Question: Which do You Prefer in a Partner?

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Question: What do you prefer in a partner most for the long haul?
A. Physical chemistry (big boobs/cock, attractive face/body)
B. Intellectual synch
C. Spiritual bond
D. Emotional support +a sense of humor
E. Need it all
 
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I really can't be with someone im not attracted too no matter how great the rest is. but i really can't deal without having good banter and being on the same wave length as my partner. I'm pretty independent though so i dont really need a lot of support from my partner and I really don't feel a spirtual bond is that important either.
 

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A,B & D for me. When it comes to looks, I just need to find the person attractive, not everyone else. I also prefer a man taller than me, I am 6ft, though does not have to be.

When it comes down to, its mostly how the person would treat me.
 

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Question: What do you prefer in a partner most for the long haul?
A. Physical chemistry (big boobs/cock, attractive face/body)
B. Intellectual synch
C. Spiritual bond
D. Emotional support
E. Need it all

A, B and D. A because it's most of the time the first impression that you get. B, very important, someone who knows what they are saying and have intresting things to tell. C because I need to tell things that are going in my mind, but I also like to listen and help and support.
 

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E, of course.
But, with B and D in place, I think A would eventually happen.

Switch C to something like honesty, maturity, or an awareness of how much you mean to them and desire to bring you into their life, and I'd add it.
 

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I should have specified that the spiritual bond is not necessarily a religious thing; I'm a Christian but I'm not into organized religions. One can have a spiritual bond that has nothing to do with "religion". I need them all, plus the honesty/integrity/loyalty/maturity/appreciation I feel is a given in an intimate relationship.

I tend to "give it all, holding nothing back", so I need reciprocation in order for the relationship not to be just me doing all the giving. These are very interesting answers to me. Thanks to all who are responding!
 

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I don't really do "long hauls" but the couple of times it's happened boils down to where I happen to be in life at that time and whether the girl has a sense of humor.

I'm not "spiritual" in any sense of the word so no on that one, not that emotional, so no. Um intellect is fine but I just dumped a chick who was really intellectual but never trimmed her snatch so that's a no :D

Umm I dunno! Pheromones?
 

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Question: What do you prefer in a partner most for the long haul?
A. Physical chemistry (big boobs/cock, attractive face/body)
B. Intellectual synch
C. Spiritual bond
D. Emotional support
E. Need it all

Physical and emotional chemistry, but I don't care about dick size !!!
 

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D. Emotional support
A. Physical chemistry (big boobs/cock, attractive face/body)
B. Intellectual synch
C. Spiritual bond

E. Need it all

In that order, but to me A is not big boobs or cock, it is a girl that when I kiss her my cock rises faster than an 18 year old on viagra.

BTW I don't need big boobs, for me it is a tight body, small boobs normally are part of that.
 

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Checking in to say I left out sense of humor (I'm too damn serious/intense),
but it should also be included. Shall we make it DD? (pun intended)