and at 44 my life is far from perfect but I love my life
you only get one go round so make the most of it
if you choose not to have sex or to find the one and you are happy so be it
agreed!
and at 44 my life is far from perfect but I love my life
you only get one go round so make the most of it
if you choose not to have sex or to find the one and you are happy so be it
...and after some time being celibate passes, getting your mojo back becomes more difficult. You do begin to question your desirability, and your ability. It does become MUCH easier to say "to hell with it all" and thereby making it a none issue and something that you don't have to stress about. And is that such a bad thing? You don't have to share the bed, deal with snoring, or get woken up to someone else's schedule. You get to eat what you want, when you want it. No nagging, no bartering, no dealing with suspicions or infidelity. So yes, in some ways it does make life easier and safer by making things simpler and logical. That's a trade-off some are willing to take.
We hugged, kissed and actually talked for the first time in more years than I can remember where it didn't end up in a fight.
is it just that you haven't met anyone of interest?
I'm celibate by choice.
Other people choose not to have sex with me!
And besides, of the few dates I have been on, the more I've dated, the more I love my cat!