question for the ladies

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by ulube08, Oct 25, 2010.

  1. ulube08

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    when you just wanna fuck, what weighs on your decision more, dick size or personality?

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    how big would a guy have to be for you to keep having sex with him if u got to know him better n realized you dont want anything to do with him (except for his cock obviously)?

    when it comes to personality, how much does confidence outweigh general awesomeness?
     
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    This is awful. I'm no girl but...when it comes to one night stands women want a hot guy with confidence who's aggressive yet comforting.
     
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    is that what we want?
     
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    well it depends on the girl.....is shes a slut...then she'll only want you for you cock but a real woman she looks for pesonality and how you act thats very important, if you cool and fun to be around...the big dick is just a bonus
     
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    well please enlighten us Ms. Mariam :rolleyes:
     
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    yea some enlightenment would be nice

    info girl, ur saying that all a girl needs is for a guy to be cool n fun to be around to wanna have sex with him?

    the thing is im confident about myself, but i dont know how i come across to people. like when it comes to body language im illiterate, and if you dont know how to read how do you know what ur writing? i feel like it's arrogant to think and act like i know how somebody is gonna react to me
     
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    i prefer personality even if it's not for anything serious. i want to know i am with a cool guy. i also want him to be aggressive and not a pussy.
     
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    I've always preferred casual sex with friends, not strangers, so I'd say that personality matters most to me.
     
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    It's all about personality. If I don't like them, I don't fuck them. However big they are.
     
  10. ManlyBanisters

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    Late teens into 20s I was mostly in fuck buddy / fwb situations. Dick size was never a factor, neither in going back for seconds nor in steering clear. Ability as a decent fuck was. Fun person to be with was.

    Most of the guys were average. I guess, I never measured - in that time I had one I considered big and one I considered small. That why I have such a hard time believing the people who come on here saying they've had 10 partners 4 or 5 of whom were over 8". Either average doesn't mean what I thought it did or I'm the statistical anomaly.
     
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    I'm right there with you. I don't call people out, but those claims also make me think, "Yup, I bet you think an inch is the same as a centimeter." Or they're just making things up, but I'd rather be charitable and believe that they're making an honest mistake than believe that they're being intentionally deceitful.

    I've had a lot of partners and most of them have been in the average range, neither big or small.
     
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