someperson
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Do you prefer a potential partner take the lead when first meeting/dating?
If no, are you comfortable leading with the right person/connection?
If yes, is it just about initiating enough to make you secure in his/her interest, then you bloom, or does initiating always present as a struggle?
I find assertive women attractive huge turn on too.(can be verbal or nonverbal flirting) But personality is important also, if she has some kind of attitude it's a instant turn off..(too much stress.)
But you are asking someone that has never been on a date or had a GF. much less had sex.
I have been asked out a 4 times but I did decline(6 if you count the two guys lol.) This was in the past 4 years.At the time I was kinda depressed so I did not want to bring anyone into my problems .