okay lemme rephrase the question, haha for a statistical purpose, would you ladies mind having a serious relationship with a bisexual guy? and another question how far into a relationship would you find it neccessary to know from your guy if hes bisexual?
@tgirlsrgreat: sorry if it bothers you or anyone else. if my diction is really a problem then ill change it so theres no conflict. ^.^
I've been in two long term relationships with bi men and I knew about both of them before we began dating.
One I knew was bisexual before we actually met because someone whispered to me, "He's
bisexual." I found the implied criticism off-putting, and when we actually met, probably less than an hour later, I found him to be handsome and charming and I was attracted immediately. We went out on our first date two days later, and were together for 5 years.
I don't remember how I found out that the second guy was bisexual, just that I knew that he was when we were becoming friends. I suppose that the revelation wasn't memorable enough for me to recall how it occurred. After all, I don't think that there's anything wrong with being bisexual.
As far as "how far into the relationship would I find it necessary?" If I were dating a man and I did not know before we began dating, I would have to say that I would need to know before we became serious with one another, around the time when we begin sharing secrets and details of our past and personal lives, whenever that occurs. I understand a desire to keep one's private life private, but since I'm not judgmental about those things, and I'm sure that I would be revealing my own past, I think that a failure to share with me that you are bisexual would make me concerned about you being ashamed of who you are or incapable of being open with me. The issue for me wouldn't be whether you are or are not bisexual, but what hiding that fact from me means about you and how you feel about me.