Question for the women: Should I tell her?

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Whether you tell you wife or not it isn't that big of a deal. I would want to know, but that is just me.......

But obviously your wife doesn't real LPSG discussions.....or if she does you would be in big trouble.

Maybe all women are not as high strung as I am.......But that would piss me off if I found out that my husband told all of LPSG, but not me..... my personal business.

Granted I know everyone on here are friends and I am as guilty as anyone of giving too much information about my spouse without his consent..... But I am trying to not get into trouble with him.

Just my opinion.
 

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Whether you tell you wife or not it isn't that big of a deal. I would want to know, but that is just me.......

But obviously your wife doesn't real LPSG discussions.....or if she does you would be in big trouble.

Maybe all women are not as high strung as I am.......But that would piss me off if I found out that my husband told all of LPSG, but not me..... my personal business.

Granted I know everyone on here are friends and I am as guilty as anyone of giving too much information about my spouse without his consent..... But I am trying to not get into trouble with him.

Just my opinion.
I think you've taken it to far. You talk like it was some huuuge secret.
 

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Okay I can understand concern because your child was in the bed but I think she would be embarassed to know what she did. So keep it to yourself.

I really don't understand why anything needs to be said in the first place. My husband and I sleep nude and yeah I quizzed him about it after reading this thread and yep I sleep masturbate but so does he. But truthfully we didn't see any reason to share because it was no big deal to us. and it still isn't a big deal.
 

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Sorry if I did take it to far. I was just in a weird mood yesterday and I put myself in his wife's place and I thought what would be the worst case scenerio.....and for me that would be for me to find out that I did something like his wife did......and my husband didn't tell me and I found out from reading an LPSG thread. (It does seem like the threads are around for a long time)

From the way ThisSpace4Rent described his wife.....private and sensitive about those matters I identified and probably went overboard.

At least he doesn't have to worry about the worst case scenerio anymore.....her finding out from reading about it.


I have been fortunate to have been married to the same person for the past 20 years. I was just sharing what my pet peeve would be. Everyone is different.

Sorry if I have ruffled any feathers. I was just giving my true honest feelings.
 

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Sorry if I did take it to far. I was just in a weird mood yesterday and I put myself in his wife's place and I thought what would be the worst case scenerio.....and for me that would be for me to find out that I did something like his wife did......and my husband didn't tell me and I found out from reading an LPSG thread. (It does seem like the threads are around for a long time)

From the way ThisSpace4Rent described his wife.....private and sensitive about those matters I identified and probably went overboard.

At least he doesn't have to worry about the worst case scenerio anymore.....her finding out from reading about it.


I have been fortunate to have been married to the same person for the past 20 years. I was just sharing what my pet peeve would be. Everyone is different.

Sorry if I have ruffled any feathers. I was just giving my true honest feelings.
Nah no feather ruffles, just a different train of thought. :smile:
 

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From the way ThisSpace4Rent described his wife.....private and sensitive about those matters I identified and probably went overboard.

Well it's fairly anonymous here (if one chooses to make it so). So it's more akin to writing dear abby than spilling private secrets to everyone but her :cool:.

But yeah, feathers not ruffled (and I took yours and some others suggestions and told her).