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There was this gay guy on Jerry Springer who cheated on his boyfriend because he decided to acheive his lifelong fantasy of fucking a female. He got her pregnant.

Anyway, are there any homosexuals on this site who have had or have a fantasy of being sexual with a woman?
 

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Hi Flashback,

yes I think about women, yet I consider myself gay.

I also know of a lot of straight men that tend towards sexual activities with men and romantic activities with women. They still call themeselves straight.

I am of the mind that most sexual people have a strong preferrence in either direction, but not an absolute one. If people are attracted to one another, sex can and often does result. The act alone doesn't make you gay or straight because you engaged in a sexual act with a specific gender. Sexual identity is just that: ONE'S IDENTITY, not his behavior.

To tell you the truth, a warm wet hole is all I really need. The gender it belongs to is of little concern. The reason I typically shy away from women is that I am not so fond of the feminine. Its not thier body I dislike, it's what society has taught most women to act like that turns me off. Give a girl a skateboard, a wife beater, some junkjeans and a shaved head and I get a woody. When I think about picking one person to poke all the time for the rest of my life I think of the masculine. I find masculinity a challenge and very attractive. I suppose that is what makes me gay and what makes you straight. Its our attraction to social roles not gender.

Sex in my opinion has little to do with gender in most instances. Romance and one's opinions about who that person 'SHOULD' be is what makes us gay or straight. After all straight men love dick just like the homos. It just so happens that the dick they love the most is thier own. Does that make you gay? I think maybe a tini-tiny bit it does. Does that mean you wish to act it out, probs not.

Last, don't believe everything you see on Springer ...
 
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you're pretty defensive

maybe someone hurt you in real life?

don't use me as a punching bag for the shit people give you in real life

i'm just asking a simple question-do any of you gay men have intense fantasies of having sex with women ever?

i don't understand the homosexual subculture very much, so bare with me..
 

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flashback said:
you're pretty defensive

maybe someone hurt you in real life?

don't use me as a punching bag for the shit people give you in real life

i'm just asking a simple question-do any of you gay men have intense fantasies of having sex with women ever?

i don't understand the homosexual subculture very much, so bare with me..

human sexuality is not black or white
its a whole spectrum of greys

as for me
do i have fantasies about having sex with a woman?
nope
technically I am still a virgin :wink:
I've kissed women and started getting a bit frisky with them - but thats as far as it has ever gone...
 

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mindstar said:
human sexuality is not black or white
its a whole spectrum of greys

as for me
do i have fantasies about having sex with a woman?
nope
technically I am still a virgin :wink:
I've kissed women and started getting a bit frisky with them - but thats as far as it has ever gone...
tell that to http://www.blacksonblondes.com/
 

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flashback said:
you're pretty defensive

maybe someone hurt you in real life?

don't use me as a punching bag for the shit people give you in real life

i'm just asking a simple question-do any of you gay men have intense fantasies of having sex with women ever?

i don't understand the homosexual subculture very much, so bare with me..

What do you mean? I didn't see anyone respond to you defensively at all.
 

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I could have sex with a woman if I had to.... but I would rather not. I experimented with women when I was younger, but I am attracted only to men, and never really got into sex with women.

As for the "homosexual subculture", I am not sure what that is. I and most of the other gay people I know, are part of the broader culture of the cities where we live. I go to work, I pay bills, I go to a gym (which has both gay and straight members), and my life is not that different from the straight people I know. If I am a part of a "homosexual subculture", that's news to me.


flashback said:
you're pretty defensive

maybe someone hurt you in real life?

don't use me as a punching bag for the shit people give you in real life

i'm just asking a simple question-do any of you gay men have intense fantasies of having sex with women ever?

i don't understand the homosexual subculture very much, so bare with me..
 

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I have zero sexual feelings for women. Nada. They do nothing for me. For any remote reaction, they'd have to be SUPER muscular, and that still doesn't trigger an erection. That's just the way it is. In fact, even the sight of pussy turns a steel hard dick on me into a floppy one.
 

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NYTallBlond said:
I could have sex with a woman if I had to.... but I would rather not. I experimented with women when I was younger, but I am attracted only to men, and never really got into sex with women.

As for the "homosexual subculture", I am not sure what that is. I and most of the other gay people I know, are part of the broader culture of the cities where we live. I go to work, I pay bills, I go to a gym (which has both gay and straight members), and my life is not that different from the straight people I know. If I am a part of a "homosexual subculture", that's news to me.
punk is a subculture

i know punk rockers who go to the gym, work, and pay bills

really not a solid argument you're dishing out
 

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SUBCULTURE - a) a social group within a national culture that has distinctive patterns of behavior and beliefs

b) A cultural subgroup differentiated by status, ethnic background, residence, religion, or other factors that functionally unify the group and act collectively on each member.

the latter really doesn't work well in this situation, but the first one does...

(taken from dictionary.com)
 

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Dekkar said:
I have zero sexual feelings for women. Nada. They do nothing for me. For any remote reaction, they'd have to be SUPER muscular, and that still doesn't trigger an erection. That's just the way it is. In fact, even the sight of pussy turns a steel hard dick on me into a floppy one.

What he said.
 

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mainer1 said:
just another pointless, idiotic thread started by a phony asshole.

If you think so, don't post here. It's not that hard to understand.

The question was completely legitimate and it looks like an honest question to me. I've always wondered if any straight guys had fantasies about other dudes, so I guess this is just the reverse thought from a straight guy asking if the gay guys have had fantasies about sex with women. Learn2interpret.
 

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I wouldn't have a problem fucking a girl if there was a hot guy there, too. :biggrin1:

Just think of the guys who screw each other on the gay-for-pay sites. Often they're looking at a str8 porn that is playing off-camera. (That doesn't explain how they seem pretty comfortable with giving good head and swallowing each other's splooge, but that's for another thread)

I don't list myself as 100% gay here because I've always been interested in fucking women, just to see what it's like, but it's not something I actively seek out. The desire is too weak.
 

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I'm right with faculae on this one. As a big honkin' homo, I have never fucked a woman -- hardly even kissed one, in fact. But as a sexual being, I am intrigued by what it feels like to be with one. Some gay friends who have been with women tell me it's great; others think it was an awful experience. Truth be told, I would have zero idea on how to even approach a woman, let alone pick you up and bed her. (Cruising guys, however, comes very naturally...) I would definitely get off on double-banging a woman with a big-dicked friend.

Flashback, very cool thread. Thanks, man.