I was wondering when a woman looks at a man and decides to want a baby with him. Like genetically the man has traits, physical, etc., that she herself would like to pass on. Or if the woman feels the child would be a result of their love. Myself the attraction would be to the woman initially and the child would ideally be a result of my love for her and the love and respect between us. Of course I would want a healthy child, but curious of some women's opinions.