I'll try to keep this short and to the point without going into too much detail...very basically, I'm just at my wit's end. I'm gay, and I recently found out one of my best friends goes both ways. Now, he doesn't want anyone to know...I understand that. If he ever decides to tell people that's one thing, it's not for me to go and tell people. But to make matters worse, (or better?) we fooled around...a few times. I always said that I never would fool around with him because I know emotions would come into play, and they have. I've not done anything with him for awhile, and I really am curious. Number one, how should I approach this? I mean I don't want to just come out and be blunt and say, ''So when are we gonna have a gay ole time?'' I kinda wanna just allude to it...number two, what if he tries the whole ''I'm not bi anymore?'' He told me enough (and we did enough..) for me to know that there's no way he was just ''experimenting''...Also, how do I inform him that I've developed feelings for him? I think a part of me thinks he would rather me be blunt and straight up instead of hinting around at things, but at the same time if I do what if he...''Oh shit, I'll fool around with a dude but I don't want one having emotions!'' Meh. I just am strung out, I can't talk to any of my other friends about this. Maybe ya'll can help. What would any of you do in my situation?