Question For Those Past The "curious Stage"

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First time questions. How did it happen?
My first was camping with a friend. Woke up to a wondering hand inside my underwear.
He jerked me until I came, still pretending to be asleep and it felt good!

Reluctantly, because I came first and was not really into it at that point, I returned the favor.
Thought I owed it to him, after he made me cum. He was a quick cummer, so I was not uncomfortable for long!

My mind has changed now as I get older. I still prefer mutual J/O, but would rather give a handjob
and watch the cock cum. Still not into sucking a cock. Only J/O, but I enjoy that very much.

Also, the Covid stuff has me worried these days. Much as I would like mutual cock contact, the last couple
months I have just stayed home. Used to go at a local park, known for cruising and cock play on Sundays.
I miss that and would love to jerk off another guy. Just not willing for contact these crazy days with a stranger.

Your thoughts?
 

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I was in boy scouts and was an assistant patrol leader. The patrol leader (2 yrs older) invited me over to his house to plan some activities for the patrol. We were in his room and his parents went out shopping leaving us alone with the house to ourselves. All of a sudden he got up and swung an imaginary club at me and proclaimed that he had just knocked me out. I didn’t get what he was doing as he picked me up and placed me on the bed. He repeated that I was knocked out and to not move. He than began to rub my groin area which made me understand what he was doing. Before long he was pulling my pants down and playing with my dick. After a few minutes I announced that I had “come to” and clobbered him with my imaginary club and reciprocated.

So began a few months of jerking off together. I was willing to progress to the next level and I asked him to blow me. I was fully prepared to reciprocate that as well - but he never asked.

Soon everything fell apart. He invited another boy over to his house but who was not at all interested in this type of activity and told everybody about what he tried to do. People knew I had been hanging around with him but I swore that nothing had ever happened. Sad to say, nobody wanted anything to do with him after that.
 
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I used to be on a swinging site back when I was single and had a MMF threesome. I've always been curious, but this was my first time taking the plunge and I was pretty nervous! It was actually surprisingly easy and in the end I didn't feel strange at all. In fact, it felt completely natural and definitely expanded my sexual curiosity, readdress my orientation and began my love of cock.

We were all in the lounge having drinks and she was sitting on the sofa. Her husband stood up, dropped his pants and put his hard dick in her mouth. He was about the same size as me which helped - I would have been a little intimidated and insecure if he'd whipped out a monster - so I followed suit and got my cock out. She sucked us both at once, then I just dropped to my knees and started sucking him (much to her enjoyment). We went upstairs to fuck and I would suck and jerk him in between positions, culminating in him dumping a load onto her face after a couple of hours of us all fucking. I couldn't finish, but I sucked him off after he'd cum and was definitely into his cock and balls as much as her pussy and tits.

That was the first time I'd sucked cock and played with a guy and still one of my top sexual experiences. I've sucked guys since then but never had full sex (giving or receiving), and I've never had a guy cum in my mouth or returned the favour. I'd still love to do those things some day.
 

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A cute guy invited me to his room after hours at the hotel where I worked when I was an undergrad. He 20 me 22. Mutual stroking happened but progressed quickly to him blowing me. An experienced bottom he was gagging for a shag and couldn't wait to slide on. He took all of me without much difficulty. I had condoms. He used aloe lotion for lube.

I can't say I was ever "curious." I had known I wanted to have sex with a guy all through college. I just hadn't picked one yet. Turned out he picked me. His perfect little runner's ass was insatiable.

It was 1984. HIV/AIDS was hitting hard--one reason I wasn't in a hurry to hook up with a guy. You are right to be cautious in the current covid crisis. It's not as deadly as HIV but much more highly communicable.

My camping buddies back then were all straight though I did JO with one in a lake in the middle of a summer night. We just watched each other.
 

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My first time was with one of my older brothers friends, who's gay,
He's always flirted and that, but didn't think anything of it, went out to the bar one night saw him out and chatted, got more drunk as the night went on and decided to message him, he replied, went back to my place, I was so nervous, he grabbed my cock through my underwear, I did the same, feeling another cock for the first time, he started sucking me, then I did the same to him, kept playing together all night, that was 10 years ago and we still meet up from time to time now.
 

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I was in boy scouts and was an assistant patrol leader. The patrol leader (2 yrs older) invited me over to his house to plan some activities for the patrol. We were in his room and his parents went out shopping leaving us alone with the house to ourselves. All of a sudden he got up and swung an imaginary club at me and proclaimed that he had just knocked me out. I didn’t get what he was doing as he picked me up and placed me on the bed. He repeated that I was knocked out and to not move. He than began to rub my groin area which made me understand what he was doing. Before long he was pulling my pants down and playing with my dick. After a few minutes I announced that I had “come to” and clobbered him with my imaginary club and reciprocated.

So began a few months of jerking off together. I was willing to progress to the next level and I asked him to blow me. I was fully prepared to reciprocate that as well - but he never asked.

Soon everything fell apart. He invited another boy over to his house but who was not at all interested in this type of activity and told everybody about what he tried to do. People knew I had been hanging around with him but I swore that nothing had ever happened. Sad to say, nobody wanted anything to do with him after that.
nice story mate
 

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My first real M2M sex would be when I was in college. We had gotten a two bedroom place just off campus. Somewhere out here on this site may be a more detailed version but it happened there with my college buddy. I still remember to this day how the light of the moon was coming through the window as we nervously made out and sucked each other.

I don't think we brought each other to orgasm that first night but we did some major body exploration. The sex got much better after that though.
 

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I was in boy scouts and was an assistant patrol leader. The patrol leader (2 yrs older) invited me over to his house to plan some activities for the patrol. We were in his room and his parents went out shopping leaving us alone with the house to ourselves. All of a sudden he got up and swung an imaginary club at me and proclaimed that he had just knocked me out. I didn’t get what he was doing as he picked me up and placed me on the bed. He repeated that I was knocked out and to not move. He than began to rub my groin area which made me understand what he was doing. Before long he was pulling my pants down and playing with my dick. After a few minutes I announced that I had “come to” and clobbered him with my imaginary club and reciprocated.

So began a few months of jerking off together. I was willing to progress to the next level and I asked him to blow me. I was fully prepared to reciprocate that as well - but he never asked.

Soon everything fell apart. He invited another boy over to his house but who was not at all interested in this type of activity and told everybody about what he tried to do. People knew I had been hanging around with him but I swore that nothing had ever happened. Sad to say, nobody wanted anything to do with him after that.

Oh, those scouts...

This one probably grew up to become a violent rapist. I can see it as a Law & Order Special Victims Unit episode.
 

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So the earliest bi or let’s call it “gray” experience that I recall was back in my youth (age deleted). My best neighborhood friend came by and ended up sleeping over. He is still my best friend today and we have known each other since we were two years old. We share a secret that our wives don’t suspect and still to this day wrestle with what it meant back then, what it means today, and why we continue to “go there” when we get together despite the inevitable feelings of shame…….

My mom put us in a queen bed for some reason and one of my sister’s stuffed animals was in the bed. I can’t remember how it started but I ended up jamming that animal under the band of my tightie whities and I told my buddy to go for it if he wanted it. So he reached down to my underwear, slid his fingers under the band and tried to grab the animal. I instantly reached down and grabbed his hand and we wrestled, me with my hand on the animal keeping it in my pouch and him trying to pull my hand away and my now hard cock just generally getting in the way. My erection was pressed up against the back of his wrist. We both stopped, breathing hard. He didn’t retract his hand, we went at it again and stopped again. He says to me, “have you ever played truth or dare?”. Well……that was my entry into the world of bisexuality, I will spare you the details but suffice it to say that I was intoxicated with someone staring at or holding my erect cock and I felt such power with my lips wrapped around his cock while both “pretending” that we were grossed out and disgusted by our dares.

I could not believe the feeling in my loins, hard to describe. So that next week, I decided that I needed to figure out this masturbation thing. My parents made the mistake of giving me a bedroom with my own private bath. So one night, I took lengths of toilet paper and layed them out on the floor in front of the toilet, seam to seam as I didn’t want to spill a drop in the event that I came. After a minute of stroking, I began to feel that stirring in the loins and I was thrilled. I stopped, perfectly repositioned myself above the toilet paper, started stroking again, and my whole body started to pulse and I shot four to five absolute ropes over the toilet paper and all over the opposing wall. The TP didn’t catch a drop of it! I was dumbfounded and tingling with excitement. So that week, many years ago was the beginning of my sexual odyssey……
 

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Perhaps they don't consider it rape or assault. Perhaps--just perhaps--they've never felt victimized by it.
Interesting take on it. If the folks recalling these stories were OK with, or even excited by the experience, can they still be considered "victims"? Seems like the posters are recalling these as positive experiences.
 

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You all know that most of these examples is flat out rape, right?
I could agree with you. But these guys are responding in the AAM section. Maybe they find talking about it is OK for them (as long as not underage numbers in the comments). I would fully expect them to say it was rape as part of the story IF that's what they feel. It's a tough call. No one here (so far) is endorsing the acts. There are few places online one can talk about our sexual experiences growing up. But I'll leave it at that due to the slippery slope it can go.
 

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Well, there's no doubt my first experience with another man constituted sexual assault. I was dead drunk, which was typical for any weekend when I was in college. He brought me to my room and undressed me to put me in bed. As he told me later when he saw me naked something came over him, and he helped himself. I have no idea if I was able to perform with major whiskey dick, but he said he enjoyed himself.

He confessed it all to me about a week later, and call it Stockholm Syndrome if you want, but it got me hard as hell when he was telling it. We gave each other a hand job right there. That's the first time I ever felt another man's cock in my hand, and I enjoyed the feeling.

Over time we "graduated" to oral and other things. We were both neophytes to any kind of homosexual behavior, so it was kind of fun to experiment.

Of course, two nights later I was in bed with a woman, and I remember thinking afterwards "Well, I guess I'm not gay after all."
 

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My first experience with another guy was stroking & sucking with my best friend after we'd obtained our degrees in college and were spending the early summer relaxing before traveling away to our jobs.

We were alone at his parents lake house and had showered after an afternoon of fishing on a hot day. We talked a bit while toweling off and the question came up of my having ever considered playing with another man? I told him I had wanted to play with a guy but the occasion never came up. We never dressed and played for 30 minutes until sucking each other to climax. We continued to play until going off to our jobs and have never played since.

We both married women shortly afterward and I had no other M2M play until 10 years ago. A good friend and I get together and suck each other and top/bottom for one another. I still like women but cock is nice also.
 
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