Hope you're right; I want you to be right, but I have *never* had a relationship with a man in which I didn't do almost all the giving. I need someone to take care of me for a change, with me giving in abundance but also having a man who can appreciate me and all I have to give, because I'm a well of depth, complex, and I have a helluva lot to offer. Afraid it's too late in life for me, but thanks for words of encouragement.
I'm truly happy for you, that you found it! How wonderful!
Not trying to add another cliche to your thread :08:, but, it is never too late.
The best advice I ever received was from a woman that did not meet the love of her life until she was in her late 50s - she advised a group of us to identify whatever was making us unhappy or holding us back in life, make a list of those things along with what we desired, and make changes accordingly.
She said once your life resembles what you desire, not a perfect existence, but comfortable in who you are, others who are in the same place will be attracted to that positive energy.
She was one of my father's best friends and I barely remembered her because she spent her whole life trying to figure out how to alter herself to fit what others wanted, sacrificing to keep the peace (her 1st husband was a real ass), support others and make them happy, and seemed slightly angry and bitter for it.
But, once she stopped thinking of what she needed to change for others and started doing things that fulfilled her, made her smile, and brought back her joy of life (including leaving the ass), her current husband found her.
He was attracted to her inner happiness, strength, and amazing spirit, but she said if she had not made the changes in her life that fed her spirit, he never would have noticed her. I can say that she was like the shell of the vibrant woman that she is now, and rather than hoping others see what she has to offer, you can't help but notice that she radiates warmth, strength, and everything lovely.
Not saying that everything will immediately fall into place, because it took her several years, but I believe in her advice. Although, I may take a detour every now and again :08:, I apply her advice to my life and feel happiness, openness, and self-contentedness all help attract good people to you.
I wish you the best! :hug: