Question for Str8 Guys

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by JacobFox, Dec 11, 2009.

  1. JacobFox

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    A gay guy hits on you once, because you find it attractive. Do you

    A. Turn him down, but still take the compliment

    B. Turn him down and never tell anyone because you're ashamed

    or

    C. Some other.
     
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    I dont get the question. Am I supposed to like it or he complemented me because he liked me?
     
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    Really depends on how he hit on me....

    1. No physical contact, nice comment in my general direction and I understood it as him hitting on me would not bother me. I would prob. just hold up my wedding ring and tell him I was taken.

    2. If he touched me in a suggestive way and made a comment.. I would prob back up and ask him what the hell he was doing.

    3. Someone sends me something on this site.. I take it for what it is, we are on a sex site with a large gay population, normally just say thank you and move on.
     
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    annoyance_level = 1
    while annoyance_level < 100
    option A
    if gay_guys_actions = normal then annoyance_level *= 2
    else if gay_guys_actions = inappropriate then annoyance_level = 100
    else dragon kick
     
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    Appreciate the comment.

    Let them know that I am in a committed relationship.

    No problem.

    No one every gets anywhere without asking.

    I can appreciate and also respect all who also appreciate and respect me when I let them know my situation.

    Interesting question.
     
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    I'll appreciate the compliment. But reject him anyways.
     
  7. JacobFox

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    Well, I appreciate all of the responses so far. Rejection is fine.

    As a gay man, I have been hit on by far too many women to count (i often wonder if they are blind) and I always appreciate the fact I am found attractive. But I do let them know that it won't work, and I always let them know I still appreciate the compliment.

    That being said, if Alyson Hannigan is reading this, I won't turn you down :)
     
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    reject and question whether its a good thing. I usually wonder if gay guys and girls look for similar things (i'm sure there are similarities and differences)
     
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    I am basically straight, and I used to go to some gay clubs with a lesbian girl that i was good mates with. A lot of gay guys would hit on me.. I guess i was quite flattered by it. It always amazed me how straight forward they were.. no games etc they just made it very clear that if i wanted anything I could have it.. simple as that. I was curious if half the reason they wanted me was just because i was straight and it was a challenge. If I was a little more drunk and my lesbian friend wasn't there i probably would have caved and picked the hottest to blow me :)
     
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    I'd say in a polite manner "I'm flattered but I'm not interested in men."
     
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    id appreciate the comment but let him no im not interested in him but thank him anyways
     
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    For some reason the gay or bi guys that come in my job always compliment me like im the only one there.

    If they are weird about it I get kinda freaked out & go in the back but if they are funny about it then I laugh it off.
     
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    I'd thank him, but politely tell him I'm not interested
     
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    Suprising how many guys said "If" or "I'd" like it has never happened. Seriously -- has that never happened to you??
     
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    Hey BigD,

    I'm not completely str8, and it hasn't happened to me, so really not that unbelievable.

    When I asked a "friend" why I only get "hit on" on the internet and not in real life, he told me that if he had first met me in "real life" he would have never thought of coming on to me. He said that I "act too butch and give absolutely no vibe whatsoever".

    **Hahaha, sidenote** I tried to do the hand flipping, lisp talking thing,,he rolled his eyes and told me to give it up, with my low voice, it WASN'T flying, lol

    So, I can imagine that some of these guys probably haven't had this happen.
     
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    I totally respect an honest man!!!
     
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    B Jules....Thank You, for your honest answer!!!


    I often wonder why a " 100%" (note the quotes) str8 man would belong to a group such as this? Does anyone else question their honesty (with themselves)?

    I am Bi so nobody/groups trust me (jealousy...I am one of the luckiest bastards) .

    But these are some of the reasons I have heard.... (sorry if this sounds narky - not my reason) I just don't understand?

    1) He likes the complements about his cock! (from other men?) = Painfully maladjusted.
    2) He joined because of the women who would view his cock and that might meet! = Painfully dazed and confused.
    3) Loves to look at others men's equipment, but would never touch another man and never jacks off to the pics! = Painfully in Denial.
    4) Love to show off! Doesn't care who is looking! = Exhibitionist, which is a age old feminie pastime = Cock Tease /painfully sad.

    Anyone else heard any other good reasons why a hetero sexuall 100% str8 man would join this type group?

    I ask....How many 100% Gay Members have joined Str8 Pussy related groups for the flattery???
     
  18. Black_Frost

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    I'm not 100% straight, but the reason I came here and joined the site had nothing to do with either looking for or wanting to look at dick. I came for the condom advice, stayed for the useful information. I do occasionally look at pics on the site, now, but I don't and never have used it for a porn site.

    Also, I imagine that B Jules isn't the only guy who gave an honest answer here. *g.*

    Eh. Being Bi has its upside and downs. No pun intended. I don't see why anyone would be jealous of it, but whatever floats your boat.

    Perhaps he simply likes being complimented? And is secure enough to be able to take a compliment from another man regarding his equipment and not freak out about it? I've known exhibitionists who liked getting comments from men, so long as the men didn't pressure said men to fuck them.

    Because, of course, there are no women reading or posting to this site, at all. Ever. :rolleyes:

    Actually, this is becoming painfully stereotypical. Catty posts about whether real straight men would actually read or post to LPSG are fairly common. In more than one sense of the word. As to your third insinuation, there are straight men who like to compare and get a bit of a thrill at knowing they're bigger than other guys. Not to mention liking to show off because they're exhibitionists. That doesn't make them secretly gay or bisexual, or in denial about their sexuality.

    Exhibitionism is an age old human pastime, and is neither limited to males or females. Not to mention that the gay and bi communities have their very fair share of cock teases as well. But please, do go on about how women are, and about how men are somehow more effeminate if they act like assholes.

    Because they have a big dick and want to talk with other men about it, either to boast or to share information regarding things like which underwear is comfortable, what to wear to show or hide how big it is, how to find condoms that fit without hurting (which is why I started reading the group,) to ask whether theirs can actually be claimed as big without people laughing at them for saying so, for advice on how to not hurt their partner (in this case, female,) when they have sex (or sex with them) for the first time?

    Or, possibly, to commiserate with other straight guys because they're tired of getting hit on by asshole guys who assume they want to have sex with other men just because they show off their size in the locker rooms or in what they're wearing?

    Apples and oranges. Nobody ever claimed that LPSG is a site restricted to straight men. Nor is it restricted to non-straight men. It's assumed that everyone here is mature enough to be able to accept others' sexual preferences and respect them as they are stated, not as one decides to ASSume they are. Sadly, that's not always the case, as this thread demonstrates.
     
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    Mmm... you do know that Str8 and Straight are two different things :)
     
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    Depends. I've seen it used as an abbreviation for straight, and as a sort of catty insult implying that someone says they're straight but and are in denial. I've also seen it used as an abbreviation for straight-acting, which is a bit of a misnomer as what is really meant is masculine acting gay or bisexual male.
     
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