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I'm a top and a majority of my hookups the bottom cums pretty quickly, within 2 minutes. My question is: is this common? Could I as a top do something to make the experience last longer? Maybe different positions? Do I just see this as a compliment? I've never bottomed before so I just wanted to make sure I'm being a good top.
 

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There are some bottoms, who are so excited at seeing a large penis that they lose control quickly, and, ejaculate within a few minutes.

If you want the encounter to last longer, consider incorporating foreplay into the act. That has worked for me in situations, where I wanted it to last. Also, don't let them see your dong; rather, let them feel it first. Rub it along the crack of the ass, gently poking at it.
 

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I'm a top and a majority of my hookups the bottom cums pretty quickly, within 2 minutes. My question is: is this common? Could I as a top do something to make the experience last longer? Maybe different positions? Do I just see this as a compliment? I've never bottomed before so I just wanted to make sure I'm being a good top.
Don't allow him to masturbate. I'm not allowed to, why should he be
 

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I'm a bottom I guess. I haven't cum from being topped yet. Admittedly it's only been two different men but still... it did feel amazing mentally that they enjoyed me so much and they cum in like 2 mins. I just haven't gotten much pleasure physically
 
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There are some bottoms, who are so excited at seeing a large penis that they lose control quickly, and, ejaculate within a few minutes.

If you want the encounter to last longer, consider incorporating foreplay into the act. That has worked for me in situations, where I wanted it to last. Also, don't let them see your dong; rather, let them feel it first. Rub it along the crack of the ass, gently poking at it.

Yes the last guy wanted me to fuck him badly. He couldn't put the condom on me fast enough. He had a massive cock. Might be the biggest one I've ever seen. He said he was a top so I figured we'd just suck each other off. But he rode me for maybe a minute and a half and cam all over my chest. Really took me by surprise. All hands free too. I do find this happens a lot. Do you have this same "problem"?
 
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Yes the last guy wanted me to fuck him badly. He couldn't put the condom on me fast enough. He had a massive cock. Might be the biggest one I've ever seen. He said he was a top so I figured we'd just suck each other off. But he rode me for maybe a minute and a half and cam all over my chest. Really took me by surprise. All hands free too. I do find this happens a lot. Do you have this same "problem"?

Sounds like you have a magic dick or the skills of a god. Most bottoms dream of being able to cum handsfree.

At best I merely flow precum when being topped, no matter how large my partner is. Sometimes it'll flow by the bucketful if he's thick and repeatedly pressuring my prostate, but never actual orgasm.
 
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Sounds like you have a magic dick or the skills of a god. Most bottoms dream of being able to cum handsfree.

At best I merely flow precum when being topped, no matter how large my partner is. Sometimes it'll flow by the bucketful if he's thick and repeatedly pressuring my prostate, but never actual orgasm.
I wouldn’t say it’s magic. It is a thick one. So I’m told that helps. But now I want to start calling it a magic dick.
 

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It's common

if a bottom strokes while I fuck him
If I stroke him while I fuck him
if he hasn't ejaculated in a few days or longer
if it's a quickie.

It's much less common opposite those.

A lot depends on the individual. Some guys are so excited they come during foreplay or the moment I get into them. Some guys take a long time even while stroking themselves. Some start and stop stroking to extend their bliss before coming.

Some guys are one-and-done. Some are in it for multiples. That may depend on time and situation which is easily communicated during or in advance. Lots of bottoms want to get me off before they do. Some do not come from penetration at all. The variety is amazing.