Question for the bi guys

[902369]

Im 158.9333% TOP

Haha I figured.

 

[elixer26]

Or maybe these guys just want big black dick. Lot's of "straight" men are obsessed with black penises and from your posts it doesn't seem like you're the bottom in these sexual escapades.

Oh, I haven't started with my sexcapades, I havent started at all

 

[mytastycock]

hi

did you always consider yourself bi, or is it something that developed with time/experience/curiosity?
what experiences did you have that opened you up to the thought of being with another guy?

i've had threesomes, but they were the kind where the guys are super careful to minimize contact with each other and not to touch penises
i'd love a threesome that ends with him fucking the other guy, but so far he hasn't been open to the idea. he says hes not homophobic or repulsed by men, he just has absolutely no sexual interest in them at all.

so, is this a total lost cause?

For me it was a result of my girlfriend wanting me to share her with another guy.

I wanted to have a threesome with her and her girlfriend, and she said in order for that to happen I would have to help her out with her bimmf fantasy. The idea repulsed me when she first confessed her desire, but when I saw her eyes glazed over and how soaked she was talking about it I said ok.

There was no anal, but she wanted us to do that. It was oral only and something I had never done before.

I did get a threesome with her and her girlfriend so it all worked out.

Maybe tell your man he can have you and one of your girlfriends in bed if he fulfills your fantasy.

 

[nailz]

Maybe tell your man he can have you and one of your girlfriends in bed if he fulfills your fantasy.

He's already had me and my girlfriend in bed, many times, so that's not going to work
I guess this is one downside of spoiling him by letting him do whatever he wants with you: you leave nothing left to bargain with

I'm sticking with the ts loophole
I'm pretty sure the main reason he won't fuck another guy is because he thinks it will mean he's "gay", but he's made comments about wanting to try a threesome with a t-girl.
To me it seems like almost the same thing, but I guess if it comes in a "female" wrapper it has more deniability

 

[RedScrotum]

If he wants to try a threesome with a t-girl, then you have to find a t-girl. go on, go find one. we'll wait.......

 

[thongboy]

My buddy and I started playing with each other when we were in our early teens. We didn't feel any guilt, it just felt good — the things we did together and with each other. Then we both discovered girls and found out it was fun to do interesting things with them too. We were both fucking chicks by the time we were 16, but we didn't see any reason to stop our own activities. But it took a while for me to even consciously realize that I was what was called bisexual. Still no hang-ups — to me it just meant double the fun. Today, my fuck buddy is often the second guy when my gf and I are in the mood for a threesome. But now that I'm a bit older, I know how lucky I was to have liberal parents who taught me one important lesson about sex. Respect your partner even if it's a one-night stand. Never force a partner to do anything he or she doesn't want to do

 

[agentblueuk]

He's already had me and my girlfriend in bed, many times, so that's not going to work
I guess this is one downside of spoiling him by letting him do whatever he wants with you: you leave nothing left to bargain with

I'm sticking with the ts loophole
I'm pretty sure the main reason he won't fuck another guy is because he thinks it will mean he's "gay", but he's made comments about wanting to try a threesome with a t-girl.
To me it seems like almost the same thing, but I guess if it comes in a "female" wrapper it has more deniability

You could maybe say no more MFF till he tries MMF? Maybe ease him in gently by saying you only want to say jerk the guy off before they roast you?

 

[latinluva]

Have a a question for bi guys, do you guys like to have sex or have fantasies with trans women?

I think with trans women, it really depends on her femininity and personality. I've met some awesome ones that I find sexy. Also met some who are a bit too cocky!

 

[WolfenBeast]

hi

did you always consider yourself bi, or is it something that developed with time/experience/curiosity?
what experiences did you have that opened you up to the thought of being with another guy?

I realized I had some sort of sexual interest in males at 15 or so. I still don't use the label of bi yet though.

I had never had any sexual thoughts about dudes and was very into females, being the horny teen I was. Then while looking at porn online one night I stumbled onto gay porn and instead of being repulsed, I found myself wanting to join in and pound that ass too! It was hot, the raw sexal energy, masculinity and the thought of doninating a man like that turned me on...much more than I wanted to at that time.

After that I would continue to be into females as I always was but would on occasion fantasize about fucking and muscular masculine guy, making him my bitch. I would also go back to gay porn on occasion. I pondered if I might be gay, but it didn't make sense because in real life I never felt attracted to a guy and I loved women sexually and romantically, but it only was sexual for males.

Later I stopped trying to figure it out and just accepted that I had this secret desire that I would never fulfill because "there was no way I'd do something like that" I thought......Then one day I said fuck it and I had sex with a guy! I did the whole nine to that dude lol! The gay porn gave me quite the imaginatiom. I even rubbed dicks with him (that's called frottage right), so I really let my inhabitiins go and went all the way homo, barring taking up the ass myself because I'm 100% top and simply not into that haha.

That was just last year, first and only time so far. Was nice but not the best. Still prefer woman much more and still don't find myself attracted to males often. However I would like more experiences in the future.

 

[nailz]

If he wants to try a threesome with a t-girl, then you have to find a t-girl. go on, go find one. we'll wait.......

It can't be that hard.
Our gay friend just had his bday party at a club that was holding a ts/drag queen pageant, and my bf was getting hit on all night. Even I was getting hit on

 

[wolf33]

Like some others that have posted on this topic, I always had been curious about being with a man, but had a lot of hangups about it. I was fortunate enough to have been married to a very sexually open woman that helped me to stop defining sexuality in the terms that society gives us. She made it very comfortable for me to share my thoughts and feelings on the matter. For example, when we would watch porn together, I would ask her things like what it was like to give a bj or how it is to be fucked (cuz it all looked very fun to me). She offered to give me the experience by having sex with a strap-on. I didn't hesitate to take her up on it. The first time we tried it was definitely a little awkward, but at the same time very exciting. Enjoying a completely different sexual role literally doubled the size of my sexual world.

After we split up, I was armed with a much deeper understanding of sexuality and was much more comfortable with the desires and feelings that I once struggled with. So I decided to try the real thing. I have only been with three men, but my experiences with them have been very enjoyable. They have all been with very experienced tops (when it comes to men, I am 100% bottom) and have given me pleasures i never knew existed. Glad I worked through it all and tried it out.

It seems like your bf may have some similar hangups. Just support him and even encourage him to explore. That type of support from my wife was key for me. We may have split, but I still thank her changing my outlook on sexuality. It has definitely been for the better! My only regret is never having a threesome with another man. We had several with women and it was awesome to share pussy with her. It would have been great to have shared some nice dick with her too!

 

[Notaes]

I consider myself basically straight however I have always admired a handsome well groomed good looking guy that is fit. The male form has always stood out to me. I have been deeply in love and married to the same woman for along time. She gives me all the pussy I want and keeps me pretty satisfied sexually. I have always wondered what it would be like to be with a good looking male. Never done anything except had my big cock sucked and my spine drained many times by a dude. It is my opinion they suck cock better. I will always love my wife and don't have any plans or desire to suck a cock. But I will never say never. Given the right time and conditions anything could happen. I have been so fucking turned on before I have been controlled by my lust. That is a dangerous thing. I try to be careful and faithful and try to be a good husband and good man in general. Having said that I have a active cock and I know most of us men are capable of anything when we let our cocks do the thinking and make the decisions? Enjoy your cocks! Tomorrow maybe to late!

 

[hornyguy269]

hi

did you always consider yourself bi, or is it something that developed with time/experience/curiosity?
what experiences did you have that opened you up to the thought of being with another guy?

i've had threesomes, but they were the kind where the guys are super careful to minimize contact with each other and not to touch penises
i'd love a threesome that ends with him fucking the other guy, but so far he hasn't been open to the idea. he says hes not homophobic or repulsed by men, he just has absolutely no sexual interest in them at all.

so, is this a total lost cause?

My first sexual experiences were with male friends, experimenting, if you will. While we all wanted to get pussy, and believe me, I liked girls a lot, I truly enjoyed getting naked with a buddy and jacking off while looking at magazines, yes it was magazines back then. Eventually, jacking off together led to playing with each others dicks, and sucking each other, although we never got each other off, we would finish ourselves off, that way it wasn't gay, or that was our rationale anyway. Back then I had never heard the term bisexual, you were either gay or straight and it wasn't a good time to be labeled gay. It was very confusing for me, because I knew that I enjoyed the male body as much as the female body, however, like many people have said, I only had romantic feelings for females. That would change a few years later with one guy, but due to the times, things didn't work out. I still think about him to this day, and some of my best jack off sessions involve the memories of the times he and I shared. He is the only guy that I ever had any intimate romantic feelings towards, any other guys I've fooled around with have just been purely sexual. I've been married for a long time now, my wife and I have a very good sexual relationship and are very open with each other, she knows I'm bisexual, and we even discussed a 3 some with another bisexual male, but in the end we decided against it. I have a couple of jack off buddies these days, but it's not a regular thing, if the occasion arises, like on a hunting or fishing trip, or skinny dipping together in the country, we'll jack off. With one buddy it will never be more than just jacking off together, with the other one it may well progress a little further. So, while at the time, I did not know the term bisexual, I've always known that I enjoyed both males and females sexually.

 

[bbtgm]

I would say I have always been attracted to men and women, but for most of my life I was involved with a woman. Later in life after a divorce my interest became more open and my bisexuality has come out and have started actively having sex with men also.

 

[Dinkydicklet]

thanks for all the replies.

he was watching tgirl porn the other night.. maybe a glimmer of hope?

Tgirl porn got me into admiring cocks. Then i thought i should try sucking one, so i did. Then i realised i would like to be a bottom and feel it in me, which i loved.

You need to ask him if he would bottom or top if it comes to it or may be both. What would you like to see him as though?

 

[Erich155951]

Gay here in Boston.

 

[Lovewhitecock]

It really came over time. When I was young guy paid me 20 bucks to give me head. Never thought about it. Then 15 years ago gave my first blow job then year after that had a guy do me and after he made me cum it was like I love cock.

 

[FinMe]

From a young tender age I knew that both guys and the ladies gave me a hard on. That calmed down as I got older. Gently guide him and he will follow. If you push him to hard, he will revolt. Above all have fun.

 

[Hockeytiger]

hi

did you always consider yourself bi, or is it something that developed with time/experience/curiosity?
what experiences did you have that opened you up to the thought of being with another guy?

i've had threesomes, but they were the kind where the guys are super careful to minimize contact with each other and not to touch penises
i'd love a threesome that ends with him fucking the other guy, but so far he hasn't been open to the idea. he says hes not homophobic or repulsed by men, he just has absolutely no sexual interest in them at all.

so, is this a total lost cause?

It may very well be a lost cause, but you are in a better position to determine that.

I didn't come to realize my bisexuality until I was 18 (possibly younger than a lot of guys here). Before then, I didn't have any sexual thoughts about guys, which is why it was such a shock to me when it did happen. It took a few months for me from the time I had my first fleeting sexual thoughts about another guy to when I truly considered myself bisexual, but longer still to truly come to terms with it (Again, probably, a shorter time frame than a lot of guys, but it was still a difficult experience).

Specifically, the event that triggered it for me was jerking off with my roommate to some crappy porn. Strangely, I had jerked off with other guys a couple of times earlier in my life without any gay desires popping up. Not sure what was different this time. I didn't act on it at the time, as I thought it would be inappropriate and, frankly, it scared the shit out of me. But over time the thoughts didn't go away. One night, after a MFM, the other guy out of the blue, blew me, and I reciprocated, and the rest is history.

My only suggestion is that you be careful to respect your boyfriend's sexuality. He says he's not interested, and I don't think you can change that and are more likely going to harm the relationship by pushing things. He knows about your desires and while you can freely share those feelings, pressuring him is likely going to do more harm than good (but possibly not). Just remember to respect his feelings. He has said, he has zero desires for other guys. Your desires aren't going to change that. Gently reminding him of it and reciting your fantasy while he fingers you may be the best way for the two of you to share the experience. Lastly, many times if not most of the time, fantasies are better of left as fantasies as they rarely live up to the hype in real life.

 

[nailz]

My only suggestion is that you be careful to respect your boyfriend's sexuality. He says he's not interested, and I don't think you can change that and are more likely going to harm the relationship by pushing things. He knows about your desires and while you can freely share those feelings, pressuring him is likely going to do more harm than good (but possibly not). Just remember to respect his feelings. He has said, he has zero desires for other guys. Your desires aren't going to change that. Gently reminding him of it and reciting your fantasy while he fingers you may be the best way for the two of you to share the experience. Lastly, many times if not most of the time, fantasies are better of left as fantasies as they rarely live up to the hype in real life.

Thanks, I'll keep that in mind

Specifically, the event that triggered it for me was jerking off with my roommate to some crappy porn. Strangely, I had jerked off with other guys a couple of times earlier in my life without any gay desires popping up. Not sure what was different this time. I didn't act on it at the time, as I thought it would be inappropriate and, frankly, it scared the shit out of me. But over time the thoughts didn't go away. One night, after a MFM, the other guy out of the blue, blew me, and I reciprocated, and the rest is history.

Guys actually do this?

I know guys have this idea that our sleepovers are all about naked pillowfights and scissoring but that's far from reality
I can't imagine any time in my life when it would have been appropriate to masturbate with friends or roommates
The closest I've ever come was teaching a friend how to deep throat, but that's still a long way from masturbating together.