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I'm married, but I love to suck cock. I have a friend at work (also married) who shows a nice bulge. I can't help but stare at it when we talk. We've never talked about it and as far as I know for sure, he thinks I'm completely straight (because I'm married).

There's been a lot of times we've been talking and I look up from his crotch to see him looking directly at me. I'm sure he's seen me looking. But he doesn't miss a beat in the conversation and has never said anything.

As much of a fantasy world as we live in here on this site, I'm 99% sure he's not in to guys in any way. So what do I do? Stop being his friend? Because I can't stop looking. OR make it more obvious that I'm looking at his bulge?

Any thoughts?
 

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Agreed, with the job market being what it is- find someone else to drool over NOT at work. Lot of employers are LOOKING for a reason to down size.
 

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My advice is to not hook up with co-workers. It has never worked out for me!
I have in the past hooked up with people I work with and the relationship later turned sour and my work place became a hell . And you may dread going to work at the place ever again.
 

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I don't know why you think you have to stop being friends with the guy. Just because he's not gonna let you slob his knob doesn't mean you can't keep all that stuff to yourself and just be buddies.
 

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I don't know why you think you have to stop being friends with the guy. Just because he's not gonna let you slob his knob doesn't mean you can't keep all that stuff to yourself and just be buddies.
Because I seriously can't keep my eyes off the bulge. It's like an obsession. Once today i was lost in staring at it and looked up and he was looking at me. Again, didn't miss a beat in the conversation. Think maybe he's just oblivious? Or knows I'm looking but doesn't want to say anything?
 

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Look don't touch - why are you afraid of your sexuality? God doesn't make any junk!
I'm not afraid of it. I'm just married. The only thing I like to do with guys is suck. I like to do so much more with women, so I went that way. I'm just obsessed with bulges. And thighs. I love me some thighs in blue jeans. anyway. back to my question. Do y'all think he's just oblivious, or doesn't want to say anything?
 

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Honestly if he's basically 100% straight he probably hasn't even noticed. I've had several friends confess to me that they were attracted to me. I think they hoped that I would say the same. Not happening. I think a couple seriously just wanted to get it out in the open and they knew I wouldn't reciprocate but certainly not all.

Several have commented that they were just sure I knew because of stares, or hugs, or body contact or whatever. I don't pay attention to those things with guys, because I'm not into guys.

Could be he's noticed and just assumed that you're curious about his size. I have had many completely straight friends work up the courage to ask just how big I am. They were staring at the bulge. If I realize it, then I just tease them about it, and usually they'll come out and ask. If we are close enough friends, then I am cool with it.

I think you just need to enjoy being his friend. Even if he knew you were interested, which I agree you should not come right out and say to a co-worker, he still may not care. I have many gay friends. I know at some of them are attracted to me, but we're still friends, in some cases the closest of friends.
 

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My advice is erase this downlow mentality ASAP. Downlow men are some of the biggest perpetrators of transmitting STD's. Does your wife know you want to engage in sex acts with men? Sex in the workplace is a bad idea, it complicates things and it may constitute sexual harassment. Talk to your wife about this, maybe she has some good tips for how to deal with men.
 

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ask if he wants to go work out with you, swimming at a lake or beach. then you can watch him change? haha. can cure your curiosity about his size. but id say dont force anything on him. i dont really like when a guy asks me to take our friendship further...talk about cocks more with him, see how he reacts and then suggest stuff? that works for me.