Question for the small cocks on this site

[littlepenis]

i initially came here to try and understand the whole big cock/small cock thing. like many others here, i've been laughed at or refused sex because of my small size, and even when the reaction wasn't that extreme, i frequently got comments about it: "are you cold?" "it gets bigger, right?".

my wife loves me very much and we have a great sex life, except for actual penetration. She loves big cock and has been honest with me about her need for that. And there are positions we can't really do because of my size.

She and I both come here because well, we both love big cock. Frankly, it's fun to chat with other people about matters of size. I'm also into SPH a bit, as a coping mechanism; my wife isn't so much, though she has indulged me every now and again. And she does have sex with a well-endowed friend of our on a regular basis (with my full consent, I might add).

So the reasons are many and varied.

I'm just under 4" erect and about 5" around.

 

[yomrwhite]

Girthwise I'm small. Length I'm doing well. Wish I took off half an inch in length and added it to girth though.

 

[runningwoof]

I am 6" and thin. And when soft I am really small. Have always been embarrassed by it. To the point that it has affected my whole life. I know I am not tiny, but as a gay man, it seems most men are into size. I came to the site, because I love reading the stories and like to fantasize about what it must be like to have a big cock. Plus, I just love looking at them and reading the fuck stories.

 

[FemmeBoy]

I just love dick, and there is no active average dick forum or dicks of any size forum out there. There's only 2 decently active forums about cocks. Measuraction, the small cock forum and lpsg, the big cock forum. Measurection is full of guys crying about how they will never have sex and they want to kill themselves cos thier dick is 5 inches, then theres here where its all post about guys sticking thier big cock in any hole that gets in range.

I just like dicks, and this is the place where there's the most dick discussion.

 

[willow78]

I have a small dick, but I came here as a cock-lover, not a cock-shower. It might seem hypocritical to look at others but not show my own, but I would like to point out that I'm a non-gold so I don't get to look at the galleries anyway. The only time I see cock is when a picture or video is posted/linked in a thread.

I've always been embarrassed about my size, and being gay makes me even more self-conscious. Especially as I am a white male attracted only to men of colour. I think Mother Nature must have a very twisted sense of humour to give me a teeny-weeny-peeny and then make me attracted to a race of men generally considered to be the best endowed.

I think it's this lack of confidence that leaves me still a virgin at 32! I'm very shy so I get the horrible feeling I'll still be a virgin at 42, 52, 62...

A lot of people try to make out that size is not important but I think sadly it sometimes is. I'm sure I'm not alone in my size-insecurity. As I said, I think being gay makes it worse. There's maybe not so much a size-obsession, but there's definitely a dick-obsession. We tend to focus and scrutinize the phallus a bit too much. Dicks have been blown out of all proportion. :biggrin1:

But I will admit that my view is probably skewed to some extent. As I said, I'm still a virgin, so my only experience of sex and sexuality is via the porn industry which, let's face it, gives a very distorted and unrealistic impression of 'reality'.

Anyway to go back to main point of this thread, which is why I'm here. I love dicks and this is a great site. Other sites are just about the visual sexual representation of "the dick", but LPSG is one of the very few forum sites where there are threads full of fascinating conversations and discussions about sex and sexuality.

This is a great site for people to connect. I enjoy having the opportunity to share thoughts and feelings that I would be far too self-conscious or embarrassed to share with people face-to-face. The anonymity gives me courage. I don't feel lonely here because there is always someone who can relate or understand. I'm sure that sounds like a total wank, but I truly believe it.

 

[bigbrisguy]

I come here because I like cock, for the most part I'm into guys. I like big cock and small cock for different reasons.

Still, I would be worried if my cock size was the best thing I had to offer

 

[Kmoney1986]

hi im new to this site. iaint packin heat either just 6 long and 5 wide, and i really want a couple more inches, whow ouldnt, although my girl says that she thinks my cock is perfect size for her, but thicker could be bettre. width is def way more important than girth, long dicks just stab woman, and it dont feel great from what i hear. but you can do workouts, and wear extenders. ive been jelqing withthe jelq device i bought, and also bought an extender, real gains take time, quite a bit of time, but it can be achieved. i wouldnt want a huge dick cuz that just seems usually more important to men, than to the woman taking it. just above average. i want a 7.5 maybe 8 inch long tops. and 6 girth, thats my perfect penis. st least thats my opinion.

 

[basincreek]

I always thought I was average but was always afraid to measure. So imagine my horror when I discovered I was 5.75 x 4.5! I'm still a virgin and the sudden realization that I would probably never be able to satisfy a women really shook me. So I started a thread here about it thinking maybe I could get some advice on how to compensate feeling just about the lowest I ever had in my life.

 

[jpk338]

hi im new to this site. iaint packin heat either just 6 long and 5 wide, and i really want a couple more inches, whow ouldnt, although my girl says that she thinks my cock is perfect size for her, but thicker could be bettre. width is def way more important than girth, long dicks just stab woman, and it dont feel great from what i hear. but you can do workouts, and wear extenders. ive been jelqing withthe jelq device i bought, and also bought an extender, real gains take time, quite a bit of time, but it can be achieved. i wouldnt want a huge dick cuz that just seems usually more important to men, than to the woman taking it. just above average. i want a 7.5 maybe 8 inch long tops. and 6 girth, thats my perfect penis. st least thats my opinion.

be very careful with jelqing==== you can damage your dick big time with very little pull

 

[lycanross]

I am here, cause i am happy with my size and i love to look at a nice big cock, who wouldn't.

 

[jockmaestro]

Actually, Ive often wondered ( and I'm sure I'm not the first) why there isn't a SPSG. It seems to me small-dicked guys would need that more than hung dudes.
Ever notice, by the way, how facilely some guys say, "your cock works, right? Be happy." Guys that say that are almost always hung. I'm 7x5.5 which is a good size but I want a bit more like most guys. However, I would never say "just enjoy" to a small-dicked dude. I'd probably say, "I hear ya, buddy. Sorry it's an issue."

 

[basincreek]

I also dislike it being compared to breast issues. After all breasts can be enlarged and aren't an essential part of the activity of sex anyways. A penis is essential and what can be done with my 5.75x4.55 except realize that women aren't going to enjoy it and there's nothing that can be done about it? It sucks to realize that even if you get a girl she'll quickly leave you for something that you can't change.

 

[bigbrisguy]

Actually, Ive often wondered ( and I'm sure I'm not the first) why there isn't a SPSG. It seems to me small-dicked guys would need that more than hung dudes.
Ever notice, by the way, how facilely some guys say, "your cock works, right? Be happy." Guys that say that are almost always hung. I'm 7x5.5 which is a good size but I want a bit more like most guys. However, I would never say "just enjoy" to a small-dicked dude. I'd probably say, "I hear ya, buddy. Sorry it's an issue."

There is no doubting that most guys would like to have a few extra inches. I would too. But there's nothing I can do about it. I'm actually very happy with my size, and yes, if having a small cock is an issue, I'm sorry to hear about it. But I really think it's guys that make it an issue.

Am I beating a dead horse when I say there are so many things worse than having a small cock? If so, no biggie. But if any of you small guys are self concious about it, talk to me, I like the smaller guys, i'll make you feel special

 

[lgej]

I'm about 5.5 x5.5 - perfectly adequate and deemed by a few women as somewhat on the thick side. I'm on here because of curiosity about my size and have learned that, yes, I am perfectly (as already mentioned) perfectly adequate. My wife has always loved my dick, but has not experienced another - except toys or the visual stimulation of porn. She INSISTS that my dick is great and that she LOVES it. Being on this site has more than confirmed all she's said. I also find it fascinating to read real women, both size queens and not, opine freely and openly about their attitudes toward dick size. I see that most women are more concerned with something neither too small (microphallus - a medical condition) nor too large (I'd say generally over about 8"). Even the size queens realistically "top out" in the 8" range. I've also learned that the myth of the 10" cock is a virtual myth...so few as to be insignificant statistically. To the size queens (like the wonderful and fascinating Principessa), who would never be interested in me, I say "Bravo...pursue your desire and try not to hurt anyone's feelings along the way." To the other women here with a more balanced view of cock size, I say thanks for opening my eyes and giving me even more confidence than the large dose I've always been known for. Love this site...it's been a great ride, filling many hours with fascinating stories and interesting facts. Viva la LSPG!

 

[thickpex]

I'm just under 4" erect and about 5" around.

I think your penis is REAL nice, real nicely proportioned, especially if you're a muscular, beefy dude! No offense to your wife or anyone else, but anyone who wouldn't think yours is a real work of art is nuts, bet that thing gets as hard as a rock!

 

[phoenixdown117]

This site was intended to be a support group for men with large penises, but it has really become a support group for all men and even women with penis or sex related interests/issues.

I'm an average 5" erect. I'm a bit on the thin side (never really measured my girth), but I'm totally satisfied with my size. My only issue is with my left curve, but that's probably from watching too much porn.

I'm fascinated by (but not envious of) penises of all shapes and sizes, so this site is a great place to connect with others and talk about them. I don't have a lot of actual sexual experience (the last time I sucked a guy was six years ago, and I'm an anal virgin), but after reading Jackinworld as a teen, watching Sue Johanson's TV show, and listening to Dan Savage's podcast, I feel like I have enough knowledge about sex to be open minded, empathetic, and supportive to others.

Thus, I check this site all the time.

 

[`redman]

i had this room mate in college a few years back. he said he was of good size. i thought it was for real. til one day i caught him masterbating in our door. i caught a good look at his thing. i would say maybe at most 3.5" by 5". he just stopped and u can do better. i laughted and said sure. i whipped mines out and he was shocked. i'm not really big but i am 8"x6"

 

[jerkoffjono]

My girlfriend's ex is known to have a very big dick (about 9 or 10"). My gf and I have only been going out for a week, but I'm nervous now because I'm worried that she's going to be disappointed with my average dick (6.5") once we get round to having sex or anything...

 

[Riven650]

I always thought I was average but was always afraid to measure. So imagine my horror when I discovered I was 5.75 x 4.5! I'm still a virgin and the sudden realization that I would probably never be able to satisfy a women really shook me. So I started a thread here about it thinking maybe I could get some advice on how to compensate feeling just about the lowest I ever had in my life.

Nothing to be horrified about at all. Your cock is a fine size and "probably never be able to satisfy a woman" is absolute rot.

I also dislike it being compared to breast issues. After all breasts can be enlarged and aren't an essential part of the activity of sex anyways. A penis is essential and what can be done with my 5.75x4.55 except realize that women aren't going to enjoy it and there's nothing that can be done about it? It sucks to realize that even if you get a girl she'll quickly leave you for something that you can't change.

More rot. If anything makes a woman quickly leave you it will be that defeatist attitude. And "there's nothing that can be done about it" is more defeatist rot. But if you really want to you can enlarge your cock - without surgery - it just takes time and effort.

 

[D_Wolfgang_Puke]

You are gorgeous!!! I would love to suck it!