You're making connections where there are none. I never said that women have been brainwashed into believing that they can have their own careers. In fact, I would say much the opposite and claim that some women have been brainwashed into believing that they can't or shouldn't have careers of their own. Anyway, my views on the superiority of a large penis are based on what I've seen and experienced in my life and the opinions of women who are close to me. Now, if you're one of those rare women who, without societal brainwashing, can be pleased by a small/average penis, good for you, but from what I've seen you're not in the majority and in fact are part of a very, very small minority.
No, you didn't say that women were brainwashed into believing they can have their own careers, but why not make that leap? If we're so easily brainwashed and so out of tune with our bodies, then we must also be out of tune with the rest of our lives.
As for the women who are close to you, they're statistically insignificant. And yes, I'm statistically insignificant, too, but having lived with hundreds of women in my life and friends with many more, and having met far more woemn who don't care about penis size than those who do, I still think you're deceiving yourself.
The funny thing is that I don't think you understand female anatomy. We stretch and we shrink, and we don't need 7" or above (using your definition of a large penis) to have really good sex. If size were that important, then anything less than 21 inches in circumference -- the size of my youngest child's head at birth -- would be inadequate.