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Personally… I get pleasure by giving pleasure so I’m all about making sure the bottom is having the best time possible.

I always make sure they cum first, at least once… their needs come before mine ;)

Don’t get me wrong, I’m a power-top but I aim to please ……
 

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BigDave said it best, I think. I get off making the bottom feel good, and I feed off how much that is (which is why I won't meet silent bottoms - no feedback). So unless they don't WANT me to play with their cock, and there have been a few, then i definitely want to play with that thing and suck it good! Am I as good at it as dedicated bottoms are? Probably not, but I'm eager.

From a willing bottom, I expect him to let me do everything I can to make him feel good...when it gets to fucking I want him to take my cock in a variety of positions, but also including him riding me. I expect him to like long sessions.
 
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I'll answer as a top, let others decide if i'm hung or not. For me as others have said I do like to ensure the bottom guys has fun, so we'll chat about his needs before hand, or find out as we go along - even as a top i love to blow and rim, give massages etc. I expect the same back. I don't want a bottom who just lays there, no reciprocation etc. when we get to fucking though, i lead and expect the bottom to allow me to lead including lots of different positions, love a guy to ride me too (I last a long time that way and buck like a mule), going different speeds, depths etc. If the bottom doesn't want me to suck him or rim him thats fine I won't and if he wants to just concentrate on my dick thats also fine. Its just about finding what works between the two of you in those roles.
 

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I prefer making a bottom come from penetration be it hands-free or combined with stroking. If he wants to stroke himself that's fine. I will if he asks.

I don't mind sucking cock but it almost always happens for a short while during foreplay. Bottoms--true to the name--want to be penetrated. Few have come in my mouth.

I expect to penetrate a bottom. It's not about "putting him in his place" as you say, It's about making him happy by giving him what he wants which might be that. That's all about communication.
 

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BigDave said it best, I think. I get off making the bottom feel good, and I feed off how much that is (which is why I won't meet silent bottoms - no feedback). So unless they don't WANT me to play with their cock, and there have been a few, then i definitely want to play with that thing and suck it good! Am I as good at it as dedicated bottoms are? Probably not, but I'm eager.

From a willing bottom, I expect him to let me do everything I can to make him feel good...when it gets to fucking I want him to take my cock in a variety of positions, but also including him riding me. I expect him to like long sessions.

YES to long sessions… why do people only seem to want a quick 10 minutes these days?! I’ve not even warmed up by that point!!
 

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YES to long sessions… why do people only seem to want a quick 10 minutes these days?! I’ve not even warmed up by that point!!

Haha, I do respect guys that don't me thrusting in them for long periods, but the BEST bottom is one that can take nice long slow fucks, mixed with hard pounding spurts, for hours, maybe in multiple sessions. I admit that using TriMix that keeps me hard for 3-4 hours, whether I cum or not, has led me to be a bit greedy. lol
 

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It all depends on the bottom, his sexual tastes and the situation. I have found that one size does not fit all when it comes to sexual encounters.
@HorseHung40's all you have to do is ask me my sexual tastes desires etc
 

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It depends on my mood and the chemistry, some bottoms (and girls) like to be used and enjoy just fulfilling my needs, other times it is more mutual. I must some, though, that sometimes I am quite honest that I just want to nut.
 

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Haha, I do respect guys that don't me thrusting in them for long periods, but the BEST bottom is one that can take nice long slow fucks, mixed with hard pounding spurts, for hours, maybe in multiple sessions. I admit that using TriMix that keeps me hard for 3-4 hours, whether I cum or not, has led me to be a bit greedy. lol
I'll answer as a top, let others decide if i'm hung or not. For me as others have said I do like to ensure the bottom guys has fun, so we'll chat about his needs before hand, or find out as we go along - even as a top i love to blow and rim, give massages etc. I expect the same back. I don't want a bottom who just lays there, no reciprocation etc. when we get to fucking though, i lead and expect the bottom to allow me to lead including lots of different positions, love a guy to ride me too (I last a long time that way and buck like a mule), going different speeds, depths etc. If the bottom doesn't want me to suck him or rim him thats fine I won't and if he wants to just concentrate on my dick thats also fine. Its just about finding what works between the two of you in those roles.
BigDave said it best, I think. I get off making the bottom feel good, and I feed off how much that is (which is why I won't meet silent bottoms - no feedback). So unless they don't WANT me to play with their cock, and there have been a few, then i definitely want to play with that thing and suck it good! Am I as good at it as dedicated bottoms are? Probably not, but I'm eager.

From a willing bottom, I expect him to let me do everything I can to make him feel good...when it gets to fucking I want him to take my cock in a variety of positions, but also including him riding me. I expect him to like long sessions.
It depends on my mood and the chemistry, some bottoms (and girls) like to be used and enjoy just fulfilling my needs, other times it is more mutual. I must some, though, that sometimes I am quite honest that I just want to nut.
It all depends on the bottom, his sexual tastes and the situation. I have found that one size does not fit all when it comes to sexual encounters.
Personally… I get pleasure by giving pleasure so I’m all about making sure the bottom is having the best time possible.

I always make sure they cum first, at least once… their needs come before mine ;)

Don’t get me wrong, I’m a power-top but I aim to please ……
Same here - it's just not in my nature to be that cavalier or selfish. My biggest joy is making them cum hands-free!

FUCK!!! I need a shower....

I'm book marking this for my daily reading, waiting for more...

TOPS,

Go on
...……………..
 

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Yes definitely like to give oral or jerk off a bottom. Like to make the bottom feel good as well. One sided sex where I am the sole person getting off is not nearly as pleasure able to me. Love to feel a bottom cum while I am inside of them. Hot for me to stroke them while I am thrusting or even better is to have them shoot hands free while I am thrusting.
 

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I fuck men the same way I fuck women:
1. We discuss expectations upfront.
2. I’m in charge while respecting you and your limitations.
3. I’m a very passionate top. This means lots of kissing, especially your ears, neck, nippple play, stomach, back and thigh kisses as well.
4. I rim because I love doing it.
5. I also rim because I get off on a reaction from my partners. Nothing like a tongue in a man’s ass to get him going—-if he likes getting rimmed.
6. I especially love fucking straight men and they respond beautifully to having their holes worked on before they get fucked.
7. I hate getting rimmed. It hurts. Basically my ass and nipples aren’t sexual parts of my body.
8. Just get on all fours in a jockstrap and suck me off while I reach over and play with your ass and hole. Look up at me and show me how much you like the position you’re in and my hands working on your ass.
9. I will start fucking you when we’re both ready.
10. I have no interest in hurting anyone but I like to fuck my partners until they’re speaking in tongues.

Finally, nothing makes me hornier than turning butch, “macho” men into hungry bottoms. Especially if they’re straight or normally a top.
 

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It's difficult to make me cum. So, I usually make the bottom cum first, unless they stop me because they want to hold off. Some are determined to make me cum, and from time to time I've had to tell them I know they need to release, and It's OK--take care of your own needs. (Funny, over the holiday weekend I bumped into a pornstar friend, who remembered and mentioned just such an encounter with me from something like 15 or so years ago.) Some stop me just before they cum, because they want to save it for a fresh round later, or because it's a sex party and they want to service more tops (and they'll probably get me again, too). I really like making bottoms cum, and feeling their release from the inside. I've enjoyed some wonderful multiple-cummers! In a 1-on-1 situation, most will help me get my release afterward, usually by playing with my nips while I stroke my load out for them.
 
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