Question to the bottoms

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by SR_Festus Salmonodor, Jan 13, 2010.

  1. SR_Festus Salmonodor

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    Me and my girl friend starting using a strap on during our play times. We started out with a small 4 inch dildo which i can take no problem. We have a slightly bigger dildo but i have alot of trouble with it. Any advice on how to get comfortable with larger dildos?
     
  2. latinluva

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    Practice with it when your alone, your ass will get use to it. Lots of lube though.
     
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    I agree with latinluva, but want to add that the best lube to use is a silicon and waterbase combination...
    It assists with the ease in the glide...
    Enjoy.
     
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    not alot to it just echo what the other guys have said practice on your own, lots and lots of lube and TAKE YOUR TIME theres no need to rush these things you know ;)
     
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    so, im curious, if you meet a guy, and you get around to just talking about sex on the phone, and he says "top or bottom", what does that mean excatly? he said he was a bottom, doesnt that mean he likes to get fucked in the ass? bisexual? very confusing, had never heard that before
     
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    bottom means he is passive and likes to be fucked in the ass!

    Yeah lots of lube and relaxation is the key to a good fuck!
     
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    just use lots of lube and relax and enjoy!
     
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    In a str8 context I would say it was him asking if you as a women, like to be on the bottom in a position such as missionary, or if you like to be on top and ride his cock...

    Without further information, I really doubt that it had anything to do with anal sex... at least not in this context...
     
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    well Again practice and lube, Wet platinum is probobly the best lube, take it slow, remember to breathe and not hold your breath and tesne up. Additionally, the type of toys you use can cause different issues, avoid solid plastic ones, try something that has some give, (like jelly style ones) Or look for ones that they call "UR3" some of the rubber ones can be a bit stiff with no give and the rubber can cause irritation. good luck
     
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    So I'm curious, now that this topic is rolling. My BF is all top. I don't mind but from time to time I want to top him. He just won't go ther - though we tried and he just screams it hurts. He claims my cock is too big for him but I'm 7" and not really thick - average I'd say. How do you convince someome that it's fair to reverse roles from time to time?
     
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    Lube of course, but breathing makes a huge difference. Slow, deep breathing really helps relaxing you.
     
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    it's complex. the size a guy can take is relative, which i guess is why size matters in anal sex.

    I guess it's knowing one's limit, in terms of pain and pleasure, if that makes sense. Knowing one's limit pain wise simply means knowing what size of prick/dildo would cause pain. Knowing the pleasure limit is simply knowing which size gets you going. A six inch cock/dildo could be the limit for some. For others, an eight inch wang may be the key to a good shafting, from the bottom's perspective.
     
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