Question For The Married Guys.
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Yes, and the wife and I have a very frequent and amazing sex life. She knows I still jerk off, probably not as much as I do though lol.
The way I explain it to her is that I believe most men are more visual than women, and so to enjoy our fantasies we seek out visual representation vs reading a story and using imagination. I don't see out porn because I am missing something from my wife, I seek it out to scratch a different itch sometimes.
The way I explain it to her is that I believe most men are more visual than women, and so to enjoy our fantasies we seek out visual representation vs reading a story and using imagination. I don't see out porn because I am missing something from my wife, I seek it out to scratch a different itch sometimes.
Yes! We have plenty of sex but it’s just personal man time to me, not gonna stop when I’ve been doing it daily since a teen ha
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Not married, just been living together for four years. I still jerk 2-3 times a week due to a mismatch in sex drive and busy schedules. My partner prefers morning sex and that is quite to accommodate outside of the weekend. I tried pushing for more frequent sex, but if she is not in the mood and is only doing it for my pleasure, I’d rather not bother and save both of us the hassle of plain sex.
Oh, Hell yes. Been married for 43 years and have jacked off all through the years. I've never had enough sex in a given period that I wasn't ready for more orgasms. Now in my mid-60s, I've learned to enjoy my cock more as I've grown older. When younger, wanks were always dry. Now, it is a real treat to lube up, put on a cock ring or two, and draw out the jerk sessions.
Yes, my wife knows I jackoff and basically ignores it. She has no idea that I edge my cock daily.
Yes, my wife knows I jackoff and basically ignores it. She has no idea that I edge my cock daily.
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Yes, wife doesn't take good enough care of me.
I used to do it at least once a week regardless of regular sex as I just needed "me time" to explore my own body and look at porn. I think it's an important aspect for the average man and should always be thought as a supplement, rather than an alternative when one is in a relationship. Partner sex and masturbation are two different things and one shouldn't have to choose one over the other.
Unfortunately, because I used to have my weekly solo time when the wife and I had different scheduled days off and she is no longer working, I haven't really jerked off since the beginning of the year so now the answer would be...no.
Unfortunately, because I used to have my weekly solo time when the wife and I had different scheduled days off and she is no longer working, I haven't really jerked off since the beginning of the year so now the answer would be...no.
Yes, and so do the other three married men I have discussed this with in person.
Partly it is about different sex drives and in my case it isn't to much that mine is consistently higher than my wife's but more that hers varies with her cycle and mine is more constant.
But, as Motion of the Ocean mentions, I think there is an element of me time too. Even towards the start of our relationship with having sex at least once a day, often twice, I would still j/o about once/week.
Partly it is about different sex drives and in my case it isn't to much that mine is consistently higher than my wife's but more that hers varies with her cycle and mine is more constant.
But, as Motion of the Ocean mentions, I think there is an element of me time too. Even towards the start of our relationship with having sex at least once a day, often twice, I would still j/o about once/week.
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Of course. As a matter of course. But mostly because a lack of intercourse.
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You bet. However when getting it regularly with the wife, I tend to not have the need for jo myself. But our sex drives are not always in synch (I have one and she doesn’t most of the time) so here I am... lol
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For me, jerking off is still prevalent despite being married. I can relate to many of the guys that replied on this. The first 3 months into my married life, I didn't have to jerk off at all. I've got all the sex that I needed, my wife and I didn't have pre-marital sex before the weeding.
Then life started to settled down and issues that began to showed up and kids came along, then sex drive between my wife and I started went out of sync. The longest time for me without sexual intercourse was during my wife's late stage of pregnancies and followed giving births. Jerked off became my source of release.
Then life started to settled down and issues that began to showed up and kids came along, then sex drive between my wife and I started went out of sync. The longest time for me without sexual intercourse was during my wife's late stage of pregnancies and followed giving births. Jerked off became my source of release.
after I got married, my wife told me she would take care of my cock. we fucked so much every day I had no desire to jack. she was on the pill and I was shooting every load balls deep. we are seniors now so I jack when the "need " arises. lol we still have sex but not often.
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