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One of the smaller sized guys who appreciates what I have by sending me an email made me think about this. When I was growing up other than a porn magazine, or things like Penhouse Forum fantasy stories about how a big dick felt crazy better to some woman there really was minimal exposure to questions about size. Yes, there were locker rooms but you saw guys soft and women probably did not see naked men at all in general. So, knowing how you stacked up really didn't exist and that was true for men but especially the women that would see them naked. That has all changed with the internet exposure; well even television and movies are showing more and more male nudity. Women today will have seen very big penises even by accident on the internet with all the spam and more.

So my question is for the straight small to average sized guys today. Now that women can easily see the size of some guys in everyday situations does that intimidate you? It would be rare even to go to a locker room setting and not realize that in today's age everyone knows what big and small is out there. Do you hesitate to get naked in those setting as well? Are you now embarrased to be seen naked, and what about when you are with a woman, does it worry you that she may have had several larger men before or even know by looking now when they see you naked they will know you are just average or smal below? It's a different era and I am curious about it being different now for guys. Please be honest.
 

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a great topic and hot questions! yes i know that i am "just average or small below" and guess what, most men on this planet are (more on that below). i am a very optimistic being, live a very happy life and among many other things which i posses i am proud of my "normal sized" cock. i honestly find it big in my hands, i find it a hot cock when i see it erected and when play with it myself! knowing there are larger and smaller penises out there doesn't concern me at all in my every day real life. i show it off without hesitation at nude beaches, in locker room situations, with my straight sports friends etc. people look at me a lot because i am a handsome and fit fuck and whenever i am at a nude place some people start chatting or flirting no matter my dick size at all. experience in real life has tought me that i am an interesting fine man, capable of anything in life no matter how many inches i have below.

Most men are of a "normal size" somewhere along those upper lines in the penis nomogram - ergo this is what women can likely expect to find in a man. according to above research 90% of all guys on this planet are between 10-16 cm (4-6 in) long fully erected. larger and smaller penises are an "exception" in real life. think back to your "forced" nude moments in life - distribution should be totally wide and all sizes should be seen e.G. in showers: usually you have 2-3 large guys hanging soft, 2-3 super small sticking out and the rest of the say 25 men is totally normal or "average" as you call it. thus, likelyhood is big that women would meet many "average guys" and only a few very large or mini ones. just think of historic pictures of dicks, they also vary in sizes and according to different cultures; nothing new.

believe me, some talked about it and knew about different sizes way before porn and internet times. only think of swimming classes or beach days. my first "wanna be" gf saw and felt immediately with her own hands that her ex was larger and thicker than me fully hard - and even told me this to my face (so with this kind of bs she was out of my game and i feel she still regrets it today haha).
my today's wife in the contrary told me in that very moment that i have a beautiful penis and calls me her "bull" still after nearly 20 years of marriage with kids. she is not interested in any porn nor sex toys etc. and tells me that it was "my job" to make her cum with my cock! i am good looking, wealthy, fit, an academic with a nice fortune for our family future - a good deal let's say with a normal sized cock. so what? we have great sex where i know how to make her cum in many different positions/ways and give her mind blowing orgasms with my normal sized cock - all good in life so why would i have to worry about the most natural thing in the world? there is no reason to hide myself haha... - should be much the same way for most other "normal sized" men, we all work with what we have and it's not for the many, it's for the one and only who loves you.

side note to my size/comparison fantasies (not my real life):
amateur internet is great but porn is so unreal and stupid! i prefer to cam with real guys; love to show off my body and cock. i've had 100'ds of guys watching me on chaturbate or here etc. no matter my size at all. i especially enjoy doing this with extra large and innocent guys. they are impressive for sure! i totally admit, that i would have been a "good lover" too even with a very large dick haha. i love the size difference topic in every facette, i like to compare, to praise/worship them, i am even down to sph at times online, which is a kind of reverse admiration of a large cock. any size thing attracts me a lot. i've compared with so many so called XXL's in real life and love to see my average erected skinny guy right next to them. yes i can see that "normal size" looks so vulnerable compared to a huge cock. i took many pictures of such evidence, so i can even still believe what i experienced much later lol. fantasies go wild about how it would be for my wife to have such a much larger penis deep inside of her. would i want to see one stretching her tight holes and get off hands free from just watchin. yes, in my fantasies yes. and much more. but again, these are just fantasies when i am so damn hard & horny and stroke my dick on cam with other guys who love to watch me. it's a role play, a fetish, a hobby for me. and i am smart enough to know that my real life is the much better overall package for me. after i cum to my large penis fun, i go back to my passionate real life and enjoy what i have.
 
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a great topic and hot questions! yes i know that i am "just average or small below" and guess what, most men on this planet are (more on that below). i am a very optimistic being, live a very happy life and among many other things which i posses i am proud of my "normal sized" cock. i honestly find it big in my hands, i find it a hot cock when i see it erected and when play with it myself! knowing there are larger and smaller penises out there doesn't concern me at all in my every day real life. i show it off without hesitation at nude beaches, in locker room situations, with my straight sports friends etc. people look at me a lot because i am a handsome and fit fuck and whenever i am at a nude place some people start chatting or flirting no matter my dick size at all. experience in real life has tought me that i am an interesting fine man, capable of anything in life no matter how many inches i have below.

Most men are of a "normal size" somewhere along those upper lines in the penis nomogram - ergo this is what women can likely expect to find in a man. according to above research 90% of all guys on this planet are between 10-16 cm (4-6 in) long fully erected. larger and smaller penises are an "exception" in real life. think back to your "forced" nude moments in life - distribution should be totally wide and all sizes should be seen e.G. in showers: usually you have 2-3 large guys hanging soft, 2-3 super small sticking out and the rest of the say 25 men is totally normal or "average" as you call it. thus, likelyhood is big that women would meet many "average guys" and only a few very large or mini ones. just think of historic pictures of dicks, they also vary in sizes and according to different cultures; nothing new.

believe me, some talked about it and knew about different sizes way before porn and internet times. only think of swimming classes or beach days. my first "wanna be" gf saw and felt immediately with her own hands that her ex was larger and thicker than me fully hard - and even told me this to my face (so with this kind of bs she was out of my game and i feel she still regrets it today haha).
my today's wife in the contrary told me in that very moment that i have a beautiful penis and calls me her "bull" still after nearly 20 years of marriage with kids. she is not interested in any porn nor sex toys etc. and tells me that it was "my job" to make her cum with my cock! i am good looking, wealthy, fit, an academic with a nice fortune for our family future - a good deal let's say with a normal sized cock. so what? we have great sex where i know how to make her cum in many different positions/ways and give her mind blowing orgasms with my normal sized cock - all good in life so why would i have to worry about the most natural thing in the world? there is no reason to hide myself haha... - should be much the same way for most other "normal sized" men, we all work with what we have and it's not for the many, it's for the one and only who loves you.

side note to my size/comparison fantasies (not my real life):
amateur internet is great but porn is so unreal and stupid! i prefer to cam with real guys; love to show off my body and cock. i've had 100'ds of guys watching me on chaturbate or here etc. no matter my size at all. i especially enjoy doing this with extra large and innocent guys. they are impressive for sure! i totally admit, that i would have been a "good lover" too even with a very large dick haha. i love the size difference topic in every facette, i like to compare, to praise/worship them, i am even down to sph at times online, which is a kind of reverse admiration of a large cock. any size thing attracts me a lot. i've compared with so many so called XXL's in real life and love to see my average erected skinny guy right next to them. yes i can see that "normal size" looks so vulnerable compared to a huge cock. i took many pictures of such evidence, so i can even still believe what i experienced much later lol. fantasies go wild about how it would be for my wife to have such a much larger penis deep inside of her. would i want to see one stretching her tight holes and get off hands free from just watchin. yes, in my fantasies yes. and much more. but again, these are just fantasies when i am so damn hard & horny and stroke my dick on cam with other guys who love to watch me. it's a role play, a fetish, a hobby for me. and i am smart enough to know that my real life is the much better overall package for me. after i cum to my large penis fun, i go back to my passionate real life and enjoy what i have.

I don't believe these plots. I'm about 7 in erect or 17.75 cm. That would put me at the 99th percentile. While I would like to believe it, it's just too good to be true. Plus, I see so many cocks in porn, including amateur to know I'm just not what I could call big.
 

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I will say i was in my late 20's when the internet was just coming out. I will say seeing all big cocks and reading the discussions about cock size had a big impact on my confidence.

Before the web, big cocks were just in porn and I saw it as kind of a show... of course they will highlight the freakish sizes... it was like a circus!

But seeing regular people posting pictures and all the discussion boards where women were weighing in, I became very aware I had a thinner than average dick. And i kept seeing comments about girth being more desired than length.

So the web drove a lot of the development of worry, angst, envy, and eventually my desire for big thick cocks. I think it drove a bi nerve in me. Seeing all the thick cocks arrosed such desire in me... I assu.ed it had had the same effect on a lot of women, too!
 
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So my question is for the straight small to average sized guys today. Now that women can easily see the size of some guys in everyday situations does that intimidate you? It would be rare even to go to a locker room setting and not realize that in today's age everyone knows what big and small is out there. Do you hesitate to get naked in those setting as well? Are you now embarrassed to be seen naked, and what about when you are with a woman, does it worry you that she may have had several larger men before or even know by looking now when they see you naked they will know you are just average or smal below? It's a different era and I am curious about it being different now for guys. Please be honest.

Being in the lower 5%, I don't see much difference now compared to 50 years ago. It was real embarrassing back then, especially in the locker room. Women were often less knowledgeable, but plenty were stunned.

Unknowledgeable women are probably impossible to find now. My first wife didn't realize I was small.
 

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The bigger question is who the heck cares about this? As long as your penis functions properly, most have no issues or problems. As I have often said, guys seem to be more obsessed with penis size than most women. Sure there are some size queens, but most women are more turned on by a great smile and treating them with respect. All the hoopla about BIG DICKS is usually from gay men or insecure straight dudes. So be proud of what you have....big or small. Keep it clean and trimmed, stay healthy, and work on that belly. Believe me, men and women will come around and they will not give a shit about the size of your equipment. My Dad told me once that women don't give a shit about the bulge in the front of your pants, they are only concerned about the bulge in the back of your pants (size of your wallet). So not to belittle this post, I just think anyone who worries (unless you have a micropenis) is wasted energy. Focus on being a better person and the rest will all fall into place. Also helps if you have a talented tongue and know how to use it. :cool:
 
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My Dad told me once that women don't give a shit about the bulge in the front of your pants, they are only concerned about the bulge in the back of your pants (size of your wallet).

Pretty negative view of women there, buddy.

Women really into sex generally favor above average. Gotta face that!
 
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I'm on the small size even if my wife tells me i'm not. I don't care about size... a dick is a dick. Never ever been shamed about my size. Can't change it, been in a loving relationship for over 40 years.
 
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When i met my wife it was before the internet was really a thing, and she had never seen porn, but she did have experience with some well endowed exboyfriends. The first time she sawsmy dick she said you do know your tiny. I replied, well maybe it's smaller then...(I was going to say average) she cut me off and said it's tiny. She suddenly reached down cupping my now throbbing dick and balls in the palm of one hand and squeezed and whispered in my ear maybe nothing you are definately tiny now tell me. I hesitated a second and she squeezed harder and in a higher pitched voice then I would have liked I chirped it's tiny. She smiled and I felt my cheeks flush and I looked away. She purred in my ear tell me... what's tiny? Her grip on my dick and balls I was afraid she'd squeeze tighter and again higher pitched then I wanted I admitted my penis, my penis is tiny. She giggled and said very tiny actually as she eased her grip but still held them firmly.

Even if her prior experiences were very few and limited to just average size guys, like every girlfriend before her, she would have known I was small, but based on her experience with large guys, comparatively I was tiny.

And tiny as it may be, she's been foolish enough to remain married to me happily for over 20 years. Love is about so much more then the size of your dick.
 

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The question wasn't about love or a lecture on whether size matters or not. However, I will add that I do wonder when someone on a large penis site lectures about how it isn't important as to why are they here to begin with(Ft Laud Frank, as example)?
What I was asking is in today's world there is no mystery anymore especially for women on what men look like naked. The internet and even some television shows now frequently show naked men, so women see what use to be something more difficult. Given that fact, how if any, has that impacted you especially if you are small or average (and I did say for straight guys).
 

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This is a porn culture in America so I already know women see/seen bigger dcks . Women also have way more sexual opportunities than males and get to see tons of dcks already. I’ve had females friends with body counts of 40+ and even had a promiscuous female friend with over 100+ Bodies . A straight heterosexual male would have a very hard time hitting those numbers unless he was a swinger.

Women know who has the big dcks and who does not because they know the sizes that are available. I slept with a promiscuous chick one time and she was not excited about my size so there’s my 2 cents.

I am Slightly intimidated that’s why I do PE.
 
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This is a porn culture in America so I already know women see/seen bigger dcks . Women also have way more sexual opportunities than males and get to see tons of dcks already. I’ve had females friends with body counts of 40+ and even had a promiscuous female friend with over 100+ Bodies . A straight heterosexual male would have a very hard time hitting those numbers unless he was a swinger.

Women know who has the big dcks and who does not because they know the sizes that are available. I slept with a promiscuous chick one time and she was not excited about my size so there’s my 2 cents.

I am Slightly intimidated that’s why I do PE.
So what would you say the average “body count” would be for a straight heterosexual man who is not a swinger
 

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So what would you say the average “body count” would be for a straight heterosexual man who is not a swinger

If he went to college and was social probably over 20.

No college then 10+.

Remember there are also men who don’t sex at all “incels” …

I read a lot of female porn star interviews and before porn these 18-21 year old women already have 30+ partners.

Everybody knows women have more sexual opportunities it’s no secret.
 

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Porn ‘stars’ aren’t your average woman in regards to number of sexual partners.

Probably best not to model most women’s sex life off them.

Yeah I’m talking about pre porn career.

But still lol; my exes best friend had over 100 partners for example .

Sex is free for women.
 

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If he went to college and was social probably over 20.

No college then 10+.

Remember there are also men who don’t sex at all “incels” …

I read a lot of female porn star interviews and before porn these 18-21 year old women already have 30+ partners.

Everybody knows women have more sexual opportunities it’s no secret.
You are aware that that math doesn’t quite line up

Male/female numbers are generally 50 /50


you can’t have a given population where the females are having sex with 40 partners and the males are havring sex with only 10 partners

it doesn’t line up

Math wise
 
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Most persons apparently only have 5-7 sexual partners. According to a number of previous studies I’d read anyway. Whether they’re a little bit out of date or not now??

So although women could pick up pretty easily, many still limit their ‘lovers’ in general.