Question for those who own a fleshlight (sex toy)...

[Lucky_Luke_86]

Hi everyone, i'm planning to buy a Fleshlight device, specifically the STU, in about a month's time, when i guess i will be living on my own apartment, and i will have plenty of intimacy and freedom to use it.

The question i wanna ask for those who have one, (be it the STU or any other sleeve, i don't care for that matter), is:
Can the Fleshlight help you with getting more used to the sensation of intercourse on your penis, for those who have few sexual experience and/or have experienced performance anxiety issues when trying to have sex with a woman?

I don't have problems of premature ejaculation, and i think my sexual stamina is alright (although if it improves by edging with the STU, then good for me). Edging with hand is one thing, but maybe edging with the FL can help me to get more used to the "real deal", so when i date a girl (i'm single right now) and things get hot, the hours of training might contribute to make myself more mentally trained, less anxious, and boost my confidence when it comes to sex.

Because i am a shy person, i haven't had many relationships, and i get very nervous when it comes to penetration, especially the first times with a new girl that i begin dating with.
I've had some bad experiences with performance anxiety because to me, the penetration feeling it's something that i'm not used to, and i get self-conscious about it and then my erection quality resents because of that.
Most girls don't have patience when a guy fails at sexual encounters, and after a couple failed attempts, they usually reject me.
I know some of you are going to say that maybe they didn't left me for this, or that "those girls weren't for me" but the reality is that it has happened to me two times, two times that i'm pretty sure it was the very reason they rejected me. And i can tell you: it's very painful, and my confidence got destroyed.
I don't want this to happen to me anymore, and if this device can add its bit of help to solve my problem, or at least ease it a bit, i think it wouldn't hurt to give it a try.

Thanks in advance, ladies and gentlemen, i'll appreciate your honest input on this.
See ya!

 

[not_brand_x]

The added endurance is certainly one of the claims that things like the STU make, and its probably true to an extent, depending on how you use it. I think it does more to train you and your body for the motions of sex if you fuck it (using hips/legs/core) than if you masturbate with it (using arms). The more practice you have with the sex movements/motions, the more you'll know how your body reacts, how pace yourself, when to slow down, and what kinds of movements really do it for you.

 

[Lucky_Luke_86]

The added endurance is certainly one of the claims that things like the STU make, and its probably true to an extent, depending on how you use it. I think it does more to train you and your body for the motions of sex if you fuck it (using hips/legs/core) than if you masturbate with it (using arms). The more practice you have with the sex movements/motions, the more you'll know how your body reacts, how pace yourself, when to slow down, and what kinds of movements really do it for you.

Hey, thanks for your answer, not_brand_x!
I precisely want to try the STU in the most life-like way possible. I want to buy it in addition with the shower mount attachment, so i can use it hands-free, and try different positions, different rhytm patterns, maybe even putting the STU between some pillows or matresses and fuck it like if it was a real woman, all in order to best replicate real sex and acommodate my body and especially my mind.

Again, thanks very much for sharing your opinion on this!

 

[not_brand_x]

Check out http://www.fleshassist.com - lots of information about the qualities of the different sleeves.

Just as a heads up - you lose any suction from the cap when you use the shower mount. The suction simulates tightness normally with the regular cap.

 

[deleted871301]

My thoughts are to go ahead and buy a fleshlight... I owned one and it was so awesome. The sensations are amazing and could provide you with some good training when it comes to sensation and endurance.

Buy one, you will not regret it

 

[Stanmeister]

I own a STU. I find it the lease effective of the FL sleeves I have used. Others report differently. I don't find that it stimulates as much as some of the others. So maybe it could be good practice for the real thing. You can take a while with it.

 

[Lucky_Luke_86]

I own a STU. I find it the lease effective of the FL sleeves I have used. Others report differently. I don't find that it stimulates as much as some of the others. So maybe it could be good practice for the real thing. You can take a while with it.

You think so?
That's strange, from what i read, the STU is said to provide pretty intense stimulation compared to other sleeves in order to increase the user's stamina. It is supposed to get you faster to the edge, so when you do the real thing you might be able to last longer.

Maybe it depends on the person and the way he uses it.
Anyway, i think i've already decided what will be my purchase: the F@#! like a pornstar Pack, which comes with the STU plus 2 random FL Girls sleeves, lots of lube and a shower mount. It's around $150 but given that i can afford it, I think this deal holds the more value for money and at the same time will be perfect for my needs.
I guess i'll order it as soon as i settle down on my new house.

 

[socalgeek]

shower mount is legit. I love the hands free. The suction or loss doesn't seem to make a difference to me other than it's less noisy