Question to bottoms... (I know... another one)

[tiamold]

I know you all hate talking about bottom things... but I just thought of something totally interesting today...

So for bottoms...
How would you feel about this:
You meet the top of your dreams... he is amazing in every way... the only problem is... he does not like to see your cock and does not allow you to cum during sex... ever... he won't even touch you there... he lets you worship his body, his cock, his ass, whatever... but he in no way will rim you, suck you, touch your cock, and when you have sex he makes you wear a jockstrap so he cannot see your cock... and he slaps your hands when you try to touch yourself... and he won't allow you to orgasm...

Is this something that you would live with? or no?
Does it turn you on? or no?
Would you ever be with a top like this?

 

[ges]

Surely, no such person exists. Even if I were a total bottom, I would not tolerate that - there are enough selfish guys out there already.

 

[IntentsOfCare]

Never in a million years, the idea rubs me the wrong way. I'd tell him to go fuck himself or go on fetlife (a place where someone will be into all of the above).

 

[tiamold]

What if it was just a fuck buddy instead of a BF?

 

[longskin]

1, No
2, No
3, No

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

the only way i would accept that would be if he was Romantic, sucked on my nipples and rimmed by ass. but you said he wouldn't so no way. he can fuck himself.

 

[tiamold]

Ok what if he did everything else except he hated seeing your cock... and he had to leave the room for you to cum?

 

[hairynyc]

You meet the top of your dreams... he is amazing in every way... the only problem is... he does not like to see your cock and does not allow you to cum during sex... ever... he won't even touch you there... he lets you worship his body, his cock, his ass, whatever... but he in no way will rim you, suck you, touch your cock, and when you have sex he makes you wear a jockstrap so he cannot see your cock... and he slaps your hands when you try to touch yourself... and he won't allow you to orgasm...

Are you kidding me?

"I've met the most amazing man. The only problem is he's a complete fucking nightmare who doesn't want me to enjoy myself at all. But other than that he's wonderful!"

Ok what if he did everything else except he hated seeing your cock... and he had to leave the room for you to cum?

This dude sounds like a serial killer waiting to snap.

 

[tiamold]

Wow I was just trying to get opinions... lol... I was just asking

 

[IntentsOfCare]

WTS!? XD had to leave the room for you to cum? XD OMG LMAO! What the actual fuck lol? You almost had me sold, because I actually can't stand oral, but him leaving the room for me to cum brings up some for real seriel killer vibes. If he didn't care much for my dick I wouldn't be butthurt because I'm not my dick's biggest fan but I thought the point of a relationship was so that you didn't have to cum alone anymore....

 

[tiamold]

Ok so maybe he doesn't leave the room, but he doesn't like it... he wants you to clean it up asap. lol

 

[zvmiller89]

Hell to the no...

 

[B_smooth_7]

I met a guy sort of like this. No kissing, no rimming, nothing but doggy style sex. He'd cum and that's it. All done. The first time I thought was just a fluke but when it happened the second time, I called it quits. While I am somewhat submissive to tops this went beyond what I like or enjoy.

 

[IntentsOfCare]

Ok so maybe he doesn't leave the room, but he doesn't like it... he wants you to clean it up asap. lol

Lol is there something you want to tell us?

 

[tiamold]

No I just was asking...
to be honest I have kinda met guys like this before... I am not into it... but I guess maybe some people are?

 

[IntentsOfCare]

Yeah there are people who are very much into that, giving and recieveing. I guess I have far too much self respect to be used like that. I once had an oral only top trying and convince me that we should date. A, we didn't have anything in common and B, hate oral and wasn't going to waste my time with it if he didnt' want to satisfy my wants.

 

[tiamold]

I had a guy tell me we couldn't date because my penis was bigger than his, and he is a top...

I was like... umm....
Wtf?

 

[IntentsOfCare]

I had a guy tell me we couldn't date because my penis was bigger than his, and he is a top...

I was like... umm....
Wtf?

LMAO That is some bullshit. People hold on to these ideas for some reason. I can understand a fantasy... really I can but reality is where we live lol.

 

[AlexanderCA]

I've met guys like that too, but they have always been married or in a relationship with a female. And it was a one time thing. I certainly would not tolerate that if he wanted to be in a serious relationship with me. Admiration, interest and appreciation for one another should be the only way for me.

 

[tiamold]

Ugh i hate married or guys with girlfriends.... Its like get over it... She doesnt make you happy!