Just curious ladies what are the BIGGEST turn offs for you with guys. They can be little things too but i wanna know what just really throws you off.
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Negative attitude.
Being demanding.
Bad hygiene.
Bad kisser.
Hm. I'm sure I'll think of more.
Being demanding.
Bad hygiene.
Bad kisser.
Hm. I'm sure I'll think of more.
Bad or "bad ass gansta"( lol u kno what I mean) attitude
back hair ( I don't mind hair anywhere else, chest, legs, face whatever)just feels wierd to me
guys who do not care how they look at all and dress like they were stuck in the jungle or desert for years...
Other then that.... I kinda have to get to know someone before i can judge them
back hair ( I don't mind hair anywhere else, chest, legs, face whatever)just feels wierd to me
guys who do not care how they look at all and dress like they were stuck in the jungle or desert for years...
Other then that.... I kinda have to get to know someone before i can judge them
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Insincerity
Shortness
Poor self-worth
Bad kissing
Doesn't read
Lies
Can't cook
No sense of adventure
No sense of humor
Isn't attracted to me
Conformism
Bad facial skin
Poor hygeine
Has stopped learning
Has nothing to teach
Shortness
Poor self-worth
Bad kissing
Doesn't read
Lies
Can't cook
No sense of adventure
No sense of humor
Isn't attracted to me
Conformism
Bad facial skin
Poor hygeine
Has stopped learning
Has nothing to teach
Bad breath
terrible kisser
uncleanliness
unkindness
lack of intelligence or humour
pomposity
dis ingenuousness
lack of empathy for others
close minded
disrespectful
This too.
terrible kisser
uncleanliness
unkindness
lack of intelligence or humour
pomposity
dis ingenuousness
lack of empathy for others
close minded
disrespectful
This too.
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• big huge fat inflated ego
• extremely judgmental
• poor dental hygiene
• dirty feet
• lack of intelligence
• narrow-minded
• smothering dependence/clingy
• possessive (it's ok in the fun kinky way)
• non-sexual
• inclined to non-monogamy (a valid and fine choice for many, i don't judge)
• dishonest about important things (such as inclination to non-monogamy)
• intolerant
• passive-aggressive
• man boobs (moobies) and big beer bellies
• extremely judgmental
• poor dental hygiene
• dirty feet
• lack of intelligence
• narrow-minded
• smothering dependence/clingy
• possessive (it's ok in the fun kinky way)
• non-sexual
• inclined to non-monogamy (a valid and fine choice for many, i don't judge)
• dishonest about important things (such as inclination to non-monogamy)
• intolerant
• passive-aggressive
• man boobs (moobies) and big beer bellies
Of course the hygiene thing, but the attitude probably the most. When I met my husband he was sweaty and had a little too much man odor. But his personality overcame all of that.
Please check your ego at the door. It's great to be self-assured, but don't tell me about it. Show me.
And you have to listen to me. Please. I don't mind hearing about you, but let's not lead with that, ok? Be interested in what I'm saying. I'm all ears with you until you begin bragging.
Be honest.
You are entitled to your political party. I don't want to hear about it. You can be religious. I don't want to hear about it. Maybe one day I'll want to talk. Not right now, ok?
You can buy me a drink if I want it. Don't force it on me, and don't get me to try yours. I like what I like. Maybe one day I'll be a bit more open-minded about such things, but not right now.
Please check your ego at the door. It's great to be self-assured, but don't tell me about it. Show me.
And you have to listen to me. Please. I don't mind hearing about you, but let's not lead with that, ok? Be interested in what I'm saying. I'm all ears with you until you begin bragging.
Be honest.
You are entitled to your political party. I don't want to hear about it. You can be religious. I don't want to hear about it. Maybe one day I'll want to talk. Not right now, ok?
You can buy me a drink if I want it. Don't force it on me, and don't get me to try yours. I like what I like. Maybe one day I'll be a bit more open-minded about such things, but not right now.
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In our house:
Leaving your clothes all over the place Leaving the toilet seat up
Complete inability to do any type of housework besides doing dishes under extreme duress
Not doing all the dishes...a few just does not cut it
You think pots and pans are foreign objects and that the stove is my favorite thing
Starting any project
Losing your tools constantly (which I later find here and there)
Having to replace my secret tool stash that I bought for me
Telling me how to drive
Not stopping to ask for directions
Leaving MY car empty of gas
Farting without warning me to evacuate
Saying anything negative about my sweet little dog
To name a few.
Man on the Street:
Dirty anything, especially hands
Wrinkly clothing
Unkempt facial hair
Acting creepy
"Cat calls"
Following me in any way
Loudmouth
Winking
Spitting!!!!!!
Wearing baby oil in public
Greasy hair
Wearing clothing that does not fit
Tattoos on your face
Horns implanted on your head!
Wearing make-up
Grabbing your dick or squeezing your balls... If you lick your lips while doing so I might throw up on you.
Leaving your clothes all over the place Leaving the toilet seat up
Complete inability to do any type of housework besides doing dishes under extreme duress
Not doing all the dishes...a few just does not cut it
You think pots and pans are foreign objects and that the stove is my favorite thing
Starting any project
Losing your tools constantly (which I later find here and there)
Having to replace my secret tool stash that I bought for me
Telling me how to drive
Not stopping to ask for directions
Leaving MY car empty of gas
Farting without warning me to evacuate
Saying anything negative about my sweet little dog
To name a few.
Man on the Street:
Dirty anything, especially hands
Wrinkly clothing
Unkempt facial hair
Acting creepy
"Cat calls"
Following me in any way
Loudmouth
Winking
Spitting!!!!!!
Wearing baby oil in public
Greasy hair
Wearing clothing that does not fit
Tattoos on your face
Horns implanted on your head!
Wearing make-up
Grabbing your dick or squeezing your balls... If you lick your lips while doing so I might throw up on you.
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LOL
1) Bad hygiene/breath
2) Cavalier/insolent/smart-ass attitude
3) Not being affectionate once in a relationship
That's pretty much it, I try not to be judgmental
I cannot stand smartassey. It's great to be intelligent but a smart-ass attitude is a HUGE turn off for me. That's probably not the case with every woman though. I think some people (both men and women) are turned on by someone who is a little bit insolent. I'm not though, it irritates me
1) Bad hygiene/breath
2) Cavalier/insolent/smart-ass attitude
3) Not being affectionate once in a relationship
That's pretty much it, I try not to be judgmental
I cannot stand smartassey. It's great to be intelligent but a smart-ass attitude is a HUGE turn off for me. That's probably not the case with every woman though. I think some people (both men and women) are turned on by someone who is a little bit insolent. I'm not though, it irritates me
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A tiny dick :biggrin1:
Really bad kissers (when he kisses me like he's trying to eat me alive)
Bad breath
Bad teeth
Long and dirty finger- or toenails
Long hair
Bad hygiene in general
Hair on the back/upper arms, ewwwwwww
Dressing like a bum, wearing training suits all day, even when you're not in the gym
Dirty and worn out shoes
LYING
Being too serious, not being able to laugh or take a joke
Addicted to computergames (especially WOW, playing it at all is a turn off for me), addicted to the computer in general
Trying to tell me what to do, you aint my dad!
Being not very reliable and responsible (i.e. when he says he'll do
or call or whatever and always forgets)
Being cruel/mean to animals
Treating people like shit and/or acting like he's better than everyone else
Treating me like a little dumb blonde and not taking me serious or not believing what I say ( I am probably smarter than you, so trust me when I say something)
Poor grammar/spelling and poor use of his native language
Using/talking slang: I don't "holla"
Really bad kissers (when he kisses me like he's trying to eat me alive)
Bad breath
Bad teeth
Long and dirty finger- or toenails
Long hair
Bad hygiene in general
Hair on the back/upper arms, ewwwwwww
Dressing like a bum, wearing training suits all day, even when you're not in the gym
Dirty and worn out shoes
LYING
Being too serious, not being able to laugh or take a joke
Addicted to computergames (especially WOW, playing it at all is a turn off for me), addicted to the computer in general
Trying to tell me what to do, you aint my dad!
Being not very reliable and responsible (i.e. when he says he'll do
or call or whatever and always forgets)
Being cruel/mean to animals
Treating people like shit and/or acting like he's better than everyone else
Treating me like a little dumb blonde and not taking me serious or not believing what I say ( I am probably smarter than you, so trust me when I say something)
Poor grammar/spelling and poor use of his native language
Using/talking slang: I don't "holla"
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LOL DIRTY FEET?!?!? a list of about 10 things in the entire world which turn u off... and DIRTY FEET makes the list?
so... u'r saying that some dudes FEET were DIRTY enough to make a top 10 of all time impression on you? I mean, mine can't get very dirty, they are at the bottom of my body in the shower at least once a day. lol being a terrorist? shooting stray puppies for fun? abusive to your face with his fist? no, none of those were ahead of DIRTY FEET lol! damn this dude must have been astonishingly disgusting below the ankles. i kinda wanna see a pic, if u have 1?
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You just gave me the giggles! :lmao:
Anyway I don't think it was anyone in particular, I just like very clean feet. Toe sucking can be very fun if a person is into it, and who wants to suck on dirty toes?
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