Question For Really Hung Guys: Do Any Of You Get Off Solely On The Fact That You Have A Huge Cock?

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As a gay guy, you learn pretty quickly how futile falling for a straight guy is, or, at least, you should. I have also met many straight guys who talk with anger and fear about being checked out by other guys. But with super hung guys, I know some of them are exhibitionists who really enjoy the attention.

So I guess my question is, any of you really hung guys who mainly fuck women, do you get off to the idea that you have such a huge cock? I mean, I've met gay guys with huge cocks who were narcissists, but I kinda don't blame them. I'd probably be a narcissist, too, if I had such a big, beautiful cock. I'm just wondering for you super hung guys, how much of the pleasure is actually derived from the other person they're fucking vs how much pleasure is derived from the knowledge that you're such a sexual alpha?

Hope this makes sense.
 

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Yes. It mostly comes from the previous reactions from women, both their reaction to seeing It the first time and then from them experiencing It.

But I’m not a narcissist. Dated a few though.
 

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some women really like that you have a big cock, some couldn't really care. i think in general, women aren't that vested in the size wars. it's a bonus at the end of the day. but i had an ex who used to show literally everyone pics of my cock. you would think that it was something you'd get off on, but I found it to be kind of embarrassing. end of the day tho, I certainly take solace in my dick. when everything else in my life sucks, i'm like oh yeah, i'm bigger than like 90% of most men.
 

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No, for the simple fact I'm not egotistical enough. While I've had enough comments about my size from those like my wife, other women (and their husbands) as well as online sites, such as here, that I know they all can't be lying just to make me feel good; but it's still not something that I consider special or that which defines me. I also tend to believe it when women say that size is not everything so the only ones I'd be trying to impress is other guys, either for sexual interest or as a power trip (or as you say "alpha") thing; neither of which I care about. Other than any posted pics I have online I am not an exhibitionist by nature and actually go out of my way to wear clothing that doesn't accentuate any endowments I may have.

So while I'll admit positive comments do give me a mild boost, but at the same time they don't go to my head (either one) and I do believe any guy, no matter their orientation, that does make a big deal about it is likely a narcissist and also likely insecure, especially if they perceive someone is even bigger than them.
 
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No can't say that I do get off on it. I have enough sense to know that there are men out there who are bigger than me. Just as I knows there are men out there who are smaller than me.

What gets me off is knowing that I make women orgasm on my dick. Watching their facial expressions, the way their bodies respond to my movements, that boost my ego more than knowing I've got a big dick.
 
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Well there is the confidence, normal guys shouldn't have worry about theirs, so being larger then i feel no hang ups, I'm not even worried if the girl has been with someone even bigger because i know it's very rare IRL.

Yes i guess i get off on, watching it go in, her reaction. I also like getting looks at the gym, or attention around the pool. sometime i just walk out of the water and don't bother to pull the swim trunks away and just let it cling to my package LOL. BUT i don't go out of my way to show it off, im very inconspicuous, but having a larger flaccid dick most pants show it off anyways.

Then showing of pics here, so yes i do "get off". However i would not say it's what I'm all about. I get off on actual sex, love making etc.

You know what my fantasy is though. If a gay guy came up to me (or girl too), and just grabbed my package in public, gave a compliment and then just left, i would be ecstatic for the rest of the day LOL. So yes futile if a gay guy fell for me, but I'd still love the attention!
 

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Mostly comes from the women I'm fucking and how it makes them feel.

But knowing I'm big and the anticipation of them first seeing what I'm packing is for sure a turn on!

Do you find that they orgasm a lot from PIV sex with you? Do they comment afterwards about the size of your dick? I'd guess because of your size you're able to hit all of their spots at once?
 

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some women really like that you have a big cock, some couldn't really care. i think in general, women aren't that vested in the size wars. it's a bonus at the end of the day. but i had an ex who used to show literally everyone pics of my cock. you would think that it was something you'd get off on, but I found it to be kind of embarrassing. end of the day tho, I certainly take solace in my dick. when everything else in my life sucks, i'm like oh yeah, i'm bigger than like 90% of most men.
Have you ever found it has led to women wanting to hookup just for your size? Do women orgasm easily when you a fucking them? I can relate to how you feel when everything else sucks, when you are thinking about this, what comes to mind? Women complimenting your dick?
 

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Have you ever found it has led to women wanting to hookup just for your size? Do women orgasm easily when you a fucking them? I can relate to how you feel when everything else sucks, when you are thinking about this, what comes to mind? Women complimenting your dick?

When I was younger it def made women curious and so I benefited from that juvenile curiosity young people have with each other’s bodies. But, no, it doesn’t really materialize into women wanting to fuck me just for my dick. As for your second question: it depends. Some chicks I’ve fucked definitely got off on the pleasure my size provided, but most women, like men, aren’t just vested in body parts when they have sex. It’s a combination of attractions, which at the end of the day are just emotions. To your third question: I’m more so thinking about how I am probably more hung than most billionaires and that if you remove away all their money and power, when we are left with our primal selves, I come out on top on that regard. Let’s be honest, women really don’t care about dick size. If you look at most porn, it’s extremely phallocentric. Cock size is an anxiety men have and no amount of money can beat winning the genetic lottery.
 
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As a gay guy, you learn pretty quickly how futile falling for a straight guy is, or, at least, you should. I have also met many straight guys who talk with anger and fear about being checked out by other guys. But with super hung guys, I know some of them are exhibitionists who really enjoy the attention.

So I guess my question is, any of you really hung guys who mainly fuck women, do you get off to the idea that you have such a huge cock? I mean, I've met gay guys with huge cocks who were narcissists, but I kinda don't blame them. I'd probably be a narcissist, too, if I had such a big, beautiful cock. I'm just wondering for you super hung guys, how much of the pleasure is actually derived from the other person they're fucking vs how much pleasure is derived from the knowledge that you're such a sexual alpha?

Hope this makes sense.

I wouldn't say that I get off solely on the idea that my cock is 7" soft and 9" hard. But I am turned on by all the comments or jokes made from classmates or teammates (18+) in the locker room, or how quickly word spreads around a group of girlfriends about the size of my cock.

Like another poster wrote, I really enjoy seeing a girl into the eyes at the exact moment my huge dick head enters her pussy for the first time. Or maybe even more the exact moment of which I reveal the big secret in my undies, they have heard all about, but never seen before. Those two moments is some of my highlights of the whole sex situation.

Is that a combo of some sort? I think so.
 

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When I was younger it def made women curious and so I benefited from that juvenile curiosity young people have with each other’s bodies. But, no, it doesn’t really materialize into women wanting to fuck me just for my dick. As for your second question: it depends. Some chicks I’ve fucked definitely got off on the pleasure my size provided, but most women, like men, aren’t just vested in body parts when they have sex. It’s a combination of attractions, which at the end of the day are just emotions. To your third question: I’m more so thinking about how I am probably more hung than most billionaires and that if you remove away all their money and power, when we are left with our primal selves, I come out on top on that regard. Let’s be honest, women really don’t care about dick size. If you look at most porn, it’s extremely phallocentric. Cock size is an anxiety men have and no amount of money can beat winning the genetic lottery.

Well answered, wise comments. I think you're right, most guys are the ones that are size obsessed, thinking that somehow dick size can be the only thing to fully satisfy a woman sexually.

Women don't seem to care about dick size, but I don't know if it's a chicken and egg thing, where the woman doesn't care about dick size because she's never experienced sex with a large dick or a guy that has a big dick and doesn't know what he's doing, or maybe she has experienced a big dick and it really didn't add to her pleasure or
make it easier to orgasm or it may even hurt her. So it's hard to tell how women really feel about dick size. Myself being extremely average in every way just above except for a bit more girth.

I've thought too how if you were well endowed, rather than being famous, rich, or good looking none of them could make up for having a huge cock, in their eyes.( but do women care? Lol)
 
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Well answered, wise comments.

I've thought too how if you were well endowed, rather than being famous, rich, or good looking none of them could make up for having a huge cock, in their eyes.( but do women care? Lol)

All of those things are just like extra assets in my experience. Of course you need personality, chemistry, looks, charm and a lot of other stuff to hit it off. But girls are equal as horny as we are (or maybe more so haha), and a lot of girls has some desire, bucket list thing, craving or maybe just a kink that she wanna try the biggest guy at school, the work place, the town or whatever. Like we wanna get down with the best ass or set of boobs. Or maybe i've just been lucky to ran into a lot of size queens.