Question for the ladies who squirt...

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I didn't know until I met my husband...so it was a surprise for both of us. I was worried what his reaction was going to be, and in his typical style, he didn't miss a beat while we were going at it. Afterward, he just said "Hmmmm....I guess you do learn something new everyday."
If I were to be with someone new, knowing that I can, I would mention that it does happen, not everyone handles things like hubby does and some guys are put off by not knowing that you can.
 
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I like to surprise them, but always warn them I'm about to squirt. Most guys I've been with don't seem to mind, but I agree with Julesq, there's normally a few comments afterwards!
 

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Just an FYI, the phrase "erupt all over his face" suggests to me that you might have an unrealistic view of what squirting is, and possibly that your impression may be influenced by porn. I'm sure it varies by the woman, but just a heads up it may not occur quite like you think it does.
 

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I'd tell him. It's just rude to gush all over someone without making sure they find it just as hot as I do. Lucky for me, my man loves my juices. Oddly though, I only squirt when he's fucking me. I juice his balls up real nice, then I have to clean the mess I made ;)
 
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I've only done it when I was by myself so I dunno how I'd handle it. I have a female friend who (based on what she's told me) doesn't seem to be able to help it and does it whenever she's with a guy, and is embarrassed/humiliated by it and she's told me she personally thinks it's disgusting (which was somewhat distressing to me and I didn't know how to comfort her)

Furthermore she added that if a guy is really into it, that's a huge turnoff for her. So I was totally perplexed and felt completely incapable of doing anything but listening and feeling sympathy

edit p.s. She suffers from extremely low self esteem.

I think she's in a catch-22 sitch. It's another reason to dislike herself for something she apparently can't help.... and subsequently feels more self loathing because she'll kind of be fucked either way-whether the guy likes it or doesn't, it will always be problematic and thus add more fuel to the poor-self-image fire of destruction.
 
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I'd tell him. It's just rude to gush all over someone without making sure they find it just as hot as I do. Lucky for me, my man loves my juices. Oddly though, I only squirt when he's fucking me. I juice his balls up real nice, then I have to clean the mess I made ;)



Same here. I've only squirt with his cock in me and generally only if I'm on top. (Maybe because I'm controlling the pace that way?) Hubby says he loves when I soak his balls, so that's cool I guess. He probably does because he usually finishes right after.
 

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Before my husband I had an amazing man who used to make me squirt all over him while he was performing oral on me. The sensation was CRAZY! I didn't have time to tell him anything because I had no idea I could "squirt". He never made me squirt with intercourse , only with oral.

Fast forward 5 years- I had an IUD and sex was usually painful and not enjoyable. I got my IUD taken out this year and switched to birth control pills as I am not ready to be called "mama". The sex completely changed. It was so enjoyable! My husband and I were fooling around and he had me do all these funny positions , and as I was basically doing a headstand I squirted everywhere. He was SHOCKED! needless to say now everytime we have sex he can make me squirt.
 

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I'd tell him. It's just rude to gush all over someone without making sure they find it just as hot as I do. Lucky for me, my man loves my juices. Oddly though, I only squirt when he's fucking me. I juice his balls up real nice, then I have to clean the mess I made ;)

Well aren't you the considerate one. :)
 

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Well, I guess this is as good as anyplace for my first post, since this topic is really what brought me here. I just discovered I could do this a couple years ago when I became single, and I was afraid to tell my FWB about my new skill for fear of how he would react. He looked at me with these eyes full of intrigue and excitement, and promptly set out to get me to do it with him. Long story short, he's been very successful at learning exactly what triggers it, and he's absolutely hooked on it. As a FWB, though, he has recommended that I let a new guy know beforehand, so there are no surprises. All guys may not be into it, so I will let them know first...No point in having sex with someone that doesn't enjoy it.