osiris, a lot of those medications that they think are safe have lately (within the last 2 years) been found to maybe not be so safe. with that said, i'm not against medication at all during pregnancy-- i sure as shit wouldn't have gotten through my pregnancy without them. with that said, most doctors aren't going to prescribe unless there's a serious clinical problem-- in which case, the OP needs to take his girlfriend to a qualified mental health professional (NOT her OB). this is more up to her, though, and how she's feeling, not so much how insane she may be making someone else.
She doesn`t work as a prison gaurd anymore, she just likes to keep the enforcing mentality of it, you know, being dominating. Now she does bio-tech, DNA, RNA, that kind of stuff, for a world wide firm.
Anyways, i was just curious since some women act like it`s nothing to be pregnant and then theres women like mine who`s hormones are off the chart into space mountain, it`s very hard to deal with, especially when she goes into her tangents. It`s like dealing with a 34 year old child from satan who knows how to back talk. I can say to her, " it`s a beautifull day outside "and her response would be, "whats so f***ing good about it you bastard, all men suck, your just like the rest of them, why don`t you jsut leave, you know you want too, what are you waiting for, go!"
Isn`t that lovely, i took two or three zanex yesterday just to be able to deal with it.
lafever
p.s. I just took another zanex.
Osiris,
Is that what you took to cope with her?
lafever
I am aware Snoozan and thanks for mentioning that. We consulted her therapist, the OB GYN, and our Family Practitioner and they consulted the information. It wasn't a quick reccomend. My wife has always had severe anxiety and has spent a good deal of her life medicated for it. Our doctor suggested it more so she cold relax and not cause distress on the fetus.
Just make sure you do your leg work before getting into something lafever.
I was in a similar situation and I was on Celexa and Ativan during my pregnancy, which are both drugs that aren't that great in pregnancy. However, had I not been medicated it would have been, just as you said, stress on the baby and I would have probably not recovered as quickly as I did to take care of my son. It sounds like you did the right thing.
My point was more to what you said about consulting multiple doctors. A lot OB/GYNs are well meaning, but their expertise is not psychiatry. It's the same with a family doctor. I'm meaning this for lafever, if she's significantly distressed, get her to a mental health professional-- a therapist and/or a psychiatrist. Being pregnant is complicated, and having psych issues is way complicated. You usually need all of your docs consulting each other about history and stuff like that.
lafever, keep the xanax for you. it will help. If she's really impossible to deal with, impel her to see a therapist any way you know how. it's better for you, for for her, and for her baby that she's not raging all the time. also, the craziness gets better in the second trimester, usually.
the thing that concerns me is that you're posting about YOU going crazy, when you need to be more concerned about what's going on with her. i fully understand your need to vent-- my husband surely needed to when i was pregnant. however, it does concern me as i'm wondering if you're also considering getting help for her as a way to alleviate what she's going through which will in turn help you.
wise advice, as always, osiris.
Anyways, i was just curious since some women act like it`s nothing to be pregnant and then theres women like mine who`s hormones are off the chart into space mountain, it`s very hard to deal with, especially when she goes into her tangents. It`s like dealing with a 34 year old child from satan who knows how to back talk. I can say to her, " it`s a beautiful day outside "and her response would be, "whats so f***ing good about it you bastard, all men suck, your just like the rest of them, why don`t you just leave, you know you want too, what are you waiting for, go!" Isn`t that lovely, i took two or three zanex yesterday just to be able to deal with it.
lafever
p.s. I just took another zanex.
This is really important you have to make the time even if it means getting docked pay. Of course she isn't going to mention her mood swings, they aren't bothering her. :tongue:It`s hard to make appointments with her as our scheduals conflict but you better believe i`m going with her to the next doctors visit, she won`t say anything about her mood swings but i will.
lafever