Was talking to some friends the other day. The question came up that if a person was in a relationship and had oral sex by someone else. Is that considered cheating on them? Some said yes and some said no. One said if there was no intercourse then it wasn't cheating. Because she can't do oral and she wants him happy. Would like ur opinon on this subject. Is oral part of the cheating factor? All are welcome to respond to this post.