Question for ts women about topping.....

[DACinit]

Ok, I guess it's a common thing for straight men to love TS women. So many of us do, it's true. I'll also say, unfortunately for TS women, I think, most of us really only think about TS women in a sexual context. My personal apologies for that but I am learning to see TS women as more than just sexual. They are lovely creatures that deserve more than just horny guys wanting to get on some dick for a thrill. I am guilty but I am trying to see it another way......

That said, I do have an unresolved question that's been nagging at me.

Confession. I love cock. I love the sight of big hard cocks and fantasize about sucking them and getting penetrated by multiple cocks at once. My fantasy is to be taken from behind while sucking a big fatty. The bigger the better, right? Like I said, it's fantasy and usually there is no one attached to them in my mind except very hot, well endowed TS women. sometimes a few fictional guys at the gym. If this makes me gay then so be it. I can live with that

My question is this....Are there any TS women who prefer to top a guy? Is it a fantasy that I am having that is perpetuating an untruth about TS women and continuing the Sex Only view if them? I am married and do not intend to pursue this fantasy but If my wife ever does allow it, which someday she may, and there are TS women who want this sort of thing, it would be wonderful to know. Other wise it shall remain fantasy or if my wife does want me to pursue it, I may have to pay for it.......

I realize that I started out apologizing for something I am clearly guilty of but still, I love the big cock and TS women.

thank you

 

[Samantha Hopkins]

The simple answer is there is no simple answer.

I am absolutely sure there are TS people who are into topping. Gender and sexuality seem to have a million combinations. The problem is the numbers. there are very few TG people in reality and despite what porn leads us to believe. the official number is 0.3 to 0.7 %. I personally suspect the number is larger, with so many closeted people full of the same feelings but unable to come out for every reason. Best Case scenario is there is 1% TG population.

From my own experience, going through all the trouble and misery of clothing, corsets, make up and so on, I want to be treated like a lady. At least in the beginning, that was exactly why I dressed at all.....that and the shoes....Love the shoes. But I am sure there are people who feel differently. Its just that what hits my sensibilities is you seek a very rare, single digit subset of a small group to begin with.

In thinking it through, you'd statistically have better luck finding an open minded top or versatile partner who might dress for you. I think its possible to find a TG who tops, but I suspect it is very very rare.

 

[DACinit]

Thanks so much for your input. I tend to think you are right about the numbers and since you're making all the effort to be a woman, why would you not want to bottom and just feed into the man's fantasy? (maybe I have this all wrong, sorry) I mean, I do and I'm not TG. I just want the dick.

I suppose a very young, feminine CD that was intent on topping may be the answer here. Or, if Vegas gets more TS escorts on the books, or Amsterdam.

I know, I can't take the sex out of it. I suppose if I were single I would try dating a TS, but I love my wife. so, here I am slowly telling my wife my fantasies. She is pretty surprising, some day she may say, Go Do It