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When you first started being the "bull" for couples you didn't know or even couples that you did know what was the atmosphere like in the room when each person involved saw that you were clearly hung bigger than the husband? And did the atmosphere change at all if you were clearly better at satisfying his wife or gf than he was? Did it at any point get compeditive? What was the feeling like of knowing that you clearly satisfied another man's wife or gf better than he did?
 

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I have acted as the "bull" for a number of couples over the past 5 years. Since I met the couples either at a swing club, at a nude beach or resort, or on-line trading pics, everybody knew it was about the woman being serviced by a much bigger man. Sometimes the men eagerly sought me out and encouraged it. Other times the man faded into the background and watched impassively while their women went wild. But everyone knew up front what it was about. Only once did I feel a little bad for the guy -- they were a Swedish couple in NYC for vacation. He sat forlornly in the corner of the hotel room while I did his wife. She kept raving and screaming loudly about the size of my dick. He seemed resigned to it though. The other men have generally been encouraging and it clearly turned them on to see their women taking a much bigger dick.
 

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The other men have generally been encouraging and it clearly turned them on to see their women taking a much bigger dick.

This is generally a male fantasy. The husband is using the "bull" to become aroused, and the bull is using the woman to get off.

The idea that a woman is going to find a stranger more arousing and therefore more satisfying is baloney. If you disagree try asking women that you don't know to fuck you. Better yet tell her you have a 10" cock that you are going to tear her up with, helmet and cup are advised.
 

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Oh, it could totally be. I'm not contesting that. But they definitely are making a big deal about it. Maybe they are trying to humiliate him, but many times the guy is getting off on it too.
 

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You tell 'em bigalicious! I mean, why bother being in the room to fuck with the two of them (whomever they turn out to be) if you're not going to fuck with ALL of them?
 

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but many times the guy is getting off on it too.

He's supposed to by leveraging his biological reaction to the threat of his woman being impregnated with someone else's sperm.

His sub-conscious response is to get revved up, pounce on her and pump all the offending sperm out with his penis, then replace it with his own.
 
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He's supposed to by leveraging his biological reaction to the threat of his woman being impregnated with someone else's sperm.

His sub-conscious response is to get revved up, pounce on her and pump all the offending sperm out with his penis, then replace it with his own.

Um, how exactly does one "pump out the offending sperm with his penis"? I didn't know mine could act like a flood pump!
 

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He's supposed to by leveraging his biological reaction to the threat of his woman being impregnated with someone else's sperm.

His sub-conscious response is to get revved up, pounce on her and pump all the offending sperm out with his penis, then replace it with his own.



Well I have to say that this does have a ring of truth to it. But in the act of getting off, the male that overpowers with the larger, harder cock, in fucking the woman...well, he's just not part of that equation. Is he?
 

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I have acted as the "bull" for a number of couples over the past 5 years. Since I met the couples either at a swing club, at a nude beach or resort, or on-line trading pics, everybody knew it was about the woman being serviced by a much bigger man. Sometimes the men eagerly sought me out and encouraged it. Other times the man faded into the background and watched impassively while their women went wild. But everyone knew up front what it was about. Only once did I feel a little bad for the guy -- they were a Swedish couple in NYC for vacation. He sat forlornly in the corner of the hotel room while I did his wife. She kept raving and screaming loudly about the size of my dick. He seemed resigned to it though. The other men have generally been encouraging and it clearly turned them on to see their women taking a much bigger dick.


You are obviously very well hung. How did you feel knowing that you were a much better "fucker" and much bigger than the husband or bf?
 

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Well I am careful not to gloat about it, at least not in front of the guy! Yes, it is a good feeling to be much better hung and presumably to be satisfying the woman much better than the guy can. But like any in-shape well-hung guy, you can let it go to your head if you aren't careful. I try to let those situations feed my self-confidence, but keep it in bounds. It is important to maintain respect for both the man and the woman in that situation.
 

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Did you ever think they were putting on a good show to please their husband?

I guess you've never heard of a woman faking an orgasm...

OR, maybe the woman enjoys the fact that she's pleasing her husband by having sex with another man in front of her husband.

Because of this, she's having an orgasm.

I'm just saying...
 

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I've kinda bulled quite a few times. I say "kinda" because it was mainly in the swinging environment and I'm not quite sure that I was providing the bull fantasy. It was more like threesomes. There wasn't humiliation involved. But, something Call_me_daddy mentioned did occur quite often. The times I did bare back and creampied, her husband/boyfriend would come up right after me and start pumping away. At the time I just shrugged it off as sloppy seconds. A few years ago I read an article that collaborated what Call_me_daddy mentioned about "pumping" all the offending sperm out. It was like the couple would go off into their own thing once I was done.
 
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I have been the bull for several couples and because they knew my size or saw my pictures, there were no surprises. In all cases the husbands contacted me and they were initially interested in my size. In most cases the wives DID get turned on, and this is probably down to them being middle-aged but suddenly feeling sexy and seductive by turning-on a total stranger. The other part of it is my size is more girth than length, 6.5" girth, and women often enjoy being stretched and filled for the first time. Call Me Daddy has it all wrong; the wives did enjoy having sex one-on-one with me while their husbands watched us. This was always the way, and maybe the husband would play when I was well into it or finished, or maybe watching was sufficient for him. In many cases the husbands wanted to take their turn but couldn't get hard. Always in those cases the wives didn't care, which always surprised me. They were so much into their own fantasy of being the sexual seductress of the man with the big cock or the good feelings that big cock gave them, that they were totally oblivious to their husband's problems. At that moment they didn't need any more than me.

When sex was over sometimes we had a spa together, and once the passion subsided they were still the couple and usually enjoyed the threesome and I was the one to leave at an appropriate time. A few times after sex it was awkward, in the cases where the husbands wanted to play but couldn't, and all they could do was watch their wives clearly being turned-on by something they knew they could never provide. Some of the husbands were hostile, in fact. Be careful what you wish for!