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Thanks Hung Muscle,

I am completely with you on the hand holding. I would, and in fact have tried, to find a guy willing to two time a chick with me. No luck thus far ...

I am into the female body, buy not into the female persona. Having a guy there with me would make it an excellent experiment.
 

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faculae said:
Hi Flashback,

yes I think about women, yet I consider myself gay.

I also know of a lot of straight men that tend towards sexual activities with men and romantic activities with women. They still call themeselves straight.

I am of the mind that most sexual people have a strong preferrence in either direction, but not an absolute one. If people are attracted to one another, sex can and often does result. The act alone doesn't make you gay or straight because you engaged in a sexual act with a specific gender. Sexual identity is just that: ONE'S IDENTITY, not his behavior.

To tell you the truth, a warm wet hole is all I really need. The gender it belongs to is of little concern. The reason I typically shy away from women is that I am not so fond of the feminine. Its not thier body I dislike, it's what society has taught most women to act like that turns me off. Give a girl a skateboard, a wife beater, some junkjeans and a shaved head and I get a woody. When I think about picking one person to poke all the time for the rest of my life I think of the masculine. I find masculinity a challenge and very attractive. I suppose that is what makes me gay and what makes you straight. Its our attraction to social roles not gender.

Sex in my opinion has little to do with gender in most instances. Romance and one's opinions about who that person 'SHOULD' be is what makes us gay or straight. After all straight men love dick just like the homos. It just so happens that the dick they love the most is thier own. Does that make you gay? I think maybe a tini-tiny bit it does. Does that mean you wish to act it out, probs not.

Last, don't believe everything you see on Springer ...

Great well thought out reply. BTW I agree with you about loving our dicks...never thought about it like that, but I think my GF loves my dick just as much as I do AND I do love her pussy. I'm secure enough to say I enjoy looking at pictures of dicks, BUT for me there is nothing that turns me on more than a hot woman.

Her femininity, the power I feel when taking her (for me) could never be matched by a man.

I am a hard wired woman lover.
 

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Right on Thickestone,

this is exactly what I am talking about. Sex is all in what gets you going. If powering in on your girl turn you on ... then that's awesome.

Thanks for speaking up.
 

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I'm not really wild about being termed as part of a "subculture" because it makes it sound like being gay is a preference rather than an orientation, but that having been said...

I have never had sex with a woman....I've been sexually active for 12 years and never even kissed a woman till a couple of years ago - generally speaking I have no sexual interest in women whatsoever. There has been the odd occasion though when that rule was broken; there have been one or two women I've met whom I was legitimately sexually attracted to, and it's all because of their attitude.

Then of course there's Angeline Jolie...other than my crazy sex-phobic sister, I don't know anybody gay, straight or bi who wouldn't bang Angeline Jolie... ;)
 

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razlovescock said:
Then of course there's Angeline Jolie...other than my crazy sex-phobic sister, I don't know anybody gay, straight or bi who wouldn't bang Angeline Jolie

You can add me to that list since I find very little of a sexual appeal to Angelina Jolie and would have no interest in fucking her even if I were paid to do it
 

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When I was beginning to mature sexually, I was very attracted to men, but since homosexuality was considered a sickness, I kept my secret. I married a woman and we had sex, but I was not fulfilled. I experimented with a man when I was 30 and the world changed for me! I would never consider sex with a woman again.
 

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Every gay/queer man's maturation into finding his true self is different.
Many men know from as young as 3-5 years that they are intensely attracted to men only. For others, it can take much longer to uncover the truth. During that process some men have sex with women and others never do.

I have a buddy who is gay and he said that he always felt dirty after having sex with women. I have another buddy who says that sex with women felt good in his pants but not in his heart.

I am married to a woman and have enjoyed sex with women for most of my life. After uncovering my true self over the past 3 years or so, I would admit to preferring sex and intimacy with men now over sex and intimacy with women (overall). During my more hetero years, I had many MFM experiences (no MM action involved) and found that I liked it very much.

For me, I could say that there are maybe 5 women on the planet that I would probably have the desire to sexually pursue. I personally find men to be more rawly passionate (kissing, during sex than most women I have encountered). Vaginal sex is enjoyable. Cunninglingus was never fun to me and, in retrospect, that should have been my first real clue that I was not as straight as I thought I was.

HungMuscle--when we meet in DC, I will give you tips for picking up a woman. Or you can listen to me and CokeCanBen chat in the chat room.
 

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The term for this phenomenon is "bisexuality" and there are lots of bisexuals here. We are part gay, or mostly gay, or a little gay, but also like women. It is not that rare. Just seems weird because we think of sexuality as being either straight or gay. Actually there is boatloads of grey in the middle...
 

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fortiesfun said:
Just seems weird because we think of sexuality as being either straight or gay. Actually there is boatloads of grey in the middle...

And if you cut out the emotions, what's left is the orgasm. And when I need it, I don't really care how I get it, the itch needs to be scratched.

The late Chinese leader, Deng Xiaoping, once said, "It does not matter if it is a white cat or a black cat, if it catches mice, it is a good cat."

I apply the same principle to my orgasms.
 

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flashback said:
SUBCULTURE - a) a social group within a national culture that has distinctive patterns of behavior and beliefs

b) A cultural subgroup differentiated by status, ethnic background, residence, religion, or other factors that functionally unify the group and act collectively on each member.

the latter really doesn't work well in this situation, but the first one does...

(taken from dictionary.com)

No it really doesn't. You are implying that homosexuality is a social group. So, left-handers are a social group too? Brunettes are a social group? I think not.
 

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thickestone said:
Her femininity, the power I feel when taking her (for me) could never be matched by a man.

I used to think so too. For me, the power I feel when taking a man could never be matched by a woman. It just wasn't for me. Nothing against you heteros.... One of my little brothers is straight.
 

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mainer1 said:
just another pointless, idiotic thread started by a phony asshole.
Isn't the point of this site, having a safe & fun place to ask questions and interact between other 'like' guys? I wouldn't imagine that you know this person well enough, so-as-to determine wether or not he's being phony, let alone, an asshole!:mad: Make a responsible choice for yourself and others. If your SO P'd off about another persons questions/comments, then dont hang out here!!! Gheesh!!!! "It's SOOOOO much easier to be happy.":smile: :biggrin1: :tongue: :wink:
 

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yhtang said:
And if you cut out the emotions, what's left is the orgasm. And when I need it, I don't really care how I get it, the itch needs to be scratched.

The late Chinese leader, Deng Xiaoping, once said, "It does not matter if it is a white cat or a black cat, if it catches mice, it is a good cat."

I apply the same principle to my orgasms.
True, yhtang. I've had some excellent cat; believe me, nothing wrong with a fully functioning pussy doing what comes naturally. Buyt deep down, I know I'm a dog.
 

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flashback said:
There was this gay guy on Jerry Springer who cheated on his boyfriend because he decided to acheive his lifelong fantasy of fucking a female. He got her pregnant.

Anyway, are there any homosexuals on this site who have had or have a fantasy of being sexual with a woman?


Oh yuck no, LOL.

I am one of the "pure gays" I havent ever even kissed a woman, I love dick - end of. lol

xx
 

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I think that guys who have "intense fantasies about women prob arn't going to identify as "gay".
 

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The attraction to women is still a big mystery to me. I remember picking up copies of playboy, penthouse etc... and looking at the centerfolds (after reading the articles of course) and looking for what ever it was that I was suppose to be attracted to...for me...it was trying to find Waldo...in a Where's Waldo picture puzzle. And while I am attracted to guys (especially well endowed guys)...I kind of feel .... well, however a guy who thinks he should be straight would feel

By the way, I think this websight is great. Why see a therapist when you can post your true feelings and get response for free!
 

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flamer_on said:
Oh yuck no, LOL.

I am one of the "pure gays" I havent ever even kissed a woman, I love dick - end of. lol

xx


I am a little more complex when it comes to women. I started out loving women exclusively , until about age 20, then I discovered men were better at oral sex and quickly converted to preferring being a top dog for men only!

I find though that I still love the feeling of dancing with a woman and the slightest touch of a breast sends fire through my loins.

I had an intense romance at age 24 with a French actress/performer named Coxinell , who was preforming at Grand Guignol in Paris , and who had beautiful breasts and an attractive cock! Sex with this heavenly trans was close to divine for me... it offered all of my favorite parts in one beautiful package!:tongue:
 

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To awnser your original question: yes. I am gay, but I have had sex with almost everyone of the female friends I've had scince I was about 14. Many of them are still my friends and we still have sex with the exeption of the few who are married. They know I am gay and that the only relationship I want with them is friendship, but we still do it anyway. Sometimes they initiate it and somestimes I do. Maybe it's just because it feels good, maybe it would be called friends with benifits, I don't know. Whatever the case it happens.
 

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There was this gay guy on Jerry Springer who cheated on his boyfriend because he decided to acheive his lifelong fantasy of fucking a female. He got her pregnant.

Anyway, are there any homosexuals on this site who have had or have a fantasy of being sexual with a woman?
If you have sex with a female, cause she turns you on you are not a Homosexual.
You're really bi- sexual.
And yeah, I started with women, had a wife,fucked every women who'd let me never had a gay sex thing when I was with them but sure wasn't faithful either.
First cock I sucked I hated, first married friend who fucked me, oh man,I was in love. But at some point, I realized I loved sucking cocks, and 2 b honest,I think I was a cocksucker before I ever even know what sex was.I can remember looking at men's bulges when I was 5 or 6.
It's not like I didn't love my wife and frankly lived every woman I ever fucked but even then although I couldn't or wouldn't identify the missing piece, I realize it's dangling between a horny man's legs.