Hi everyone, i'm planning to buy a Fleshlight device, specifically the STU, in about a month's time, when i guess i will be living on my own apartment, and i will have plenty of intimacy and freedom to use it.
The question i wanna ask for those who have one, (be it the STU or any other sleeve, i don't care for that matter), is:
Can the Fleshlight help you with getting more used to the sensation of intercourse on your penis, for those who have few sexual experience and/or have experienced performance anxiety issues when trying to have sex with a woman?
I don't have problems of premature ejaculation, and i think my sexual stamina is alright (although if it improves by edging with the STU, then good for me). Edging with hand is one thing, but maybe edging with the FL can help me to get more used to the "real deal", so when i date a girl (i'm single right now) and things get hot, the hours of training might contribute to make myself more mentally trained, less anxious, and boost my confidence when it comes to sex.
Because i am a shy person, i haven't had many relationships, and i get very nervous when it comes to penetration, especially the first times with a new girl that i begin dating with.
I've had some bad experiences with performance anxiety because to me, the penetration feeling it's something that i'm not used to, and i get self-conscious about it and then my erection quality resents because of that.
Most girls don't have patience when a guy fails at sexual encounters, and after a couple failed attempts, they usually reject me.
I know some of you are going to say that maybe they didn't left me for this, or that "those girls weren't for me" but the reality is that it has happened to me two times, two times that i'm pretty sure it was the very reason they rejected me. And i can tell you: it's very painful, and my confidence got destroyed.
I don't want this to happen to me anymore, and if this device can add its bit of help to solve my problem, or at least ease it a bit, i think it wouldn't hurt to give it a try.
Thanks in advance, ladies and gentlemen, i'll appreciate your honest input on this.
See ya!
The question i wanna ask for those who have one, (be it the STU or any other sleeve, i don't care for that matter), is:
Can the Fleshlight help you with getting more used to the sensation of intercourse on your penis, for those who have few sexual experience and/or have experienced performance anxiety issues when trying to have sex with a woman?
I don't have problems of premature ejaculation, and i think my sexual stamina is alright (although if it improves by edging with the STU, then good for me). Edging with hand is one thing, but maybe edging with the FL can help me to get more used to the "real deal", so when i date a girl (i'm single right now) and things get hot, the hours of training might contribute to make myself more mentally trained, less anxious, and boost my confidence when it comes to sex.
Because i am a shy person, i haven't had many relationships, and i get very nervous when it comes to penetration, especially the first times with a new girl that i begin dating with.
I've had some bad experiences with performance anxiety because to me, the penetration feeling it's something that i'm not used to, and i get self-conscious about it and then my erection quality resents because of that.
Most girls don't have patience when a guy fails at sexual encounters, and after a couple failed attempts, they usually reject me.
I know some of you are going to say that maybe they didn't left me for this, or that "those girls weren't for me" but the reality is that it has happened to me two times, two times that i'm pretty sure it was the very reason they rejected me. And i can tell you: it's very painful, and my confidence got destroyed.
I don't want this to happen to me anymore, and if this device can add its bit of help to solve my problem, or at least ease it a bit, i think it wouldn't hurt to give it a try.
Thanks in advance, ladies and gentlemen, i'll appreciate your honest input on this.
See ya!