I know people I know but I just needed to know and I didn't understand why she hasn't I thought it was the birth control because we kept going and nothings happened. Not saying I want it too, but it hasnt what are the odds I knocked or could knock her up? I mean five months of fucking and nothings happened to me!
This isn't just about you.
The fact that she had her period is good. I'm going to include a link to some ovulation info, but it's unlikely she's ovulating IF she just got her period. Not impossible. Not impossible.
But, more likely she's not pregnant.*
Maybe this incident could serve as a learning tool. Do you really want to bring a child into the world because you had to have sex right now?
I don't think parents fully prepare sons about their part in fatherhood. Yes, you will be required -by law to support that baby financially. *And you need to be there emotionally so that your son / daughter knows s/he's loved. Fathers are so important.
But think ahead. You do father a child. ( by whomever ) chances are you will not have a life with this woman, sharing in common only that child.
You grow to love that child, your child, more and more. But fathers just don't have as many rights, especially if not married to mom.
You share custody of baby. The mom is dating some jerk, this jerk may not treat the baby well. You suspect, but can't prove anything. The day comes to give your child back to mom, (custody transfer ) and standing there is also her boyfriend . You're in a situation few people discuss with young men. Breaks your heart have another guy raising you child, but if he's not dad material (or worse) your options are few. *Other than to keep fighting.
There are so many difficulties in an unwanted pregnancy; babies suffer, we know.
But fathers do also, and in ways they never dreamed of. * *Moms are often left to pick up the pieces.
Ok, end of this lecture. *In the future, if she is on the pill, she cannot forget one.
Taking 2 the next day is not going to help. It's all about maintaining hormones at a particular level. You should add condoms. You have responsibility here too, all men do.
As far as grammar and punctuation in posts (personal vent) so many teens and older use texting as their primary source of communication. The goal in texting is more about getting the thought across and mistakes,typos, shorthandish words are the norm. *( I even make up new words )
Then it seems that kids never did learn how to compose a letter. *Some did, some didn't , but*
If you never use something , practice it, you forget or become very rusty.
Sex ED. *Please young'uns.... There is valid info about the body on the net( check mens forums,women's forums) you'll be a much better partner, have better sex if you understand your partners body. *Porno flicks are not the best way to understand women. *Nor men for that matter. In a perfect world we'd all be given great sex education. **
Morning after pill*
Plan B One-Step®: Home
Plan B One-Step® isn't effective if you're already pregnant, and it won't terminate an existing pregnancy. Plan B One-Step® does not protect against HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Side effects may include changes in your period, nausea, lower abdominal pain, fatigue, headache, and dizziness. If your period is more than a week late, you may be pregnant. You should not take Plan B One-Step® if you are already pregnant. Plan B One-Step® should not be used as a routine birth control, as it is not as effective. If you have severe abdominal pain, you may have an ectopic pregnancy, and should get immediate medical help. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA at fda.gov/medwatch or call 1-800-FDA-1088. Click here for full product information.
****( this drug is helpful in that if the egg cannot implant into the endometrium, pregnancy cannot establish. But, it will not cause the implanted egg to expelled from the lining of the uterus, which happens in abortion. If the egg was fertilized, it never goes any further than that)
Understanding Ovulation : American Pregnancy Association
All About My Vagina : F.A.Q.
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