Well I think of hoohas like a mysterious frontier of magical wonders. Can't get enough of it.
Don't tell me you've never been blindfolded and played "guess what my significant other is stuffing inside of me." My ex loved it because, well, she loves big things inside of her. My wife loves it because she's "helpless" to resist the naughty things that I'm doing to her. If she's "helpless," then it's not sinful.
From the 2 posts above, I'm gathering that it's more of the skin texture, hardness of finger bones, and finger nails that causes the discomfort during removal. So, then any advice for extraction post-orgasm?
I've been trying to get my wife to let me use lube, but she's resistant because she has this stigma that lube and stuff like that is only used by sexual deviants. During her pregnancy, she did allow me to use baby oil to facilitate childbirth preparation stretches, and only because our lamaze instructor told us to. With lube, I managed to get 6 fingers inside of her, which she thoroughly enjoyed (no, I do not have extra fingers on one hand. It was 3 from each). I'm obligated to inform you that it was solely for the purpose of childbirth preparation. Her orgasms were merely unavoidable side effects of said preparation exercises.
So, with lube out of the question, any tips? I tried getting her close, and pulling out all but one finger right before she comes, but that takes away from her orgasm. Would intentionally stretching her out more during the fingering help?
Don't tell me you've never been blindfolded and played "guess what my significant other is stuffing inside of me." My ex loved it because, well, she loves big things inside of her. My wife loves it because she's "helpless" to resist the naughty things that I'm doing to her. If she's "helpless," then it's not sinful.
What I'm trying to establish is that, why is it possible to feel ejaculation, and presence/lack of foreskin, and yet may not be able to discern the quantity of fingers inserted. Then, after orgasm, fingers of less combined girth than a penis would cause pain, while a thicker penis doesn't.There is a difference between fingers, which have bones, and a 'boner', which does not. Also, fingers have nails, and nails can scratch. If someone female has just come, her interior is very sensitive, full of blood supply engorged tissues. Really, the way you were speaking about stuffing things up your women, one would think you are used to considering a hoohah some sort of magic bag in which a universe can be concealed. Think of it more like the interior of your mouth or nose-- or rectum if you swing that way. Any tissue that secretes is delicate.
Ms. Helgaleena is throwing down vag whisperer wisdom here.
plus, finger skin is nowhere near as soft as penis skin *so soft*
even if she is lubricated, the friction can irritate.
is there anything that might be on your hands? harsher soaps, lotions or the like? some things hand friendly are not jenny friendly.
is just her thing, ya know what she likes/doesn't like. ya just gotta go with it. be careful when you pull out. guess the same holds true with fingers.
ya might want to bring in some water based lube. is a lil extra slippery might help.
From the 2 posts above, I'm gathering that it's more of the skin texture, hardness of finger bones, and finger nails that causes the discomfort during removal. So, then any advice for extraction post-orgasm?
I've been trying to get my wife to let me use lube, but she's resistant because she has this stigma that lube and stuff like that is only used by sexual deviants. During her pregnancy, she did allow me to use baby oil to facilitate childbirth preparation stretches, and only because our lamaze instructor told us to. With lube, I managed to get 6 fingers inside of her, which she thoroughly enjoyed (no, I do not have extra fingers on one hand. It was 3 from each). I'm obligated to inform you that it was solely for the purpose of childbirth preparation. Her orgasms were merely unavoidable side effects of said preparation exercises.
So, with lube out of the question, any tips? I tried getting her close, and pulling out all but one finger right before she comes, but that takes away from her orgasm. Would intentionally stretching her out more during the fingering help?