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Although what REALLY would classify as either gender, emotionally, is hard to say too. Stereotypes don't work - if you're female you like shoes? Wrong (I don't. Well, other than I do quite like Converse, but I HATE high heels). If you're male you love football? Wrong, my boyfriend doesn't (boy am I glad! I don't either!).
The few relationship books I've read have a common concept about the difference. Men are generally goal oriented, women are process oriented. When guys get together to discuss issues it's usually to find a solution. When women get together to discuss issues, they generally want to dissect the emotions, sympathize, share common circumstances, and want to feel comforted in the fact that they're not alone with their reactions and they have a support group that understands.
Get a man and a woman together to discuss issues and god help the both of them. One wants to solve the issue and move on, the other wants to understand the issues and feel comforted.
Similarly with sex: A man's main goal is his orgasm, a woman's is the enjoyment of thje intimacy. Bad thing is that when a man cums, he's done, when a woman cums, she's just starting.
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