yes, and it is also why so many people are in the closet
And this is what i do not understand..there are so many women who are openminded..why not choose to be with those women?..instead of hiding out in something that's only hurtful to yourself and not to mention your partner thats been kept ignorant from your desires/needs.
Many people crave to be in a relationship, but we don't always get what we want (right away), many times it takes work, patience and perseverance..you know. To me hiding out..nowadays is the easy way out and I have zero respect for that..I'm sorry.
Maybe or probably its my own insecurity in this matter, but when it comes down to bi-sexuality all I can think of is..'ok when is this going to end'. Like there is more uncertainty there than in every other kind of relationship. Maybe that's ridiculous..and maybe it's not. I am still confused about it all.. I perceive Bi-ness as a sexual thing and comes down to my own experiences witnessing the behaviours of people around me that are in bi-relationships. That might be ignorant in itself, but that is how i see it.
If I would have more experience or proof that it was something that is more a matter of the heart..more spiritual..like someone who has a big heart and can just see the beauty in all genders, but sticks to the love they have for 1 person whether its a man or a woman.
If i would have more experience with that, I would definately be open to a bi-guy. Because I wouldn't care about their past at all. But i perceive Bi-men in this case as very restless...always wandering..
So no..