Hi First of all, my english is not that good but i think you guys will know what i mean. I'm Bi-sexual man with a straight look. First of all. When i go to work i somethimes see this guy that's 100% gay. He likes to show this off to other people. I dont have any sexual-attraction towards him, but when we both look in eachothers eyes i feel this energy ( i don't know how to explain this) through my body. I also know a gay guy who was in the same class / school as me for several years. When i looked into his eyes, nothing happened. ( also no sexual-attraction to this guy) And ofcourse when i look at straight man nothing happens either. But, there is some guy that lives near me in the neighbourhood. If i'm lucky i get to see him once or twice a week while i take our dog for a walk. When we both look in eachothers eyes i feel this same kind of energy going through my body. And my heartbeat goes much faster then normal. And just something insides me that says he's gay/bi. ( like a gaydar ) For this guy i have some sexual-attraction. When i see him its normaly just a hello - hello conversation, and sometimes we talk about our dogs. When i walk through our neighbourhood and he spots me i just keeps looking at me till he can't see me anymore ( this happens 9/10 times, and mostly when he is alone ). I have never seen him with a girl. And his age is somewhere between 20-25 i guess. He also has some kind of straight look. Can i assume he's gay or bi sexual? If he is, he is still in the closet i think. So the question is: Have you guys ever had this feeling when you looked a gay/bi guy into the eyes? Or is it just me? Or is it just random thing that can happen ? And how should i handle this? I'm still in closet myself and i'm not ready to tell my family and friends that i am bi-sexual. Thanks in advance.