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This one's for str8 guys who have or have had regular j/o buddies. How has jacking with your friend changed you relationship? Is it better now, worse, no different? Please don't get on on here saying if you do it you're not really straight, try to stay on topic please.
 

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I have a buddy that I Jerk Off with every once and awhile. We've been friends since high school. No it doesnt affect our "relationship" were still like "brothers" and were both str8. Though after we j/o we don't talk about it or anything. Its just us strictly j/o next to each other walking str8 porn. There's no touching or anything like that.
 

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A lot of guys do this... Contrary to what anyone else says! If you are friends before, then nothing changes, as long as you set parameters on the situation before jerking together. Some people think is is "gay", but that is a matter of opinion. Just be careful bringing it up to your friends. Bring it up casually first, and gauge their reaction. Then either procede by asking, or terminate the idea due to their objection. Beer and having a porn going to help gauge the situation, from my own experiences...
 

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A lot of guys do this... Contrary to what anyone else says! If you are friends before, then nothing changes, as long as you set parameters on the situation before jerking together. Some people think is is "gay", but that is a matter of opinion. Just be careful bringing it up to your friends. Bring it up casually first, and gauge their reaction. Then either procede by asking, or terminate the idea due to their objection. Beer and having a porn going to help gauge the situation, from my own experiences...
Just about havin, fun that's all.
 

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with my brother but only with our friend one time. we dont talk about it and never mentioned it since like it never happened.
 

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This one's for str8 guys who have or have had regular j/o buddies. How has jacking with your friend changed you relationship? Is it better now, worse, no different? Please don't get on on here saying if you do it you're not really straight, try to stay on topic please.


So far it hasn't but I don't do it as frequently as I did when I was in high school. I think the most important aspect of this is trusting the other guy. If you have that trust, then jerking off together is just sharing another aspect of your friendship. If it becomes more intimate, then it's something you might want to discuss with each other and find out where things are going.
 

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So far it hasn't but I don't do it as frequently as I did when I was in high school. I think the most important aspect of this is trusting the other guy. If you have that trust, then jerking off together is just sharing another aspect of your friendship. If it becomes more intimate, then it's something you might want to discuss with each other and find out where things are going.

Good point Jon. Trusting each other is very important, and the jerking does become part of the relationship if you both are into it. Plus, trusting each other breaks some of the issues that some guys may have about doing this with another guy- like how far the jerking goes and such.