traysheeka: Firstly, lemme apologize for the labeling, but I couldnt think of a better term to use, but anyways, here's my question, are men more "anal" (for lack of a better term/no puns intended) about penis size than girls are?? I mean, as for as wanting a big one all the time?? Me personally, I'm not a size queen, size does NOT matter to me, but most women talk about wanting a big one, and i was just wondering basically if size matters to men who have sex with other men?? ???
bjtex: I discovered this board during my private researches into why dicks develop as they do. As an "average" man I should just walk away, but I can't help it...Bigguns fascinate me.
To answer your question I would definitely say - yes, men are more into size than women. I personally would prefer someone larger than myself, and have had attractive guys walk away after one quick grope (I grow). Guys that go out with me more than once are almost always smaller. Now that I am looking to settle down, however, I don't let it factor into my decision making.
To answer your question I would definitely say - yes, men are more into size than women. I personally would prefer someone larger than myself, and have had attractive guys walk away after one quick grope (I grow). Guys that go out with me more than once are almost always smaller. Now that I am looking to settle down, however, I don't let it factor into my decision making.
norseman: Hey tray,
Good topic. I think for visual stimulation ( a much under rated part of the sexual experience) The bigger the dick the better. As the symbol of all that is uniquely masculine the big dick says it all.
NOW, if you ask me which I'd rather have poking at my tonsils or reaming the other end, personally I'm all for a more comfortable ride with a smaller ("average" is just fine) tool.
As an endowed bi guy, women I've been with seem to be a little hesitant to deal with the big boy. Even visually they seem to be much quicker to comment on a "nice ass" (AND THEY'RE NOT GOING TO DO ANYTHING WITH IT !) than a full package.
Go figure.
Good topic. I think for visual stimulation ( a much under rated part of the sexual experience) The bigger the dick the better. As the symbol of all that is uniquely masculine the big dick says it all.
NOW, if you ask me which I'd rather have poking at my tonsils or reaming the other end, personally I'm all for a more comfortable ride with a smaller ("average" is just fine) tool.
As an endowed bi guy, women I've been with seem to be a little hesitant to deal with the big boy. Even visually they seem to be much quicker to comment on a "nice ass" (AND THEY'RE NOT GOING TO DO ANYTHING WITH IT !) than a full package.
Go figure.
bklynbigballs: In porn and on a fantasy level, I prefer a guy with a big dick. I just can't stop staring at a huge cock and want to feel it in my mouth etc.
However, from day-to-day, I prefer an average cock. I had a couple of long-term boyfriends who were humungous and I just couldn't handle that much cock. It was a struggle to take them into my mouth or ass.
However, from day-to-day, I prefer an average cock. I had a couple of long-term boyfriends who were humungous and I just couldn't handle that much cock. It was a struggle to take them into my mouth or ass.
busterj: I prefer a larger dick for oral. Am particularly talented at deep throating and get off on a good challenge.
As far as fucking is concerned, small to average is my preference. I am able to accomodate him more and able to go primal without the fear of damaging myself.If a guy is over eight then I feel more comfortable riding him. Better control.
My last b.f. was only about five inches, but the sex was increadible. So it really depends on the guy and how he uses what he's got.
But if we are talking for purely visual stimulation i.e. porn. Then a monster dick gets my attention everytime!!
As far as fucking is concerned, small to average is my preference. I am able to accomodate him more and able to go primal without the fear of damaging myself.If a guy is over eight then I feel more comfortable riding him. Better control.
My last b.f. was only about five inches, but the sex was increadible. So it really depends on the guy and how he uses what he's got.
But if we are talking for purely visual stimulation i.e. porn. Then a monster dick gets my attention everytime!!
I have no size preference either...
and I know a couple guys (at least) who post
here, who also have no size preference....
but i think we are in the minority.
the VAST MAJORITY of the gay and bi men
i know continually tell me that they want a big
cock...or an "above average".
This is something that i actually poll people on
and the gay/bi answer usually is something to the
effect of, "yeah, i know this sounds bad...and
personality is a part of what i want....BBBBBBUUUUUTTTTTTTTT......"
and then they say that a big one feels better
and stimulates them more visually.
It baffles me, because i really dont
have a preference, and I always say...
if my partner has a cock, and it gets hard,
and is used well...that is all i need from a cock.
and I know a couple guys (at least) who post
here, who also have no size preference....
but i think we are in the minority.
the VAST MAJORITY of the gay and bi men
i know continually tell me that they want a big
cock...or an "above average".
This is something that i actually poll people on
and the gay/bi answer usually is something to the
effect of, "yeah, i know this sounds bad...and
personality is a part of what i want....BBBBBBUUUUUTTTTTTTTT......"
and then they say that a big one feels better
and stimulates them more visually.
It baffles me, because i really dont
have a preference, and I always say...
if my partner has a cock, and it gets hard,
and is used well...that is all i need from a cock.
GAGMETRODC: About labeling, I prefer cocksuker myself, at least you can visualize my talent! I love to get fucked by big men - its all about the prostate getting a workout. I can actually cum hands-free, but of course, thickness is more important than length. When giving head, I prefer lenght over girth and can deep throat the best of them!
rikter8: I like em just right. As in, Nice, smooth, cleanly shaven, not HUGE, but not too small either.
I would think my ideal man would be 6-8" in length.
I have had a few 8" guys, and was happy with them as well.
The other thing about size, is that not all Gay guys are Bottoms...or guys that like to be on the recieving end. Im what they call Top/Versatile. I like to give more than recieve.
For me, I have to be in the right mood, and a good pair of massaging hands on my back.
Most important to me, other than Penis Size, when I look for a man are:
1. A job or at least some sort of goal to be something successful or Fulfilling.
2. A Vehicle - Do I have taxi tatooed on my forehead? (True story)
3. Sense of Humor
4. His own place - no I will not hide in the closet while Mom checks out what all the racket was (true story)
5. Common Sense - I can't believe the LACK of this in my area.
6. Mechanical Abilities - I like to build stuff, so will my man.
The label: I'm ok as being a "gay" man....its when it's put into a different context where it gets you in trouble.
I would think my ideal man would be 6-8" in length.
I have had a few 8" guys, and was happy with them as well.
The other thing about size, is that not all Gay guys are Bottoms...or guys that like to be on the recieving end. Im what they call Top/Versatile. I like to give more than recieve.
For me, I have to be in the right mood, and a good pair of massaging hands on my back.
Most important to me, other than Penis Size, when I look for a man are:
1. A job or at least some sort of goal to be something successful or Fulfilling.
2. A Vehicle - Do I have taxi tatooed on my forehead? (True story)
3. Sense of Humor
4. His own place - no I will not hide in the closet while Mom checks out what all the racket was (true story)
5. Common Sense - I can't believe the LACK of this in my area.
6. Mechanical Abilities - I like to build stuff, so will my man.
The label: I'm ok as being a "gay" man....its when it's put into a different context where it gets you in trouble.
I think it depends what the guy is like. If he is nice looking, intelligent and has a sense of humour, then size is not that important as long as he is not too small. I have had very satisfactory sex with average guys who know what they are doing and who can stimulate me properly. But, I have to say, I have had fanstastic sex with well-hung men who enjoy what they have and like to be appreciated. Size is a turn-on for me, partly because of the envy factor and also, as already noted, the visual aspect. I once had a young Danish friend and when he stripped I was quite astonished at the length of his cock - he was a brilliant partner. But if a guy is an unpleasant person then no matter how huge he is, forget it.
Size is so much a sexual fantasy stimulate. The male phallus is THE emblem of all things sexual. Masculinity, power, the driving force and all things sexual are portrayed by the male dick. Therefore, size is important, especially in the United States where we are taught "Bigger is Better."
Of course, the total package is most important, but many guys' knees will bend to the huge phallus even when the total package is somewhat lacking.
--Just the thoughts in my mind (and pants) this morning.
Of course, the total package is most important, but many guys' knees will bend to the huge phallus even when the total package is somewhat lacking.
--Just the thoughts in my mind (and pants) this morning.
muscle4big1: For me the question is for what purpose. For pure visual and other stimulation, nothing gets me going like a big dick. But for a relationship there has to be much more than that. And even for pure sex, I prefer size but it"s what a man does with his tool that"s most important. I have been fucked with 11 inchers that were terrible (although visually they were nice) and 11 inchers that were incredible, same with 6 inchers. Personally, when I fantasize, I think of well hung men, and have been fortunate to have had several well endowed lovers (of course, they had me, as well, a bottom who could take what they had to offer, so we both benefitted).
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