Question for women on pregnancy

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he's 19, a certain amount of immaturity is tolerable.

is better ask about what ya don't know then keep roaming the earth ig'nint and dangerous.
 

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the flaming is a bit shitty, guys.
at least he's asking questions and considering the possible consequences of having sex. i know it's frustrating but not everyone can be a genius and not everyone is as educated as you are.

the pill:
most brands you take for 21 days, then take a break for 7, then take for 21 days, and so on. the break is where the period arrives. you're protected the entire time.
some brands you can take for longer without a period. a modern variation reduced the number of periods/year.
some brands have 7 dummy pills that you take during the break.

as long as she's following the instructions then you're protected no matter where she is in her cycle.

BUT th pill is only 99%, and if she misses a pill or takes antibiotics then you are not protected.

common sense would be to use condoms and the pill. that way you're protected from infection and, even if she forgets her pill, you know you'll be baby free.
 

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there are some situations where giving the benefit of the (even quite considerable) doubt is the moral thing to do.
 

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Didn't have a problem with his OP. I'd seen some of his posts before, and was aware he was 18/19.

However, some of his responses were a bit irritating. Especially since most people at least started out being patient with him.
 

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irritating, not the brightest bulb and for all i know he might be an arsehole too. but it's a good question for a guy to ask. a lot of young guys are woefully ignorant of how the whole reproduction & contraception thing works.
 

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I know people I know but I just needed to know and I didn't understand why she hasn't I thought it was the birth control because we kept going and nothings happened. Not saying I want it too, but it hasnt what are the odds I knocked or could knock her up? I mean five months of fucking and nothings happened to me!

This isn't just about you.
The fact that she had her period is good. I'm going to include a link to some ovulation info, but it's unlikely she's ovulating IF she just got her period. Not impossible. Not impossible.
But, more likely she's not pregnant.*
Maybe this incident could serve as a learning tool. Do you really want to bring a child into the world because you had to have sex right now?

I don't think parents fully prepare sons about their part in fatherhood. Yes, you will be required -by law to support that baby financially. *And you need to be there emotionally so that your son / daughter knows s/he's loved. Fathers are so important.
But think ahead. You do father a child. ( by whomever ) chances are you will not have a life with this woman, sharing in common only that child.
You grow to love that child, your child, more and more. But fathers just don't have as many rights, especially if not married to mom.
You share custody of baby. The mom is dating some jerk, this jerk may not treat the baby well. You suspect, but can't prove anything. The day comes to give your child back to mom, (custody transfer ) and standing there is also her boyfriend . You're in a situation few people discuss with young men. Breaks your heart have another guy raising you child, but if he's not dad material (or worse) your options are few. *Other than to keep fighting.
There are so many difficulties in an unwanted pregnancy; babies suffer, we know.
But fathers do also, and in ways they never dreamed of. * *Moms are often left to pick up the pieces.

Ok, end of this lecture. *In the future, if she is on the pill, she cannot forget one.
Taking 2 the next day is not going to help. It's all about maintaining hormones at a particular level. You should add condoms. You have responsibility here too, all men do.

As far as grammar and punctuation in posts (personal vent) so many teens and older use texting as their primary source of communication. The goal in texting is more about getting the thought across and mistakes,typos, shorthandish words are the norm. *( I even make up new words )
Then it seems that kids never did learn how to compose a letter. *Some did, some didn't , but*
If you never use something , practice it, you forget or become very rusty.

Sex ED. *Please young'uns.... There is valid info about the body on the net( check mens forums,women's forums) you'll be a much better partner, have better sex if you understand your partners body. *Porno flicks are not the best way to understand women. *Nor men for that matter. In a perfect world we'd all be given great sex education. **

Morning after pill*Plan B One-Step®: Home

Plan B One-Step® isn't effective if you're already pregnant, and it won't terminate an existing pregnancy. Plan B One-Step® does not protect against HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Side effects may include changes in your period, nausea, lower abdominal pain, fatigue, headache, and dizziness. If your period is more than a week late, you may be pregnant. You should not take Plan B One-Step® if you are already pregnant. Plan B One-Step® should not be used as a routine birth control, as it is not as effective. If you have severe abdominal pain, you may have an ectopic pregnancy, and should get immediate medical help. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA at fda.gov/medwatch or call 1-800-FDA-1088. Click here for full product information.
****( this drug is helpful in that if the egg cannot implant into the endometrium, pregnancy cannot establish. But, it will not cause the implanted egg to expelled from the lining of the uterus, which happens in abortion. If the egg was fertilized, it never goes any further than that)

Understanding Ovulation : American Pregnancy Association

All About My Vagina : F.A.Q.

------>>>*Women: Sex Tips, Hot Pics, and Relationship Advice from MensHealth.com | Men's Health
Very good site for men and women.
 

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I know people I know but I just needed to know and I didn't understand why she hasn't I thought it was the birth control because we kept going and nothings happened. Not saying I want it too, but it hasnt what are the odds I knocked or could knock her up? I mean five months of fucking and nothings happened to me!

I fucked a guy for two years straight when I was 18 to 20. Never got pregnant. Just because you fuck all the time doesn't mean you can or will get pregnant either. Some people just can't.
 

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Umm...are you going to actually follow the recommendations? Do you understand what you two should and should not be doing now? Is there anything else we can help you with?
 

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Umm...are you going to actually follow the recommendations? Do you understand what you two should and should not be doing now? Is there anything else we can help you with?
+1

You never answered (i think) what type of birth control she is using? This would be helpful to know.