Question for women who identify as size queens

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Hi

So I just recently realized I am above average and its been kind of shock. Its lead me to re-evaluate some experiences in my life.

In the past I was with a woman that was extremely complimentary about my size and penis in general. I had compliments before, but this girl was next level. Always saying things and randomly texting me about it etc. She also liked and came from really intense cervix pounding (her words). Looking back I am wondering if this girl was a "size queen". The thing is is that I am not huge, just above average. Like 6.75x5 so I didn't think I would qualify for a girl who identified that way.

For the woman in this site who do consider themselves "size queens" what is the size you are looking for? How important is the requirement? Also what is the turn on in regards to size? Is it physical or more visual/psychological?

Thanks for taking the time to read my question.

Also to the mods what are the rules about cross-posting on this forum? I was hoping to post this in a more general forum if that would be allowed.
 

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Well, you're bigger than many porn stars, so there might a reason for her comments.

I think we all have our different reasons to prefer bigger cocks. Doubt you will find a single common reason.

As for cross posting, if you look for women to answer, you have found the right thread. If you're looking for guys mansplaining what we should think you can post it anywhere else on the entire site. After all, we all know men understand us and our bodies way better than us.
 

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Hi thanks for replying.

Bigger than many pornstars? I want to believe that haha. It's nice for the ego, but how do you know that?

Makes sense that there would be various reasons was just wondering if that might be a common reason for girls who like bigger because it was kind of a unique taste in my experience.

The girl who explained to me I was above average said most girls like it bigger but don't say it out of politeness. She also said it's also not that big of a deal for most girls and only a smaller minority of girls like really huge or really need bigger. I thought maybe that's why I haven't met any other women that liked really hard cervix pressure. Does that make sense?

Of course all of that could be wrong. She is the only girl I have talked to about how size effects sex for women so it might just be her opinion. Honestly I'm kind of a late bloomer and it's not an easy subject to talk about without seeming like a douchebag so I don't really know what to think.

I really appreciate your feedback. I definitely would rather hear from women directly. I thought maybe guys here night have had similar experiences but yeah they could have just as many misconceptions as I do.
 

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I doubt very much she really meant her cervix. Most men can reach a cervix with a finger, and many women report cervical contact as uncomfortable. She most likely meant the deepest spot, which is the posterior fornix.

But they don't teach this well in school. They tell us the cervix is at the end, when it's more accurate to say it's on the front, near the end. Of course, she could very well know all of this, and have spoken completely accurately for herself, it just doesn't seem probable. If you ever felt a little pop, and then like you were in another chamber, that's you getting your erection behind (Behind! NOT through!) her cervix into the posterior fornix. This is easier during some parts of a menstrual cycle than others, and while many women like this, others do not.

I happen to love it, but I'm not really a size queen. I don't have a firm preference, but I'm beginning to find average and slightly above average easier to adjust to and recover from. I liked very deep, very hard pounding a lot when I was younger, but I think my vagina is changing as I age. Things that used to feel good hurt now. Hurts I used to enjoy take too long to recover. But I am veering off topic.
 

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The average length of a vagina is 10 cm do the math beyond that she expand to an extra inch or so during arousal but the rest of it is just stretching with each thrust to make it fit your dick.

During arousal the upper vagina opens up and the cervix moves out of the way to where it doesn't receive direct battering from a penis for a reason because a great majority of women find that to be extremely painful. I'm with a e on this one
 

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Yeah I have definitely felt that other chamber kind of feeling. It kind of feels like it's squeezing the front of the head a bit. It's actually a really good feeling because it rubs on the sensitive part of the head where the foreskin attaches on the bottom. It can be pretty intense.

Honestly though I never really felt it with the girl who liked really hard pounding that I am talking about. I might have been going there it's just that moving that fast and hard can make it more difficult to discern specific sensations like that. The times I've noticed that is when I've kept it real deep and moved slow. That's when I've felt that pop/chamber kind of sensation.

Its kind of sounding like this girl was just unique in how rough and deep liked it all the time. Not necessarily related to size in any specific way. I guess I'll never know haha.
 

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Feeling that sensation depends how far out of the way the cervix moves during arousal. This varies from woman to woman, and from week to week. It also depends upon the angle of entry.

Like I wrote earlier, I liked very rough, deep sex when I was younger, but it was definitely pressure ajd percussion to my posterior fornix I enjoyed, not contact with my cervix. Many women (I cannot speak to whether or not "many" means "majority" in this case) enjoy rough contact with the posterior fornix. I wouldn't describe this as unique at all. I still like it, but my vaginal entroitus seems to be smaller, less flexible, and thinner skinned, making thicker girths less comfortable, and I am also more comfortable with the minimum length needed to reach the posterior fornix or less, than with a partner that will cause deeper stretching. Just to clarify.