I'm curious about this. I have a couple of male friends who have both told me that they haven't had sex in a really long time. It's been 3 years for one and I'm not sure about the other, but he hasn't had a girlfriend in many years. They both say that they want to get married & have kids, but they haven't been dating anyone for quite some time. My question to those who are celibate, is it because you WANT to be, or is it just that you haven't met anyone of interest?