I like to think i am a pretty considerate chap when it comes to sex, but my activities split off into two different directions, when it comes to fucking. With women, it's KID GLOVES all the way. I am married and the only woman I have sex with IS my wife - and what she says goes. We have tried anal and I am too big for her in every aspect and vaginally... She's quite petite but I think she can take 50-60% of me, as a maximum. If she's in pain, I STOP but she's a good girl and she's always trying to take more... but not always successfully.
Fucking blokes is very different. I do find that a lot of (well, most) blokes DEMAND that I "fuck them hard" and "don't stop no matter what I say!" and I oblige - even if it is very clear that they cannot handle it all or if they are in distress. If they want it all, they will get it all; once I am inside some bloke's arse there is no stopping, no matter what. I am not gay and not into any kind of "scene" but a few times I have had the chance to tie up a bloke and restrain him whilst fucking him... PERFECTION! he can't get away no matter what, he is forced to take what he has asked for... and it makes my life much easier, not having to bother with his hands waving at me from behind his back, pushing me away; I can just concentrate on a nice, long, hard fuck.
I don't know why things are so different when fucking men and women and I try not to "analyse" it. I have a mate who is gay and he says it's because deep down I probably hate gays but that is just not true. I dunno.
Tony :tongue: