Question for Str8 Guys

[bi_todd]

Mmm... you do know that Str8 and Straight are two different things

Huh? Please enlighten me.

 

[deleted871301]

Huh? Please enlighten me.

As far as I've gathered, Str8 means a guy who's into women but dabbles in a bit of dick on the side and Straight is strictly women only!

 

[ronin001]

I use to get hit on all the time by gay men. A combination of my work location, occupation and once good looks not that I am complaining.
At first it pissed me off, I would say for 3 years or so. Then it just kind of became a daily joke, then they just became one of the guys and I just became one of the girls. Honest flirtation, invitations to events, pool parties even a vacation.offer.

Technically it was sexual harassment on so many levels; some unwanted contact, attention to certain parts of ones anatomy and other things. Again it was funny, they were funny and It just became part of doing business in lower Manhattan. As I get older I miss those guys, especially on days when I could surely use a good laugh

 

[bigbucky]

"because you find it attractive." being a straight guy why would I find it attractive?? I would simply say that I'm straight. I have been approached by gay men a few times. I'm always polite.

 

[bi_todd]

As far as I've gathered, Str8 means a guy who's into women but dabbles in a bit of dick on the side and Straight is strictly women only!

Seriously - I never knew that.
Thanks for the enlightenment.

 

[Bigbozak66]

Wow, Black Frost...seems I have struck many nerve(s)!

A Forum is open so the others may express "their" personal...(albeit non-member specific "General") view point(s). I am not offended that you didn't like my comments. I don't join to become popular! Oh and yes btw... I am a great navigator of my Bi Hulled Boat!!

I am more sorry the you feel so.... personally defensive. Condom Advice....seriously....really???

I asked....

Anyone else heard any other good reasons why a hetero sexual 100% str8 man would join this type group?
Not your 70% - 30% or 90% 10% types!

Additionally, I asked...

I ask....How many 100% Gay Members have joined Str8 Pussy related groups for the flattery???

Sorry Buddy, I am confident enough to speak my mind and take the flack the comes (or cums) along with it!!

 

[tiger61]

I don't think I would take it as a compliment, but I think he would be wasting his time on me since I just don't swing that way

 

[LilJock]

I guess "A" would most fit the bill, "Turn him down, but still take the compliment," but it depends on what you mean by "hits on you".

If it's just "cruising", that's one thing. When I was younger, it would totally weird me out, didn't know how to handle it, but now it's okay, in fact I'm kind of flattered - even turned on - by it. (Okay, I'm a total narcissist. I enjoy being good-looking. Also, according to one guy, a real prick tease! )

But, if it's persistent, it can really be annoying, harassing. I've had a few "stalkers" - guys who wouldn't take "no" for an answer - and sometimes I'd end up having to drop all the "niceness" and telling them to take a hike.

As for "B", I see no reason to be ashamed. It's really a compliment, someone finds you attractive. If you mean that you're afraid someone will think you're gay because someone's hitting on you, I could care less. I'm confident in who I am, and, besides, what's there to be ashamed of being gay?

 

[LilJock]

Mmm... you do know that Str8 and Straight are two different things

Depends. I've seen it used as an abbreviation for straight, and as a sort of catty insult implying that someone says they're straight but and are in denial. I've also seen it used as an abbreviation for straight-acting, which is a bit of a misnomer as what is really meant is masculine acting gay or bisexual male.

Wow! I learn something new every day here. I just thought "str8" was an abbreviation for "straight".

I used to go with gay friends to gay bars (leather, usually) - I was the token straight (or str8, not sure) and didn't know there were so many signals involved in being gay. I'd be hopeless; I would never remember which color handkerchief to wear and in which pocket to put it in! Could get in big trouble! I do like the look of leather on me, but not sure about the etiquette as to which side I wear the handcuffs on.

 

[handcuffsfan4]

I dont consider myself 100% anything. But i come here to 1. Get advice from other guys in my boat 2. To show off a little, cuse complements are always welcome, 3. Because when i was younger i was scared of sex because i thought i could hurt a girl, but looking at guys bigger than and getting advice from them really helped me. Also its really cool seeing guys who are bigger than me, its a real humbling experience, by reminding myself that im not the biggest. And hey, everyone enjoys looking at a big dick sometimes, but im not really into watching two guys have sex. Also the guys kissing in gay porn isnt my thing. Thats i guess is why i am not 100% anything but i dont come here just to look at porn. This isnt a porn site its a support forum, i really dont get why alot of people come here if they arent here to at least get some information about the subject of them forum.

 

[43698]

A gay guy hits on you once, because you find it attractive. Do you

A. Turn him down, but still take the compliment

B. Turn him down and never tell anyone because you're ashamed

or

C. Some other.

As long as they are polite I am polite. I don't find them attractive. So that is not a factor here. I am polite to everyone even people I don't agree with. A compliment is a compliment no matter who gives it to you. While I cannot control what other people may think of me, I can control how I conduct myself. So I choose to be a gentleman.

As for telling anyone, I may or I may not. Most likely I won't think about it too much. I have a family and a business to think about. I also mentor a couple of young men. Because I was a powerlifting and bodybuilder for most of my life I have received many compliments from people. Not to sound smug, but getting hit on is not new.

 

[43698]

Mmm... you do know that Str8 and Straight are two different things

Never knew that. In his day in age there is a new form of the English language because of texting. People commonly use acronyms and substitute numbers for syllables.

 

[meningreentights]

Suprising how many guys said "If" or "I'd" like it has never happened. Seriously -- has that never happened to you??

It's happened more than I want to remember. What is it with people wanting the mailman?
If it is done respectfully, I'd say, "Sorry, I'm not into guys.".
If they are disrespectful, my reply will shoot them down. Unfortunately, most of what I've dealt with has been full blown sexual harassment including people grabbing my crotch. A lot of nasty women have been bad about it too. Nasty ho's.