Question for the bottoms and not moaning

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Gday,

Hope everyone is keeping well. I just had an encounter on the weekend with a hung and rough top. It was great but one thing that bothered(well embarrassed) me is i was rather vocal. Normally im pretty quiet, try to keep it down but this time i was face first in the pillow trying to muffle as he pounded me. I could not control myself.

My question is, how do guys take large ones and not moan so loud the neighbours may hear? Do i need to gag myself haha?

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Hey Monk, I'm not a bottom but I had to reply to your question.

With my size, I get a number of reactions when having intercourse with a guy; it is all good when it is a genuine response.

I do tend to prefer men who don't whimper or cry out with screams; I much prefer moaning and verbal responses.

I do really enjoy my partners words telling me what he likes and especially when he makes a comment about my size and how he is satisfied.

Really young guys sometimes don't know how to respond and often don't know how to respond to the pleasure because of the pain. After some training, buggery does not have to be painful and a playful dialog can emerge.
 

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Hey Monk, I'm not a bottom but I had to reply to your question.

With my size, I get a number of reactions when having intercourse with a guy; it is all good when it is a genuine response.

I do tend to prefer men who don't whimper or cry out with screams; I much prefer moaning and verbal responses.

I do really enjoy my partners words telling me what he likes and especially when he makes a comment about my size and how he is satisfied.

Really young guys sometimes don't know how to respond and often don't know how to respond to the pleasure because of the pain. After some training, buggery does not have to be painful and a playful dialog can emerge.
Thank you for that Steed. Definitely no crying in pain, but i now know why some bottoms (and women) moan loudly when getting some good topping.
 

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Why try to gag your sounds of pleasure? I never hold back with the moans, and I always tell my top exactly why he's making me moan too. It's good to really verbalize your feelings. I say things during a fuck I could never say normally. It all comes out.
 

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Why try to gag your sounds of pleasure? I never hold back with the moans, and I always tell my top exactly why he's making me moan too. It's good to really verbalize your feelings. I say things during a fuck I could never say normally. It all comes out.
Id rather the neighbours not know that im being used as someone elses fleshlight. haha
 
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Pretty sure my neighbors are well aware of when I'm getting railed by a big pipe nowadays haha... I can't help but moan loud, talk dirty, tell my man I want it harder and faster, etc., especially when I'm getting a big one!
 

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Gday,

Hope everyone is keeping well. I just had an encounter on the weekend with a hung and rough top. It was great but one thing that bothered(well embarrassed) me is i was rather vocal. Normally im pretty quiet, try to keep it down but this time i was face first in the pillow trying to muffle as he pounded me. I could not control myself.

My question is, how do guys take large ones and not moan so loud the neighbours may hear? Do i need to gag myself haha?

-Monk
Being versatile I can say the moaning can happen from the top and bottom.. I’ve moaned several times doing both..


He was bigger than used to? Or maybe he just knew how to work his tool( not size of the ship it’s the motion in the ocean). .i was topped by a guy barely 5 inches and I figured this will be fun and feel good .. but then he screwed me and I was moaning and saying a few words

So there will be times you will moan a little or a lot or none.. it just depends on the top that’s screwing you
 

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Being versatile I can say the moaning can happen from the top and bottom.. I’ve moaned several times doing both..


He was bigger than used to? Or maybe he just knew how to work his tool( not size of the ship it’s the motion in the ocean). .i was topped by a guy barely 5 inches and I figured this will be fun and feel good .. but then he screwed me and I was moaning and saying a few words

So there will be times you will moan a little or a lot or none.. it just depends on the top that’s screwing you
Oh he knew how to pound. Large but not scary large. He knew exactly what he was doing. I still am thinking of him a week later.
 

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A lot of the times it’s the look in your face that does well for the guy fucking you..

Also spreading your legs further apart or if doggy style you push back onto his cock as he’s going in making it go in harder.. I myself enjoy that if I am topping someone and talked to other tops that thought the same way..


They’d say moaning is ok if they want to do it or can’t help but doing it.. but to show more into it by assisting in the process of going in and out made them happier
 

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I love hearing the sounds of pleasure, even when it's not me making them. I went to my fav spa/bathhouse yesterday, and just walking around the rooms upstairs and listening to the panting sounds, the moaning & groaning, and the verbal banter, was enough to get me throbbing. I sometimes listen to those audio only sessions on porn sites through earphones. Laying naked in a dark room, eye's closed, the sounds of fucking in your head, imagining the scene, it's very erotic.
 

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Pretty sure my neighbors are well aware of when I'm getting railed by a big pipe nowadays haha... I can't help but moan loud, talk dirty, tell my man I want it harder and faster, etc., especially when I'm getting a big one!
Lol likewise, they always give me a wuick side eye morning after ive been piped down
 

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Moaning is hot when it's genuine and not over the top.

My favorite tops moan, get verbal, and make me beg for it. If I'm getting my ass pounded by a skilled top I turn into a moaning slut, I get off asking them to fuck me harder, pull my hair, spank me, etc.

Quiet sex is boring.
 

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I moan whenever I'm enjoying myself, regardless of whether I'm topping or bottoming. I'm self-conscious about it a bit, but I am vocal.

My question is, how do guys take large ones and not moan so loud the neighbours may hear? Do i need to gag myself haha?

-Monk
Pretty much. Go nuts.
 
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