hugs from the ladies with frontal gruping lol
Yeah, when people find out you can tell, they stop looking you in the eye as much...
 

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Yeah, when people find out you can tell, they stop looking you in the eye as much...

Thankfully things got better with time though he's not a big fan of her hanging out with just me. But that's not a situation that happens very often.
 

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Being in the lifestyle for a while now I'm still surprised that people who are new to it or just curious think it's all about size. News flash...it isnt. Only a small minority of the women I know in the lifestyle are what might be termed "size queens" and seek out bigger cocks. Most of it is being around like minded people many of whom are out friends and having a good time with sex. My wife isn't a size queen. I've seen her take on guys from six inches up to nine inches and no complaints from her. She says it's more about attitude than size anyway.


That is all true...but then....there are some segments of the "lifestyle"...where it is all about "size". And that can be taken in several ways...there are groups where all the women...and sometimes men...are in the super sized body catagory because the others like and appreciate that. Other "groups" where it is all a certain type of woman....very thin...or very curvy/busty....and others where all the guys have big to huge to WOW size to super wow size endowments...and the women all like that and the husbands/boyfriends who participate either have a "big" cock or just like seeing their wife/girlfriend/mate with someone who is far bigger endowed than they are.
The bigger metropolitan areas have more variations of "groups" that cater to specific preferences.
 

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That is all true...but then....there are some segments of the "lifestyle"...where it is all about "size". And that can be taken in several ways...there are groups where all the women...and sometimes men...are in the super sized body catagory because the others like and appreciate that. Other "groups" where it is all a certain type of woman....very thin...or very curvy/busty....and others where all the guys have big to huge to WOW size to super wow size endowments...and the women all like that and the husbands/boyfriends who participate either have a "big" cock or just like seeing their wife/girlfriend/mate with someone who is far bigger endowed than they are.
The bigger metropolitan areas have more variations of "groups" that cater to specific preferences.

You have helped define the tone that I intended for this thread. What would I search for to find those groups here?
 

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You have helped define the tone that I intended for this thread. What would I search for to find those groups here?

Thank you. To try to answer you. I am not aware of such groups that are on LPSG.
To find such groups...real people...in areas near you. I suggest you join several websites. www.SDC.com is one....SwingersDateClub. Also there is a "tourist" travel agency located online...their physical address is in Texas. They arrange "nude" vacations and nude/clothing optional vacations...many of which are attended almost exclusively by nudists, or course...but the attendees are also not "just" nudists...but "lifestyle" (read "swinger") members.

And of course...www.adultfriendfinder.com. That website...also join/pay a fee...lists not only members for dating/contact, but also lists contacts for "lifestyle" groups to get in contact with. And the groups are set up with any. particular "interests" that the majority of the group "likes".

For several reasons I stepped away from all that years ago...but I am aware of it all. From time to time I still get contacted by this or that person/group that wants to know if I would be interested in attending one of their functions.
 
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Its mainly a size thing we've all be part of a group were unbeknownst to me my dick pics made some rounds... so the few guys that have seen it definitely acted odd around me for a bit. Oh the other hand I have got some hugs from the ladies with frontal gruping lol

Any women who are at this LPSG site, and happen to be of the few who post, AND say they want a MMF combo of fun...you KNOW it has to be about size. They are just liars to not admit they are after big dicks if they came here to make a pick.
 

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We never purposefully sought it out but there was one couple we had a MFMF relationship with that developed to the point it was borderline poly. We half broke it off, half drifted apart, for reasons that had nothing to do with any sexual or emotional feelings and although we are no longer in the lifestyle we would likely not let things get close to that situation again should we resume.
While the male half of the couple was much smaller, that had nothing to do with anything and I don't see why it would.

If you believe that just because the second male might be bigger the woman will prefer him either sexually or emotionally over her committed partner, then you obviously know nothing about swinging or poly relationships as well as believing women put a high priority on size, especially over feelings, which has no doubt been influenced by websites that put a high emphasis on large penises ;).
 
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Any women who are at this LPSG site, and happen to be of the few who post, AND say they want a MMF combo of fun...you KNOW it has to be about size. They are just liars to not admit they are after big dicks if they came here to make a pick.

Nope. Non-binary identifying, but female sex/have a uterus/etc.

Your post reeks of condescension and other unsavory traits.