Hi Flashback,
yes I think about women, yet I consider myself gay.
I also know of a lot of straight men that tend towards sexual activities with men and romantic activities with women. They still call themeselves straight.
I am of the mind that most sexual people have a strong preferrence in either direction, but not an absolute one. If people are attracted to one another, sex can and often does result. The act alone doesn't make you gay or straight because you engaged in a sexual act with a specific gender. Sexual identity is just that: ONE'S IDENTITY, not his behavior.
To tell you the truth, a warm wet hole is all I really need. The gender it belongs to is of little concern. The reason I typically shy away from women is that I am not so fond of the feminine. Its not thier body I dislike, it's what society has taught most women to act like that turns me off. Give a girl a skateboard, a wife beater, some junkjeans and a shaved head and I get a woody. When I think about picking one person to poke all the time for the rest of my life I think of the masculine. I find masculinity a challenge and very attractive. I suppose that is what makes me gay and what makes you straight. Its our attraction to social roles not gender.
Sex in my opinion has little to do with gender in most instances. Romance and one's opinions about who that person 'SHOULD' be is what makes us gay or straight. After all straight men love dick just like the homos. It just so happens that the dick they love the most is thier own. Does that make you gay? I think maybe a tini-tiny bit it does. Does that mean you wish to act it out, probs not.
Last, don't believe everything you see on Springer ...