Question: methods of straight oral for a fairly hung guy

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by totallyaveragedude, Jan 24, 2009.

  1. totallyaveragedude

    totallyaveragedude New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2009
    Messages:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Boston
    First off, 'Hello!'.. I'm new here, just found this website today as I was searching for a few answers, tips, tricks, etc for a nagging problem I've had my whole life.

    I'm a 25 yo straight (fairly) dude with a 8.5" long and 6" girth. I've probably hooked up with 20 or so girls, all have given me head at some point (some many many times as I dated them for years) but none of them have been successful in getting me off. Some of them were claimed veterans and some were novice. Alot demonstrated fairly creative stuff, and some were fairly straight forward and inexperienced.

    Anyways, I've never gotten off to head in my 7 years of sexual activity. I was wondering if any of you (straight or gay) have any tips or ideas or personal experience relating to my issue.

    I've read on here that it's 90% mental and 10% physical, which makes total sense. So you think it's a mental block? Or is it something common for guys with extra mass between their legs?

    Thanks! :biggrin1:
     
  2. D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead

    D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Jan 9, 2008
    Messages:
    8,978
    Likes Received:
    11
    Wow ... I don't want to bring down this thread too much, but I have never, ever gotten off from a BJ ... ever. And I'm in my early 50s, and have had sex for 36 years.

    I just always thought it was me. I like getting head, and like going down on my partners, but just never got off that way.


    (BTW ... welcome, totallyaveragedude!)
     
  3. Industrialsize

    Staff Member Moderator Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2006
    Messages:
    24,279
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    2,113
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    United States
    I'm above average and almost ALWAYS get off from a BJ........It's my favorite way to get off!.........just relax and enjoy the sensation, don't "try" to get off, just let it happen.
     
  4. totallyaveragedude

    totallyaveragedude New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2009
    Messages:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Boston
    Thanks for the responses!
     
  5. MH07

    MH07 Member

    Joined:
    Aug 5, 2004
    Messages:
    438
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    14
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Houston
    I can't remember ever getting off from a bj in my 36 years of sexual activity.

    It's nice, and fun, and great for foreplay (and I love giving them) but it doesn't get me off.
     
  6. thadjock

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 11, 2006
    Messages:
    2,675
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    271
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    LA CA USA
    u just need a gay dude to suk u off, i gaurantee you'll cum hard if you have an experienced dude who luvs to suk big cock go down on u.

    I've been with plenty of chicks and dudes and i know it sounds like a cliche but only a dude knows exactly how to suk a cock, alot of chicks will try and i've even had some great bj's from girls that were really good, but they're not that common.

    let down your guard and give it a try, all debate aside, letting a dude suk ur cock doesnt' mean that you're gay. a good cocksuker will make you feel like he's sukin ur nuts out through your dik when you cum.

    try it , you'll like it.
     
  7. D_Pubert Stabbingpain

    D_Pubert Stabbingpain Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2007
    Messages:
    2,194
    Likes Received:
    8
    Welcome to lpsg! :smile:
    Industrialsize is correct, relax. No thrusting and no trying to work up your orgasm. Let them do *all* the work! :biggrin1:
    Best to ask them first if it is ok for you to shoot your hot creamy load in their mouth. Worrying about whether or not they like it, unless they are a "master," can keep you from blowing.
    Also, if you are getting enough tongue and sucking action up in your frenulum and around your corona (the 2 most sensitive spots) and you still don't blow, have her stick a finger in your ass and massage your prostate. You'll blow then!
    Have fun!
    :smile:
     
  8. D_Bertrand Ballfloot

    Joined:
    Oct 18, 2004
    Messages:
    77
    Likes Received:
    1
    I'm uncut and get off easily from blow jobs. Most of the cut guys I meet are surprised that I can cum that way. So I think it is common for cut guys to have trouble cumming from blow jobs.
     
  9. D_Pubert Stabbingpain

    D_Pubert Stabbingpain Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2007
    Messages:
    2,194
    Likes Received:
    8
    The best BJ I have ever had was from a 100% straight dude so I would say to go with a man, period. I know what you are talking about, sucking your nuts out. The dude sucked me so fucking good and hard that I could literally feel the cum, spurt after aching spurt, each spurt working its way up and jetting itself out. It was probably the first time I felt and *knew* the difference between the orgasm and the ejaculation. He had me shooting so fucking hard it was much, MUCH better than the orgasm!
    It seemed like it lasted forever and when I was done, he just kept sucking real deep. Whew! Did I ever sleep good that night! :biggrin1:
    BTW thad, great pix! :smile:
     
    #9 D_Pubert Stabbingpain, Jan 24, 2009
    Last edited: Jan 24, 2009
  10. D_Andreas Sukov

    D_Andreas Sukov Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Oct 6, 2008
    Messages:
    2,933
    Likes Received:
    3
    he is right dont force the ejaculation. i did that and when i stood up i almost collapsed.:rolleyes:
     
  11. D_Pubert Stabbingpain

    D_Pubert Stabbingpain Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2007
    Messages:
    2,194
    Likes Received:
    8
    :rofl:

    Great pix littlelemon! :smile:
     
  12. MarkLondon

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 11, 2008
    Messages:
    1,986
    Albums:
    4
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    London, UK
    My tip is to not just stand, sit or lie there and expect the mouth (or throat, if you're lucky) get you off. Connect with the sucker: wrap your legs around their torso; caress their head and neck, but don't push them down on you unless they're happy with a dom/sub thing; reach down and play with their nipples. One way or another make it more than a mechanical act.

    Oh, and get them to use their tongue and lips too. It not just sucking!
     
    #12 MarkLondon, Jan 24, 2009
    Last edited: Jan 24, 2009
  13. cbrmale

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 20, 2008
    Messages:
    1,442
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    15
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canberra, Australia
    I will agree with the tongue and lips comment. Beyond that, I've only gotten off a couple of times in my life, two women who were expert and who wanted to get me off.

    I like oral on me as part of what many call foreplay, and my wife is fantastic at what she does, so I am very happy about that side of my sex life. I don't think my wife tries anything special but she manages to take about 90% of my 7" x 6", which is an impressive thing to watch.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted