Just a question that's been on my mind...obviously, when I met my wife, things were all very exciting, and we wanted each other all the time and I was always hard...even after masturbating not but a couple hours before. Now I can get hard looking at pornos here and not even cum, but a few hours later, not be able to maintain an erection. My wife tends to blame herself for this, and in all honesty, while she is an impossibly sweet person and cute, but fairly overweight, as she was when I married her. I also have a past dabbling with men. So the question is, for you married guys, particularly any that have had same-sex experiences, how long was it before the passion wore off for you? Should I still be hard as a rock 2 years later every single time she wants me? Is it normal that I'm not? It worries me, because I want her to be happy, and I want to be hard all the time for her, but I'm simply not. Any comments or advice are welcome.