Back in the 1980s, in Torch Song Triology, Harvey Fierstein observed that he is yet to meet a bisexual man who has a live-in boyfriend and keeps a secret girlfriend on the side. So, my question is: how many self-proclaimed bisexuals here (especially the ones who identify as 90 percent straight and 10 percent gay) are honest about their attraction to men with people in real life. For example, does your wife or girlfriend know you come on here and other websites and comment on gallery pics and men's cocks? A self-respecting homo can't drool over the gallery these days and fail to notice the number of horny comments left by 90 percent straight guys. I'm not insinuating bisexuality does not exist so don't flip out. I'm simply wondering if Harvey's observation still holds true today -- that bisexual men basically sneak around with guys while keeping firm footing in more traditional and socially acceptable relationship. Or, has the discussion of same sex marriage changed that.